, "Idol"

Thinking

Idol worship reflects the imprint of the times and popular culture. Idol worship is a kind of spiritual sustenance for people. The words and deeds of idols will affect a generation or a period. You cannot lose yourself in idol worship. Idols can serve as role models. To become an idol, you need to have charisma. Teenagers are more likely to become idol worshipers. Becoming an idol also requires hard work and hardship. The influence of idols is both positive and negative

Quotes

If you really want to be a star, you must ask yourself how much courage you have and how much mental endurance you have. , How much hard-working spirit do you have? ——Guo Da

The reason why singers exist is a product of the modern record industry, just like film and television stars are products of the film and television industries. ——Jin Zhaojun

Those who blindly obey and believe everything must be a fool. Their minds are just other people's racecourses.

——Wen Yiduo

I admire all respected celebrities, but I never bow at their feet. I am eager to use science to deny some of their fallacies. ——Edison

Everyone should follow his or her own path, not to be intimidated by authority, not to be constrained by old opinions, and not to be confused by fashion. ——Goethe

Some idols look gorgeous in their clothes and decorations, but alas, they have no heart. ——Nekrasov

Love all celebrities, they taught you theory, taught you science, they gave the world to you.

——Rodin

The tortures of noble characters are completely different from those imagined by their admirers. ——Rousseau

There are very few examples of life that are perfect and pure. ——Montaigne

Barbarians worship idols of wood and stone, while civilized people worship idols of flesh and blood. ——Bernard Shaw

Life prompts us to seek a guide in life that we can trust. ——Bernard Shaw

All that glitters is not gold. ——Lenin

Classic material

Basketball star Yao Ming

(Idol of the new era)

Before the opening of the Athens Olympics, Chinese sports representatives Xiao Tian, ??the deputy head and secretary-general of the league, linked Yao Ming to his idol for the first time. He said: "Many teenagers at home and abroad love Yao Ming, and some even regard him as their idol. It can be said that he represents a good image of Chinese youth."

Yao Ming's appearance is not handsome. He looks a little dull when he's not smiling, and one of his ears is a little disabled. Sometimes Yao Ming talks a little childishly, and he may be a little rude to people he doesn't like. However, Yao Ming is tall, kind, upright, humorous, courageous, bloody, able to make money, has superb football skills, dares to defend his own rights and interests, and perfectly combines national honor, social values ??and personal interests appropriately...Made An idol, an idol that can be touched, approached and transcended, these ingredients are enough.

Yao Ming not only carries the virtues of Eastern people, but also exudes the individuality advocated by Western culture. Yao Ming, the idol of this era, is the product of the collision and integration of Chinese and Western cultures in the 21st century.

The name Yao Ming is spreading throughout the world through basketball and the NBA. In China, more and more young people hope to be as successful as Yao Ming and to gain social recognition like Yao Ming.

Yao Ming is extraordinary, but he is also a mortal around us. Idols of the era like Yao Ming are not man-made. For Chinese young people who need to find admirers, if they haven't found an admirer yet, then worship Yao Ming.

Alternative Star - Kong Qingxiang

(An anti-idol)

An alternative star in 2004 - Kong Qingxiang, a guy with buck teeth and singing out of tune , a 21-year-old young man with poor dancing skills. He was the epitome of iconoclasm that rose to fame almost overnight.

One night in 2004, Kong Qingxiang participated in an entertainment talent show in the United States. He sang a song by Ricky Martin nervously with substandard English and stiff and clumsy dance moves. Before the song was even halfway through, the audience was already bursting into laughter. One black judge covered his face with paper in order to hide from the camera and laughed carelessly. Another judge simply interrupted Kong Qingxiang's performance.

While the laughing audience was waiting for Kong Qingxiang to leave the stage in shame, Kong Qingxiang said calmly: "I have tried my best, so I have no regrets at all... You know, I have not received professional training. Training." These two calm answers made him one of the most popular and popular stars in the eyes of Americans. For a time, the media swarmed in and record companies came to him to record albums.

The American civilians in front of the TV were thankful that they did not miss this ridiculous stunt on the day the program was broadcast. They also discovered from Kong Qingxiang something that had been deeply hidden or even collapsed in their hearts. Confidence, the Kong Qingxiang who made a fool of himself on the stage, seems to be another reflection of their hard work in life and often hitting the wall.

Almost everyone has an innate dream of becoming a star, but most unknown Americans could not save their dignity and go on stage to test their dreams, so they gave flowers and applause to Kong Qingxiang. Kong Qingxiang became their practitioner.

