If you want to succeed, you must have the ability to succeed, and the cultivation of ability requires strong self-discipline. All truly capable people are ruthless people. They are ruthless to others and even more ruthless to themselves.

When you have these three points of knowledge, it means that you are also a capable person!

Many people expect others to respect you and leaders to recognize you, but they forget that the realization of these wishes all depends on your strength.

Instead of placing your happiness on others, turn around and ask for help yourself.

People have different cognitions, so their concepts are consistent. There is really no need to sacrifice your persistence for the satisfaction of others. No matter when, your most powerful pillar is always yourself.

Personal growth is nothing more than two ways, asking for help from the outside and opening inward.

Ask outside for help, ask outside yourself for help, act according to the situation, and adapt to changes. Open inward and seek growth within yourself. Respond to all changes by remaining unchanged.

Everyone has their own choices for different things. Mencius said: "Liu Xiahui will not change his relationship with the Three Gongs." This means that he means the importance of insisting on being oneself.

Wang Yangming said: "It is easy to break the thief in the mountain, but it is difficult to break the thief in the heart." When you start to seek help from within and observe your own thoughts, you will also take control of your own life and slowly integrate knowledge and action. .

Aristotle once said that everyone gets angry, it's simple. But expressing the right level of anger to the right person, at the right time, with the right motive, and in the right method is not an easy task that everyone can do.

The reason why people like to lose their temper and cannot control their emotions when something happens is because they hope to quickly achieve their inner needs in this way.

There is a sentence in "High Energy Posture": "Strength makes us brave and independent, less susceptible to external pressure and expectations, and makes us more creative."

Therefore, some people think that others' tolerance of his bad temper is a reflection of his ability. Little did they know that this was exactly a display of the other person's character. The strength mentioned here means strong strength and ability, not strong temper.

People with strong tempers have poor emotional control ability, and it is generally difficult for them to achieve great things, because emotions can cause serious internal friction.

In the workplace, all interests are based on equal exchange, and strength speaks for itself. When you are weak, it is impossible to be treated fairly.

Opportunities are earned by oneself. Competition is the essence of big fish eating small fish. Only by changing concepts and improving cognition can we control our emotions and benefit ourselves.

When you are weak, you must learn to bow your head and be impressed. It takes two years to learn to speak and three years to learn to shut up. This is a wise saying from some successful people. It can help you solve problems and enhance your prestige at the same time.

In order to live, we sometimes have to pretend to move forward, pretending to be relaxed even though we are obviously tired; forcing a smile even though we are obviously in pain. This kind of begging life in the midst of collapse, some people call it subjugation.

What you get in exchange for grievances is not true fulfillment, because when you help others, you will feel unwilling to do so, and the people who accept your help will not feel your sincere blessings. .

Instead of seeking perfection like this, it is better to be honest, express your true thoughts, and communicate with sincerity.

Some people say that success comes from awakening. If you are not willing to awaken, it will be useless no matter how much you feel wronged and unwilling.

As long as you have a correct understanding of your mentality and establish concepts, you will gain unexpected growth.

Engels once said well: There is no great disaster that is not compensated by the progress of history.

So instead of being a deserter in life, it is better to choose to face life head-on. As Nietzsche said: What fails to defeat you will eventually make you stronger.

No matter how difficult the hurdle is, it will pass, but you have to stand up for yourself.