Lu Xun wrote in "In Memory of Liu Hezhen": A true warrior dares to face a bleak life and dripping blood. This sentence used to be my motto, which accompanied me through the long school life and inspired me to overcome the hardships in life again and again. Although in retrospect, those are trivial things, but naive children groan, it was the most inspirational chicken soup in my life, and it is now.
I admire those who can still stand up and face life bravely after experiencing great setbacks and hardships in life. That's the real soldier.
Some time ago, I was on a business trip, and it happened that my colleagues from another department were going to the same place to ride with us. He came over on crutches, and our leader got down from the passenger seat and gave him the front seat. He tried his best to refuse, but later he refused and sat in the front. He talked and laughed with us all the way, making all kinds of jokes, and was not as sensitive and depressed as I thought.
My colleague is a young man in his early thirties. A year ago, he was diagnosed with avascular necrosis of the femoral head. From then on, he needed crutches. Seeing him smiling, I couldn't help asking him about his course of disease. It turned out that he just accidentally fell down in the shower and didn't care. Later, the condition deteriorated and developed into avascular necrosis of the femoral head. This is a disease that cannot be cured in a short time. Even after an operation for several years, I have to do it again and take medicine every day. In short, it is a very painful disease.
I asked him if it was hard to accept at first. He admits that this is not only unacceptable, but also a nightmare! Suddenly I couldn't stand up, and the reason for this was just an accidental wrestling in the shower. If it's not particularly painful, I don't have to endure it, and I won't go to the hospital for treatment in a big way. Who knows it will develop into a serious illness, which will affect walking. I cried, complained and gave up ... but I survived in the end.
He said that his daughter-in-law pushed him around the hospital, and his sister-in-law was flushed and sweaty because of something wrong with her wheelchair ... Behind his understated description, I can imagine the hardships at that time.
I often see him walking towards our office building on crutches, step by step, slowly, but skillfully. Every time I meet him, I greet him warmly and make some jokes. I think he has completely accepted this sudden disaster and change. I wonder how hysterical and unwilling I would be if I were you. Can I have a similar experience with him?
My good friend JW has been working abroad since he graduated from university, first in Sri Lanka and then in Dubai. He is the only child in the family, so there are only two old people left in the family. A few years ago, my uncle and aunt didn't seem to have any special needs for him except thinking about him. Just one Mid-Autumn Festival, I lived in my sister's house, just near his house, so I sent some fruits and moon cakes to two old people. That night, my uncle and aunt took me and my boyfriend to talk a lot about home. When we left, our parents sent us out and sent us far away. I told them to hurry into the house, but insisted on sending them to the big neighborhood. I suddenly feel a little sick. I miss my relatives so much during festivals that I want to visit them for many years, but I can't remember it for a long time. I wonder if my visit will aggravate their yearning for their son.
JW's mother is a fashionable aunt in her sixties. Every time I see her, she dresses herself up neatly. She is tall and thin, and her figure and skin are well maintained. Every time I see her, she often talks to me and talks a lot. I also like chatting with my aunt. I think I can learn a lot from chatting with wise elders.
But nature plays tricks on people, and sometimes life just plays a big joke on you, which makes you unprepared.
One night last year, my aunt got up and went to the bathroom. As a result, she fell, suffered from acute cerebral hemorrhage and was dying. She hardly came back. When JW came back from Dubai, when he met him, he was calm, not depressed, not crying, and arranged everything in an orderly way. I know that his heart must be particularly painful and self-blaming, because I deeply understand his character and upbringing.
JW once asked me to choose a house with my uncle and aunt. He told me that as long as my parents like it, no matter how expensive it is, I know that besides love, besides filial piety, there is also guilt ... I know what he wants to compensate, but I don't think it is enough. Therefore, his aunt's illness hit him hard.
After menstruation was discharged from hospital, he could not walk independently and needed someone to take care of him. JW found a nanny and tried to accompany her for many days. I went to see JW's mother once after he left. My aunt took my hand and said to me, "Xiaoxue, although JW is a boy, he has never suffered any big grievances or experienced any big setbacks since he was a child." My illness hit him hard. My aunt wants to trouble you and persuade him not to be too sad. Life is like this. Where there will be any smooth sailing ... "
Walking out of JW's home, I burst into tears. ...
Aunt loves beauty. How can she stand such a disease? I thought so at first, but I was wrong. She doesn't care about her illness, but she is always worried about whether JW can withstand the blow in this life. Aunt said that she must get better quickly, so that JW would feel at ease.
In fact, I am also surprised at the speed of JW's mother's recovery. I think this is inseparable from her concern for the disease and her determination to overcome it.
I promised menstruation that I would say something comforting to JW, but I never said it. Sometimes when we meet on WeChat, the words come to our lips and we swallow them.
Yinghe Mountain went to the same university. I remember when I was a freshman, my beautiful young mother saw us on the bus and said to Ying and me: You two girls should teach some boys to wash clothes!
Yesterday, several of our good friends hosted a banquet for JW who came back from Dubai. Ying told me that she met her mother when she went to pick her up. She felt much older, which made me feel particularly uncomfortable. But the good news is that menstruation can move freely again. After all, she survived. I believe my aunt is optimistic and should get better and better.
It is a wonderful thing to get better and better. After all, life will still leave us some hope, supporting us to walk through the rest of our lives that are difficult to handle.
In 20 15, my two girlfriends divorced. Boy G and girl Y, they are not family. I want to explain that they divorced separately.
I witnessed the pain and suffering of two people, even to the point where I wanted to give up on myself. They all lost sleep and their temperament changed greatly. ...
However, I see that they are all coming out slowly, working hard and trying their best to adjust their emotions. At least to outsiders, they are not so miserable. I know they are suffering in their hearts, but it is very valuable to respond positively.
In our life, we will encounter many unexpected setbacks, we will be knocked down, but we must also learn to stand up and face life again. Because, she also has a good side, and she will also give us happiness, happiness and touch.
The reason why this world is still interesting is that it often surprises people.
There is a saying that I particularly like and have shared many times. Today I want to say it again: there is only one kind of heroism in life, and that is to love life after seeing the truth of life.
May you live affectionately in the changeable world.