Lu Yi’s idol

(Idols also worship idols)

Lu Yi’s healthy image makes him “the first all-round idol made in China in the Chinese world” . Lu Yi understands this: "Everyone has their own idols, and they are role models for young people to learn from. The company wants to mold me into an all-round high-quality idol, mainly because mainland idols started relatively late and there is no one yet." A healthy leader appears." Under the banner of "idol", Lu Yi's understanding of idols is quite positive. "My screen image is relatively good, and I am relatively healthy in terms of behavior and mentality in life, so I am more suitable." The ambition to be a "leading figure" is "clearly revealed."

Who is Lu Yi’s idol? "When I was in elementary school, my idol was Lei Feng. I was always very active when I went to the road to clean traffic booths and clean the house." Speaking of this, Lu Yi seemed to feel that things had changed. He smiled and said, "People of my generation had relatively pure thoughts when they were young. When I started acting, my idol became Stephen Chow. Although he and I have different acting styles, he created his own acting style and became an internationally renowned filmmaker. This model makes me feel very amazing. In terms of singing, I like it. Lin Zhixuan and Sting think their music has a good sense of melody."

Chow Yun-fat enters the textbook

(The role model of idols)

Chow Yun-fat has a healthy image in acting. He has worked hard in the industry for 30 years and won numerous awards. In recent years, he has become famous in Hollywood and brought glory to Hong Kong people. Fat Gor's struggle experience and success made him the first entertainer to be included in middle school textbooks. He hopes that students will know how to make the best use of their time and seize learning opportunities.

From a truant boy born and raised on Lamma Island to today's internationally renowned movie star, Chow Yun-fat's legendary life and arduous journey to success were included in the self-study chapter of Chinese language in middle school textbooks for the first time. While allowing first-year middle school students to study Chinese language, they can learn to make good use of their time and seize learning opportunities from Chow Yun-fat's struggle to learn English from scratch at the age of 40.

There has never been an attempt to use Hong Kong artists as teaching materials for middle school textbooks in the past, but the second volume of the Chinese language textbook for the secondary level published by Qisi Publishing House has chosen Yue Fei's Boyhood as a "reading chapter" As teaching materials, civilian President Sun Yat-sen and Chinese astronaut Zhang Fulin were selected as teaching materials for the "introduction chapter". As for the "self-study chapter", the late bloomer Chow Yun-fat was selected, and about twelve pages were spent describing his struggle.

As for the use of experiences in middle school textbooks as teaching materials, Chow Yun-fat said in an interview: "I really didn't expect that my own experience could be used as teaching materials, so I was really happy after knowing it. I hope that from my experience, I can Let young people understand that it takes a lot of hard work for a person to succeed. The important thing is not to be afraid of hard work and setbacks, then success is bound to be in sight.

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Who is China’s “cultural idol”

(Idol in the hearts of netizens)

In 2003, Sina joined forces with 15 companies including Southern Metropolis Daily The media held an online event to "select China's top ten cultural idols." The inspiration for this event obviously came from abroad. Before this, American media such as "Man" and "Biography" had jointly selected the top ten cultural idols in the United States. The top ten cultural icons, and said that these people's "actions and thoughts have so profoundly affected the course of American history", in a sense, they represent the spirit of the United States

In this candidate. On the list of people, in addition to the familiar cultural figures such as Lu Xun and Lao She, sports stars Yao Ming and Deng Yaping, and acting celebrities Bruce Lee, Leslie Cheung, Faye Wong, Stephen Chow, etc. are also included in this selection. Netizens showed great enthusiasm. The final result of the voting was: Lu Xun, Jin Yong, Qian Zhongshu, Ba Jin, Lao She, Qian Xuesen, Leslie Cheung, Lei Feng, Mei Lanfang, Faye Wong ranked first and last among the top ten cultural idols. Leslie Cheung ranks sixth. This phenomenon is thought-provoking.

In fact, there is no need to make a fuss. Lu Xun represents the depth of the times, and his charm comes from his thoughts. Faye Wong represents the speed of the times, and his charm comes from fashion, both in thought and in fashion. Fashion has the power to leave a deep imprint on people's memories.

Stars have many bumps in their debuts

(Idols were also mortals)

Chow Yun-fat. Working as a hotel waiter

Chow Yun-fat's family was very poor when he was young, so he went out to do odd jobs to supplement the family income very early. And Fa Ge's first summer job was assembling radios in a factory when he was 16 years old. The daily salary was only 1.4 Hong Kong dollars. Later, he also worked as an office boy, a hotel waiter, and a salesperson in a video store.

