2. The ugly duckling will become a swan, Cinderella will become a princess and the frog will become a prince. No matter who you meet, don't give ta a negative answer too early. Don't feel how superior you are, how handsome and beautiful you are, and you can't tell the narcissistic scores clearly, and then you simply look down on others. When you see others are small, you are not tall in others' eyes, and the distance is between the two sides. As long as your heart is quiet and happy, there is a paradise on earth, right in front of your eyes and in your heart. Narrow-minded people will never see heaven. 4. If there is an afterlife, be a tree and stand in eternity, without the gesture of sadness and joy. Half peacefully in the soil, half flying in the wind, half in the shade, half bathed in the sun, very silent and proud, never relying on or looking for it. 5, you can't control the length of life, but you can broaden the width of life; You can't control the weather, but you can change your mood; You can't predict tomorrow, but you can master today; You can't change others, but you can show your smile. 6. Be good at discovering your own shortcomings and change them as soon as possible. But don't stare at other people's shortcomings. Be strict with yourself and be lenient with others. 7, often need to experience some pain, to seriously think about the problem; Only when your heart has been burned can you learn to be strong and silent! Therefore, treat pain and sadness as the best coffee powder, think as boiling hot water, make a pot of bitter and strong coffee and drink it to help you wake up. 8. Smiling doesn't always mean you are happy. Sometimes, it just means that you are strong. 9. 1 1, sometimes people fall. Take this opportunity to look back at the road they have traveled. There is no need to rush forward. Maybe when you figure it out, you will find that the things ahead are not important at all. We all have our own needs. 10, relax occasionally, listen to some favorite music and watch some sublime movies. Now that you are busy with your life, you need to take a vacation for yourself once in a while. You can have nothing, but you can never have nothing. The maturity of any soul must be baptized and tempered by loneliness. 12, don't go around telling people about your sufferings in order to seek comfort, because others only look at the results and only care about the results. Growth is an isolated process, and you must learn to be independent. 13, no matter whether you are happy or sad, no matter whether the people you meet are good or bad, they can always teach you something and then help you become a better person. 14, truly powerful people never need to crush others, let alone show extreme strength. On the contrary, they are soft and make people feel like spring breeze, but they have their own powerful aura. With the support of wisdom and knowledge, they make people degenerate, not covered with thorns, and their thoughts are extreme, which makes people stay away from them. 15, all happiness is not without troubles, and all adversity is not without hope. Keep your mouth shut, know what you are good at, and go your own way. 16, a thing of the past, to the years to deal with; The future is left to time to prove. What we really need to do is to firmly grasp today and let today's self surpass yesterday's self. 17, you are lucky to have someone to help you; It's a just fate that no one helps you. No one should do anything for you, because life is your own and you are responsible for yourself. 18, when you see a person clearly and don't expose it, you will understand the meaning of forgiveness; Hate a person, don't turn your face, just know the greatest respect. In life, there are always people you don't like and people who don't like you. 19, whether a person lives well depends on his ability to solve problems independently. If you ask others everything, even if you are surrounded by experts, life will still be a mess. 20, life, need a little sunshine, life, need some courage, entangled in the past, worry about the future, it is better to seize the present, the past is a dream, the future is a shadow, now is the real life.