1. We will always encounter some "garbage people" in life. They are full of negative things such as anger, arrogance, revenge, jealousy, etc. Once we encounter such people, the most correct thing to do is, Just wave your hands and quickly move away from them, then continue on your own path. Don't accept their negative garbage and spread it to innocent people around us. Life is short and you should never treat them like rubbish. If you encounter such people in your life, please laugh them off.
2. Never blame others for not helping you, and never blame others for not caring about you. Living in this world, we are all independent individuals, and we have to bear the pain and suffering by ourselves. No one can truly understand you, just as no one can experience you personally. If the stone doesn't hit his feet, he will never realize how painful it is. We are all lonely travelers on the road of life, and the only one who can really help you is yourself.
3. Every step you take, it is difficult to satisfy everyone. You don’t have to worry about gains and losses in other people’s voices, and you don’t have to please anyone. Make people who care about you happy and make people who don’t like you upset. The heart is actually a very fulfilling thing. The most romantic thing we do is not becoming what others say, but always remembering who we are.
4. The more easy-going and considerate a good person is, the more steady and precise his speech will be when forced into a hurry. One sentence is worth ten thousand sentences, and he will kill no one without leaving a trace. The reason why we get along happily and comfortably on weekdays is because we are aware of other people's pain points but deliberately avoid them, so we have high emotional intelligence, we are gentle, and we are harmless. But where do so many naturally harmless things come from? They just choose not to do harm.
5. Mountains are as high as mountains, and water is as deep as water. There is no need to compare. The wind is as free as the wind, and the clouds are as gentle as the clouds. There is no need to imitate. If you think you are happy, go and find it; If you think it is worthwhile, wait for it; if you think it is happy, cherish it. There is nothing that is not commented on, and there is no person that is not speculated. Don't care too much about other people's opinions, don't pursue something too blindly, be the truest and simplest version of yourself, follow your heart, and have no regrets in this life.
6. Later we understood that what we once believed to be correct may not actually be correct. Things that we thought were particularly important are not as important as we thought. If we really treat a person, they may not care. Your good. Things in life often backfire, so don't show your heart to anyone casually, and don't be too stubborn. Nothing will never change.
7. This world is just a dream. The children you have been obsessed with all your life are just a fate for you. The family you can't let go of for the rest of your life is just a stop in your life. The feelings, fame and fortune you are chasing are just a phantom of self-awareness. When you wake up from the dream, everything is empty. The whole world is yours, and the whole world is empty.
8. Never doubt yourself because of what others say, and never look down on yourself because of who you like. All your strengths and weaknesses are prepared for people to accept you as you are. You know, everyone wants to be a better version of themselves, but that doesn’t mean you’re not worthy of being loved.
9. If you understand something, it’s heaven, but if you don’t understand it, it’s hell. Since you are alive, you must live well. Sometimes we lose more than we gain because we are too narrow-minded and care too much about the trivial things around us. Whether something can cause trouble or annoyance depends entirely on how we view and deal with it. Don't get into trouble, don't be too concerned about face, don't be petty. Not caring is a kind of open-mindedness and freedom.
10. Kindness is an advantage, but it cannot be your weakness. People in this world are willing to get close to a good person who can help them for no reason by just saying thank you. You will be more kind-hearted. It becomes weak, and it becomes natural for them to thank you too much. Once you know your rejection one day, they will definitely be disappointed. As a person, you must have your own temper and maintain a high profile. The so-called gentleness just depends on who you use it on. 18 life insights and mood phrases, each sentence is thoroughly realistic, you will understand a lot after reading it
1. Don’t arrange your life too full, and don’t design your life to be too crowded. No matter what you do, give yourself some space so that you can turn around calmly. At all times, you must remember to leave some room for life. Don't be happy when you get something, don't be depressed when you lose it, and be calm and calm between gains and losses.
2. When you reach a certain age and have too many worries, people will become taciturn. Without inner peace, there is no outer peace. In the ups and downs of life, there will always be some feelings that need to be quietly recalled; there will always be some pain that needs to be experienced alone; there will always be a journey that needs to be walked alone; there will always be some things that need to be faced calmly.
3. Life is not bitter, but what is bitter is excessive desires; an elegant life is the calmness and tranquility nourished by a calm heart, a peaceful mentality, and a plain way of living. People can run ahead of time, but don't run ahead of a peaceful heart. The environment can be chaotic, but the mind cannot be chaotic; things can be done in a hurry, but the mind cannot be anxious. The scenery of life, in the end, is the scenery of the soul.