Jacky Cheung packed toys

More than 20 years ago, Jacky Cheung. When he was still in Form 4, he worked as a packer during the summer vacation. “At that time, I was not bullied much because I was only responsible for one part of the toy production line, which was packaging toys, and I only had a few jobs a month. One hundred Hong Kong dollars. Because I was young and had quick hands and feet, I was laughed at by some grandmothers and aunts at the time, saying that I had great potential and would take away their jobs! ”

Maggie Cheung was once an ordinary girl

Maggie Cheung was born in Hong Kong in 1964. She was not a girl who was loved by everyone since she was a child, and had a somewhat autistic personality. When she was 11 years old, she and her parents We went to live and go to school in the UK together, but her talent in acting was never discovered, nor did she dream of becoming an artist. She also worked as a salesperson in a clothing store.

Aaron Kwok worked as an air-conditioning technician.

Aaron Kwok, who has excellent dancing skills, worked as an air-conditioning technician during the summer vacation before becoming a dancer at TVB, with a monthly salary of HK$2,700.

Clinton is also star-chasing

(Idol’s. Charisma)

Former U.S. President Clinton was "inspired" by the political star Kennedy when he was young, and he determined to be the president of the United States like Kennedy.

Clinton was born in poverty. When he was a child, Clinton originally wanted to be a doctor, a reporter or a musician. However, in the summer of 1963, an opportunity allowed him to witness the then international political star-the President of the United States. When President Kennedy held the hands of this little boy from Arkansas, he didn't know that his stardom had affected Clinton's life. The president of the United States became Clinton's goal in life. 17 years old. When he returned to his hometown of Arkansas from Washington, the first thing he did when he saw his mother was to show her a photo of him shaking hands with the president. His mother said: "I understand his expression and his mind. Know what he will do in the future. ”

Yes, 17-year-old Clinton had his own star in his heart—Kennedy. This star led him to see his future and his goal of survival: he wanted to become this star, he To become President of the United States! So Clinton turned down a music school scholarship offered by Louisiana (despite his outstanding musical talents) and came all the way to Georgetown University in Washington, DC.

Twenty years later, he finally entered the White House and became the star he had dreamed of since he was a boy - the President of the United States of America.

Perhaps, when Clinton was a star on the screen, newspapers, and magazines, another seed fell in the heart of a certain young person.

Era and Idols

(Different eras, different idols)

The 1960s

The passionate years when heroes emerged

Icon idols: Lei Feng, Paul Korchagin, Wang Jinxi...

The 1960s was the early socialist construction period of the Republic of China. The young New China The various difficulties faced determine that this will be an idol era called for by the spirit of revolutionary heroism.

1970s

Hungry choices after spiritual liberation

Icon idols: Chen Jingrun, Teresa Teng...

In the 1970s The end of the period is a period of change, and some new phenomena quietly appear.

1980s

From singleness to diversity

Icon idols: Zhang Haidi, Chinese women's volleyball team, hazy poet, Hong Kong and Taiwan stars...

This is an era when spring returns to the earth. As if overnight, everything revives and grows vigorously. The same goes for idols. Idols of this period are springing up like mushrooms after a spring rain, emerging from all walks of life in society, which is overwhelming.

The 1990s

Cultural symbols of the popular era

Icon idols: Luo Dayou, Cui Jian, Wang Shuo, Stephen Chow, Faye Wong...

In the 1990s, Chinese society became more diversified. During this period, the duration of each idol was getting shorter and shorter, often "each leading the way for two or three years", and the changes were very rapid.

At the beginning of the 21st century, the idols of young people are Internet masters such as Bill Gates and many young singers, movie stars and other stars.

The changes in idols reflect the development and changes of the times and the changes in people's ideas and concepts in different eras.

A glimpse of chasing stars

(The price of chasing stars)

At the end of October 1992, singer Li Ming held three consecutive solo concerts at the Beijing Capital Gymnasium, which caused a stir The fanatical following of groupies. In the past few days of performances, the shouts of "Dawn, I love you" have become louder and louder than ever.

