2, kindness and honesty are weak in the eyes of others, bullying you and taking advantage of you without cost, how can you cherish it?
3, adults, put away your kindness, this is useless, the key is that you are valuable to others, and worthless kindness is useless.
4, people, must have a bottom line, can not blindly be kind and kind, always repay kindness with evil, this is useless, how can it be good? No one really sympathizes with kindness, let alone cherishes it.
5. The underlying logic of society is the law of the jungle and the law of nature. Everything is controversial. It's no use being kind and honest. You can only be bullied and others think you are willing.
6. Some people are bound by morality as the bottom line, while others are bound by law, which is quite different. I don't mean immoral and unkind, but to see who is right and who is wrong.
7. Don't treat everyone with the same standard. Everyone stands from different angles and has different interests. If you are kind and honest, others may scold you and bully you.
8. The choice of adults is to calculate the benefits and costs. Seeing that you are weak and honest, I will bully you hard to satisfy my vanity. This is human nature.
9. In the past, being a good person, honesty and kindness were the minimum standards for being a man. Nowadays, the polarization between the rich and the poor and social involution are almost the highest standards.
10, the very class of society, the lower the society, the less kind and dishonest it is, and people are the most ruthless and heartless when bullying others. So everyone wants to cross classes.
Weakness is a family skill, and rape is a troublesome child.
Kind and upright people are the principle of being a man, and it is useless for anyone to cherish them.
In this world, you can do evil, you can do good, and you can do what everyone loves.
Good is rewarded with good, and evil with evil. The laws of nature are independent of human will.
People who are kind and upright will never be cherished, because on the surface, people who are kind and upright often suffer losses and are bullied.
That's not true. Losing is bliss, being bullied is love. I have honed my will, increased my wisdom and become much stronger.
May the kind and upright people live forever.
In fact, the ancients have long summed it up: kindness does not command soldiers, kindness does not serve officials, affection does not do things, and righteousness does not gather wealth.
No matter in the fierce love competition, or in the unpredictable and unfathomable workplace, shopping malls and officialdom, I want to succeed. The traditional virtues of honesty, sincerity, kindness, integrity and filial piety, and the code of conduct are worthless or even harmful. The advantage of being a man is never a plus item in the arena of life, but an obvious disadvantage. It's no use.
Because honest, sincere, kind, upright and filial good people are often regarded as fools, cowards and bullies in social life. Anyone can hold him, step on him, bully him, and calculate him. Another main reason is that they have become accustomed to submit to humiliation, submit to humiliation, dare not resist, and will not retaliate. That is what people often say: people are good at being bullied, and horses are good at being ridden. Persimmons are soft when pinched.
The overall variation and distortion of social atmosphere has also changed and subverted people's social values, life values and people's traditional social cognition. Loyalty, sincerity, kindness, honesty and due diligence are considered unproductive, retarded, incompetent and incompetent. People who are duplicitous, duplicitous, ruthless and treacherous are considered capable people and promising people.
Good people always suffer, and bad people always gain. Therefore, there are many honest, sincere, kind, honest and conscientious good people. Under the guidance of harsh real life education, they finally understand their own minds and dare to face reality. They suddenly repented and woke up like a dream. They turned out to be wrong, so naive and naive! My persistence and my way can no longer adapt to this complex, severe and sinister living environment. You should force yourself to make changes, actively adapt and integrate into the distorted social environment. Only in this way can we protect ourselves, like a duck to water, survive the fittest and live more freely and better.
People who are honest, sincere, kind, upright and filial are outspoken, lacking in talent and scheming, and unable to play tricks and routines. If you are not cherished, you will always be looked down upon. If there is no place to live, the chances of success will become more and more slim. Under the blow of setbacks and failures, they will also make a profound summary and reflection. Therefore, they will be forced to choose disloyalty, insincerity, unkindness, dishonesty and irresponsibility. In society, such bad guys will become more and more common. There will be fewer and fewer good people who are honest, kind, upright and filial. This is the reverse elimination of society.