4. Look ahead and live in the present. Life never gets easier, we just get stronger. People always say that time changes everything, but in fact we have to change ourselves.
5. Sometimes I would rather turn a blind eye. To be honest, those who see too much will be unhappy.
6. Don’t live too hard, don’t be too busy, and don’t be too tired; don’t think it’s too expensive when you want to eat, don’t say it’s a waste when you want to wear it; when you’re upset, go to a party with friends, and when you’re sleepy, just drop your head and go. sleep. A peaceful mind is always the most beautiful, and it is only right to be happy every day.
7. After experiencing prosperity, you will know that ordinary is true; looking back on the vicissitudes of life, you only want to be as ordinary as water.
8. There are only three days in life. Confused people live in yesterday, people with extravagant hopes live in tomorrow, and only clear people live in today. Yesterday has passed and it is an expired check. Tomorrow has not come yet and it is a check that cannot be withdrawn. Only living today is the most realistic thing.
9. When you realize that you are working hard, you are actually not working as hard as you think, you just look like you are working hard. You are just trying to tell others that you are working hard, and their praise will blind you. Whether you work hard or not, whether it is effective or not, you know best in your heart.
10. The biggest difficulty for people is to know themselves, and the easiest thing is to know themselves. Many times, we cannot recognize ourselves simply because we put ourselves in the wrong position and gave ourselves an illusion. Therefore, we are not afraid of bumps in the road ahead, but we are afraid of going in the wrong direction from the beginning.
11. Worrying too much will not reduce the burden of tomorrow, but will only deprive you of today's happiness.
12. Many times we think that happiness exists in the game of money and power. In life, we all have an illusion: happiness always belongs to others, and only troubles belong to us! So, we feel the so-called troubles day by day, and look for the happiness that is actually around us day by day!
13. Bearishness is a mood in life, an attitude of adhering to the duty of life. People with an indifferent mind live longer, have peace of mind and good health. Calmness means sticking to one's own gains, cherishing one's own happiness, staying aloof from the world, being simple and happy.
14. Don’t throw candies to passers-by or point your guns at your family. Good tempers are tempered and bad habits are cultivated. It is the person you love who can cure your temper. The one who can bear your temper is the one who loves you. Remember, your temper should never be greater than your ability.
15. I used to think that I was young and my parents were not yet old, so I had to work harder and be filial to my parents in the future. But later I gradually realized that every second that passes, your parents are getting older, and you and them One more day together means one less day together. To practice filial piety should start as early as possible, when you are sensible. Cherish every day you spend with your parents, whether you love them or not, you will never see them again in the next life.
16. Only those who understand themselves can truly understand the book of life, because the author of this book is himself and the reader is himself. Life depends entirely on your own awareness. Let yourself maintain a rational mind at all times so that you can read the world more rationally and comprehensively.
17. In real life, some people have beauty but cannot find happiness, have money but lose family ties, and realize dreams but lose health. Therefore, there are gains and losses in life. You cannot seek perfection and blame. The full moon and the waxing moon are the most beautiful pictures of life.
18. There are some things that we know are wrong, but we have to persist because we are not willing to accept them; there are some people that we know we love, but we have to give up because there is no ending; sometimes, We know there is no way, but we still move forward because we are used to it. Ten philosophical quotes to understand life
1. When we cry, no one comforts us, so we learn to be strong! When we are afraid, no one is with us, so we learn to be brave! There is no one to talk to when we are upset, so we learn to endure it! No one cares when we are tired, so we learn to be independent!
2. People are forced out. Under pressure, many potential wisdoms will be stimulated. There is no impossible road, no obstacle that cannot be overcome. Believe in yourself and we can all create miracles!
3. We are always used to hurting those closest to us. Because our ability is limited to hurting those around us. So, thank you for being so patient with me.
4. If you are angry, shout. If you mourn, you cry. If you love it, express it. If you like it, go for it!
5. There is no need to care about other people's comments, as long as you do your own things well; there is no need to care about other people's eyes, as long as you go your own way; there is no need to complain too much, that will make My heart is even more tired. No matter where you go or how you go, you should make yourself feel happy, but don't lose yourself.