During the performance on October 31st, the railings of the stands in the northeast corner were collapsed by almost fanatical fans. Many people were injured, but the fans insisted on watching the performance. There were four middle school students, including One of the children had an injury to his jaw and a big laceration, so the children walked to Erlong Road Hospital. At that time, the doctor said that they could not sew up the wound. As a result, several other students called the child's father. The father came on a bicycle and took the child to Peking University Hospital for some stitches. It was early November, during the middle school midterm exams. November 1st was a Sunday, and the exams were about to start on November 2nd. Many students gave up their exam review to watch this performance. There are also dozens of die-hard fans waiting in front of the Shangri-La Hotel for days and nights, staring persistently at the window of Dawn's room, and shouting desperately whenever a figure flashes by.

China's first rock star

(Idols are products of the times)

In 1986, Cui Jian wrote the first rock and rap song "It's not me, I won't" clear". At the Hundred Singers' Concert held in Beijing to commemorate the International Year of Peace, he jumped onto the stage of the Beijing Workers' Gymnasium wearing a long gown that looked quite like the Qing Empire period, carrying a broken guitar on his back, and his trousers, one high and one low. At that time, the audience did not understand what happened. When the music started and Cui Jian sang "I kept asking, when will you come with me...", the audience became quiet. Ten minutes later, when the song ended, amid warm cheers and applause, China's first rock star was born. From then on, Cui Jian began his new long march in rock music. In the two years following the concert, Cui Jian continued to deepen the creation of rock music, held multiple solo concerts, and released multiple solo albums.

In this process, Cui Jian gradually formed his own style and established his status as the founder of Chinese rock music.

Since 1978, reform and opening up have brought vitality to China’s cities and villages, and at the same time it has also brought cultural ideas and lifestyles from Western society. After more than two decades of isolation, this sudden wide-scale exposure to the Western world has caused an immeasurable "cultural shock" to Chinese youth. Many young people feel confused and frustrated in the face of these sudden changes. The world is changing too fast. The ideals that were revered as the supreme ideal yesterday have been shattered by reality today. They have lost their past ideals but cannot find new ones. Cui Jian's music and songs sing about the hesitation and desire for truth and human liberation of the young generation who grew up in the rapidly changing political, economic and social environment.

The Story of Yilin

The Story of a Singer

There is a story about a singer that many people are familiar with. At that time, almost all fans knew her name and liked her songs. However, she did not sing at first, but practiced the erhu. She has been practicing piano since she was a child, practicing Sanjiu in winter and Sanfu in summer, and she has become deeply passionate about it. At that time, Hong Kong and Taiwan songs were popular in society, especially Teresa Teng's songs. So tactful, sweet, and tender. Teresa Teng became a star, and her songs were released one after another, but demand still exceeded supply. The little girl who practices erhu has also entered the ranks of "star chasers". She likes singing and singing, but she never thought that she would give up her erhu to become a singer. Teresa Teng gave her opportunities and confidence. First, people around her discovered her. At the age of 16, she was pushed onto the stage. The audience immediately accepted her, and her song tape became a hot favorite among fans. She was initially called mainland China's "little Teresa Teng." Slowly, people discovered that she had her own style. She makes the audience feel friendly and warm just like Teresa Teng, but she has the innocence of a girl and an attractive youthful atmosphere. She is lively, hearty, pure and simple, just like a wisp of cool wind blowing from the seaside or a colorful shell shining on the bottom of the sea. From learning from Teresa Teng to becoming a singer with a unique style, she took a shortcut to success. She discovered her hidden qualities in Teresa Teng's songs. She enriched and developed this hidden qualities in the process of "chasing stars", and finally presented a unique and successful self to the society.

The aura of the idol

A silent night. In the darkness, a colorful wanderer, a butterfly, wanders aimlessly. Suddenly, it found a little fire in the distance.

"What is that?" Butterfly, confused by the firelight, asked curiously.

It flew towards the fire without thinking. It approached the fire and flew quickly around the flames. Ah, how beautiful!

However, the butterfly is not satisfied with just admiring the flames, but also wants to taste them, just like sucking nectar from the fields. It paused gracefully in mid-air, ready to land on the flames.

What a terrible lesson! It jumped in terror and ran away. Under the light, the butterfly discovered that one leg was missing and the tips of its very beautiful wings were burnt.

"What's going on? What happened to me?" Butterfly did not find the answer. How can such a beautiful "light" make people feel regretful? It’s unimaginable!

With this doubt in mind, the butterfly rested for a while, and then started again when it regained its strength.

The confused butterfly stared closely at the flame, and with the determination to possess it, he threw himself into the flame. The butterfly did not encounter any impact, but fell into the oil basin of the oil lamp.

