Haruki Murakami said that there are two regrets about love. One is that you once loved so hard, only to find that that person was not worth it at all. The other is that you don't love well, and only when you lose it can you find that you are a truly worthy person. Everyone will fall in love, and when they fall in love, they will leave a lot of regrets. When they meet the right person at the wrong time, or meet the wrong person at the right time, they will always leave a lot of regrets. So how can we not leave regrets? In fact, everything is good as long as we love with our hearts.

First, choose the right person together

Some people tend to lose themselves when they are in love, go through fire and water for each other, and their lives are disrupted and immersed in love. In fact, love is not blindly paid, which may make the other person cherish you, and even think that all the things you do for her are taken for granted, so we should hold the correct concept in love, don't get lost in love, just love with your heart and speak out your love loudly, no matter how the outcome is, at least you won't regret it. Choosing to be with the right person rarely leaves regrets. We should learn to be grateful for the hardships we have suffered and the injuries we have suffered, so as to make our memories more unforgettable. Youth has both happiness and sadness, but this is what youth should look like.

Second, take your feelings seriously

Every feeling in the world is worth cherishing. Although some feelings are only fleeting, the memories left behind are beautiful. If you don't cherish every relationship, you won't regret it, at least you loved it with your heart. Maybe we have been hurt by love many times, but it can't stop us from choosing the right to love. No matter what, it is our own memory. The furthest distance in the world is when I stand in front of you and you don't know that I love you. Love should be said out loud. Compared with those who like each other but can't say it, it is better not to say it, and maybe there will be no regrets after saying it. On the road of life, we should choose to learn how to love a person, and take the initiative to find out whether it is worth loving. Happiness is what we are looking for, and we should not leave regrets for ourselves.