6. If you can't carry it, you have to let it go; if you can't afford to hurt it, you have to look down on it; if you can't figure it out, you don't have to think about it; if you can't hate it, you have to heal it. What I wanted when I was a child, I wished that the whole world knew about it, as if I had already obtained it; what I want now, I am afraid that others would know, otherwise it would be as if I had lost it.
7. People are the most affectionate and the most ruthless. When we love each other, we promise to live forever. When I'm tired of it, I wish I could pull away from life immediately, cut it off, and have nothing to do with it anymore.
8. Stand up again and tell yourself, keep walking, the journey is not over yet - even if the things you pick up again have been trampled to pieces by others. Including the dignity scattered on the ground when you squat down.
9. Every outstanding person has a period of silence. During that period, I put in a lot of effort, endured isolation and loneliness, and did not complain or complain. When I talk about it in the future, even I can be moved.
10. If you can't escape or hide from the wind and rain, then face the confrontation head-on and fight against the difficulties with strength and will. We have no reason to blame others, and the future will gradually become clearer. After all, there will not only be mud on the road. When you walk over it, you will be greeted by sunshine. All growth and experience are a kind of happy pain. Motivate yourself to face challenges bravely and make it the most proud chapter in your life. Ten very penetrating and thorough sentences about the college entrance examination, too classic
Ten very penetrating and thorough sentences about the college entrance examination, too classic
1. When I took the college entrance examination, I thought that the college entrance examination was the sky. After passing the college entrance examination, I realized that the test of life is far more complicated than the college entrance examination. There are so many moments that can make people more heartbroken than failing the college entrance examination.
——Ji Qingran "Kneeling to Love, Lying to Love"
2. Starting from the Sui Dynasty, the imperial examination system was formally established. Since then, China has entered a stage where official selection has been relatively fair for thousands of years. Today, many people say that the college entrance examination is not good. In fact, you can't think of a better system than the college entrance examination. You can't go back to "promoting filial piety and integrity". Whoever is filial will go to college. Nor can we go back to the nine-level Zhongzheng system. Whoever has a good family background , who goes to college. Therefore, the college entrance examination is basically fair, and so is the imperial examination.
——Gao Xiaosong's "Xiao Shuo 2"
3. The college entrance examination never believes in luck, but only favors strength. For this reason, we have no choice but to keep going.
——Yuan Ziwen, Yuan Zihao's "May My World Always Have Half of You"
4. During the college entrance examination that year, the blazing sunshine was accompanied by the chirping of cicadas. You bought two sets of identical clothes, a white T-shirt and blue shorts. You said that we would wear them to take the college entrance examination together. It was as if we were right next to each other, and the tension and anxiety were relieved a lot. You didn't say a word to cheer up, but I felt full of encouragement.
——Mu Ge "How lucky I am to meet you in the sea of ??people"
5. What matters is not where you come from, but where you can go. What matters is not what university you graduated from, but what kind of life you can live after graduation. What matters is not who you know, but who knows you. What matters is not how good you are now, but how long you can continue to be good. What matters is not how many people love you, but who you are happiest with.
——Liu Tong
6. Graduation is like a sudden terminator, breaking up all the good life. Employment, unemployment, falling in love, separation, crying, confusion, obsession, being at a loss, struggling for dreams...how realistic the society is, how difficult the struggle is, how hard the struggle is, how precious the dream is.
——Yicao "We have nothing after graduation"
7. You will always encounter some choices in life, and you must use wisdom and courage to make decisions.
——"City-wide College Entrance Examination"
8. "Those of us just live in between exams."
"Then when this paragraph As time goes by, I still miss you so much. ”
——Yisu "We Are Not Angels"
9. Over the years, I have been learning one thing, that is, never look back. Regret for things you have not done, and do not regret things you have done. Every step in life has a price to pay. I got some of what I wanted and lost some of what I didn't want to lose. But among all the living beings in this world, who is not like this?
——Tong Hua "Those Young Times That Can't Be Returned"
10. Suddenly I feel sad. We have all survived the most difficult days. Later they were no longer together. Suffering will eventually end, but the strong will live forever. Bad days must come to an end. But many of the days we think are the worst may turn out to be the best in retrospect. It's just that the suffering in the bad days consumes a lot of precious tenderness. When the good and relaxing days come, we don't have the extra courage.
——"The Best of Us" in Chang'an in August