On his deathbed, Butterfly whispered: "Damn light! I longed for you to bring me happiness, but you gave me death! I can only cry for my crazy dreams! Unfortunately, I It’s too late to understand that it’s you who made me miserable!”

The flame heard the butterfly’s complaint and wisely replied: “Poor butterfly, I am not the sun you imagined!” Not only will people not be able to use me, but they will also burn themselves!”

Worshiping an idol with a halo may lead to failure like a butterfly.

Words from the Idol

This statue has been standing for hundreds of years. He feels that this is a kind of hard labor. He knows that he is powerless to all the living beings who are eager to get his help, so he because Ashamed and bored, he finally spoke to those worshipers:

"O sentient beings, what a ridiculous thing you have done! You created me with yourselves as a model, expanded me, and wanted to take advantage of me. There is a power coming from me to suppress your restless spirit."

"I dare to believe that the reason why you want to create me is entirely because of your lack of self-confidence. Well, what can I do more than you? But I don't have what you have."

"If you were bolder and smashed me, there would be blood flowing from my chest. "Without a drop of blood."

"Of course, I also know that it was a bold act for you to create me, because you tried to make me a co-conspirator, so that I can work with you. Deceiving those who are weaker."

"I have been punished enough. I have been standing here for hundreds of years. Your ancestors have molded me, and you have plastered me around me from generation to generation. Gold leaf makes me shine, but I hate my status as much as I hate hypocrisy."

"Please crush me, or you can shrink me to the same size as you. , and give me the blood necessary for life. If it can be done, how grateful I am to you - but it is impossible."

"So, I think: it can really be done. It is you who can save you. And my existence can only show your misfortune." After saying the last words, the statue suddenly collapsed like a mountain.

Be yourself

Ever since I was a little kid, I didn’t want to be myself. I wanted to be like Bill Widowden, and Bill Widowden didn't like me at all. I walked like him, I learned the way he talked, I went to the high school he went to.

Bill Widowden similarly changed himself. He began to pester Hobie Vanderden: he walked like Hebie Vanderden and talked like Hebie Vanderden. He confuses me! I started walking and talking like Bill Widdelden, and he was walking and talking like Hebie Vanderden.

Then I discovered that Hobie Vanderden walks and talks like Joey Hamblin. And Joey Hamblin walks and talks like Corky Sabbison.

So I walk and talk like Bill Widowden imitated Herbie Vanderden and Joey Hamblin tried to imitate Couch Sabbison's walk. Way. Who do you think Kirky Sabbison talks and walks like? Of all the people, he looked most like Dupuy Wellington - and this guy walked and talked like me.

(Excerpted from "Chicken Soup for the Soul")

Rabbit Conference

The rabbits plan to hold a large-scale seminar to discuss how to solve the problem of food-grass shortage . A rabbit said: "The Rabbit Conference must keep up with the world's trends, and we need to invite some idol stars to put on a show for us!"

So, on the opening day of the seminar, the rabbits invited lions, tigers, leopards, Gray wolves, foxes, cats, prairie dogs and monkeys. These celebrities appeared on stage, one by one on the podium, and took their seats in the front row. Then, led by the lion, one after another spoke. Celebrities spoke freely, and the sky was brighter, but they didn't touch on the pasture issue at all. Celebrities took photos with rabbit representatives. Of course, the VIPs all sat in the front row and in the middle. Then they walked into the banquet hall, ate and drank, and toasted to congratulate the success of the conference. After having enough wine and food, they took souvenirs and gifts and left, leaving only rabbits at the venue. By this time, it was already getting late and it was time for the meeting to end.

People who blindly follow trends are likely to become poor rabbits.

Jesus Returns

Jesus is the founder of Christianity and the savior believed by Christians. When Jesus was 30 years old, he began to preach and preach about the kingdom of heaven. It is said that he is an omnipotent and omnipotent person. A huge halo of light appears on his head, allowing the people to see him clearly in the dark.

Jesus continued to do good things for the people and healed them for free. Slowly, more and more people worshiped and believed in him.

A long time later, Jesus returned to his hometown to preach. At first, people were impressed by his knowledge and wisdom. However, when everyone took a closer look, it turned out that this eloquent man was just the son of a local carpenter. Their admiration suddenly diminished and they immediately became disrespectful. Jesus is still the same Jesus, but the neighbors are no longer the same neighbors.

People often worship idols because of a sense of mystery, because the lofty idols are unfamiliar to us and are far away from us. And once this sense of mystery disappears, the worship of idols will diminish a lot.

Idols revered by farmers

In the past, farmers in Fujian and Guangdong were very superstitious, especially in ghosts and gods. In order to show their piety, farmers built many temples for ghosts and gods. They are everywhere on mountain tops and along river banks. They also personally made many statues for ghosts and gods.

In order to build these temples for ghosts and gods, the farmers put a lot of effort into building them, and used all their skills to make the temples majestic and spacious. On the road leading to the temple, long stone steps were built. The stone steps were shaded by trees on both sides. The trees were covered with vines and attracted countless birds to make nests and settle here. The farmers also sculpted the chariots and horses of gods and ghosts in the temple courtyard, and painted them with colorful paintings, making the atmosphere of the temple unusual but also eerie.

Farmers are very respectful to these clay sculptures and wood-carved gods, and they do not forget to offer offerings every time they offer sacrifices. Those who are well-off have to slaughter cows; those who are not so well-off have to sacrifice pigs; even the poorest ones have to offer chickens, dogs and other things to ghosts and gods. People are often reluctant to eat the wine, food, fish, etc., but take them to temples to offer offerings to ghosts and gods. That's it, people still have to hold a grand ceremony when making sacrifices. If the etiquette is not perfect, everyone will be extremely afraid, fearing that the ghosts and gods will be angry and bring disaster to them. Once someone gets sick or dies, people do not go to the doctor to find out what happened, but simply attribute it to the arrangement of ghosts and gods.

Farmers imagined ghosts and gods themselves and made their idols with their own hands, but they worshiped the things they made with their own hands. It is really ridiculous and sad.

Application and Innovation

Let yourself become an idol

When the Chinese women's volleyball team once again stood on the podium of the world championship, when Zhao Ruirui's bright smile impressed her deeply In the minds of fans who love her, a new idol was born.

The students from Peking University were so excited after seeing the women's volleyball team win the championship. One girl even had tears on her face. This scene was very similar to the Chinese women's volleyball team winning the world championship for the first time in Japan 22 years ago. similar. After the familiar faces such as Lang Ping and Zhang Rongfang that we are familiar with are gradually replaced by their successors, Zhao Ruirui, Feng Kun, and Zhou Suhong will also become household names.

Now is an era of abundant idols. Sometimes one or even several idols can be born in a day. In front of so many idols, you can’t figure out who your real idol is, and you can’t even tell who you are. Who should be your long-term idol?

Isn’t Yang Liwei, the first Chinese into space, worthy of our admiration? Aren’t Shen Xue and Zhao Hongbo, who won the men’s and women’s pairs skating championships in the World Figure Skating Competition, worthy of our admiration? Also, isn’t Yao Ming, who has earned a lot of face for the Chinese and even Asians in the NBA, worthy of our admiration?

This is an era of abundant idols. The diversity of idols provides more choices for those who worship idols, and also makes idols no longer out of reach for us.

Who is your idol? How many idols do you have? Are you the one who has no idols? If no one is your idol, then you choose yourself, worship yourself, and making yourself an idol is also a choice!

What should you do if your child is "star chasing"?

Recently, a school conducted a random survey among middle school students with the theme of "The person I admire most". The results were unexpected. The most common answer was no Parents are not teachers, scientists, or heroes and models, but singers and movie stars. The worship of "star" idols has become a fashion pursuit among teenagers. Boys and girls feel happy or sad about "star" idols, and even commit suicide or run away. Many parents are confused and don't know whether their children's "star chasing" is right or wrong. How to guide children's "star chasing" mentality?

Children are in adolescence, with immature psychology and little experience. They are easily impulsive and may even do some irrational things. For example, some boys are prone to sexual impulses and yearning when looking at beautiful and sexy female stars in their minds; some girls are too obsessed with a certain male star. If there is news that a certain male star is getting married or having an affair, they immediately feel that "they have been cheated." "," she felt depressed and depressed; some girls even swore not to marry unless they were a certain "star". If a child is "chasing stars" to such an extent that he is obsessed with it, it will definitely affect his studies and his physical and mental health. This requires attention and correct guidance. In fact, "stars" are no different from normal people. The "external beauty" of many "stars" is packaged, and the media's praise is also an advertising behavior. Parents can explain these truths to their children, explaining that listening to songs and watching movies and TV shows is only a small part of life, and more time should be spent on studying and working to realize their lofty ambitions.