Why are you afraid of thirty? That's all.

Three 3-year-old girls from different classes vividly explained the sadness and joy of this age. Now that the finale is exposed, people are even more saddened:

Xu Huanshan Fireworks Factory exploded and was jailed, and Gu Jia sold his house to pay off his debts. Then the two divorced, and Gu Jia left Shanghai with his son and went to Chashan to set sail again.

After precipitation and reflection, Zhong Xiaoqin ended his brother-sister relationship and remarried Chen Yu sweetly.

Wang Manni was not with the blind date director, but also refused the request of Neptune to go abroad for further study, and was beautiful alone.

many people say that they see their own shadow more or less, not because they are too deeply involved in the play, but because life is like a play.

in the world of adults, there is no easy word

No matter what class you are in, it is not that simple. Outsiders look glamorous, but they are just gritting their teeth.

A family of three who set up a stall runs around the streets of the city every day for their livelihood.

Although Mani, the floating king of Shanghai, doesn't have to worry about eating and drinking, she can only move out silently when the landlord raises the rent.

Zhong Xiaoqin, a local girl, seems to have a stable life, but no one knows that she and her husband have turned their lives into "shared roommates".

Gu Jia's husband is considerate and her son is lovely, and she lives in a room with a river view that everyone admires. However, she is thinking about the future and working hard on her children's school choice and the fireworks business at home.

Even in a luxurious ladies' circle, everyone has his own chicken feathers and it is not easy.

children are used to reporting good news instead of worrying, and dare not tell about the fatigue and collapse of their work and the fragmentation of their marriage.

and parents have also learned to lie, reluctant to spend money on their children, afraid of causing trouble to their children, and their mouths will always be "healthy".

Everyone has their own troubles and anguish, but life is no longer easy, and they have to go on, because they are not only carrying their own lives, but also the ardent expectations of their parents, wives and children.

Nothing is more important than being alive. We always have to beat something we don't like to get what we want.

people should learn to be proper in middle age.

when people reach a certain age, they should learn to bow to life, control their temper and take good care of their health.

In the play, although Xu Huanshan is the boss, he has an artist's lofty spirit in his bones, and he quarrels with customers without a word, thus offending the old customers who have cooperated for many years.

But the company needs money to run, a large number of employees have to support behind it, and the home mortgage has to be paid back, and the daily expenses have to be spent one by one.

In the end, it was Gu Jia who made amends for him, helped clean up the mess, and even tried his best to get into his wife's circle and asked for a new list.

when you feel that life is easy, it's just that someone is humble for you.

people who have experienced great storms tend to be more rational, not to be slaves to emotions, and not to overdraw their bodies at will.

Compared with Wang Manni who only worked hard and finally fainted in the rental house, Gu Jia is undoubtedly wise.

While taking care of her family, she knows that no matter how busy she is, she will keep fit, keep practicing yoga and keep a healthy diet.

In fact, 3 years old is like a hurdle. If you don't take good care of yourself, your body will slowly decline.

when we reach middle age, we are old and young, and often bear great responsibilities.

in order to love us and the people we love, it is a blessing to be "timid".

Marriage is never an eternal safe haven

Chen Yu said, "Everyone says that marriage is a safe haven, and I married you just to relax and worry."

I don't want Zhong Xiaoqin to say, "Who wants to take shelter from the wind and be a port?"

Indeed, marriage is not a one-man show, it needs two people to understand and support each other.

If only one partner is working hard and supporting hard, the balance of this relationship will be out of balance sooner or later.

A truly happy marriage requires two people to paddle together and ride the wind and waves.

There are no perfect two people in this world, only two hearts that accommodate and tolerate each other.

the life-long friendship between husband and wife is nothing more than that I am ill, so you cook me a bowl of porridge; You are tired, I will give you a shoulder to lean on.

The other half who has no sense of boundaries will cheat sooner or later.

Even if Gu Canon can make eyes at him once, he can't prevent Xu Huanshan from finally cheating.

why?

Because Xu Huanshan has no sense of boundaries in the process of getting along with the opposite sex.

Before, a female subordinate made him a lunch and bought oranges for 25 yuan each. He didn't know how to avoid suspicion, and even praised it several times.

After that, did the "green tea" forest cast an admiring look at him, and he readily accepted this worship. They even ate ice cream and watched fireworks together.

In the face of an evil woman, Xu Huanshan did not deliberately keep his distance, but gave the other person a chance to constantly test his bottom line.

choosing to enter marriage means trust, loyalty, responsibility and responsibility.

keeping a distance from the opposite sex is the most basic respect for the other half.

how many marriages are destroyed by a lack of sense of boundaries.

if you love someone, please give TA a real sense of security, and have a good sense of proportion when getting along with the opposite sex.

family of origin's pain should be healed by herself

Zhong Xiaoqin is pregnant, and Chen Yu's first reaction is not surprise, but fear.

He is afraid that he can't bear the responsibility of being a father and can't give his children a better life.

Gu Jia, who also grew up in a single-parent family, learned to do everything by herself after her mother died at the age of 13.

Because of family of origin's influence, Chen Yu is afraid to have children, for fear that children will follow her own footsteps; Zhong Xiaoqin, on the other hand, is trying to be strong.

Adler, an Austrian psychiatrist, once said a famous saying: "Happy people use their childhood to cure their whole lives, while unfortunate people use their whole lives to cure their childhood."

Although it is difficult to be really strong, please believe that even if you are mired in the mire, you will one day emerge from the mud like a lotus flower and bloom yourself.

What is more chilling than cheating is cold violence

Zhong Xiaoqin and Chen Yu, one likes to raise fish and the other likes to keep cats.

One likes to eat fried dough sticks with porridge for breakfast, while the other likes milk with bread.

they eat at the same table, but they are completely different.

It is obvious that two people live together, but they are even more lonely than one person.

Zhong Xiaoqin wants to communicate when encountering problems, but Chen Yu refuses to communicate and change. Even if she responds, it is only a few cold explanations.

There is a saying: "The most terrible thing is not to die alone, but to die with someone who makes you lonely."

In marriage, what consumes people more than cheating is endless cold violence.

Although the body is unscathed, the heart is already riddled with holes.

The road of life is very long. If the person who will spend the rest of his life hand in hand can't properly arrange this relationship, he would rather be alone than be disappointed in ignorance.

Every mother is actually a tough character

There is a saying: "Women are weak, but motherhood is strong."

But no woman is born a mother. Children are a qualitative change in their life.

As Gu Jia said, "On the first day of my confinement, I suddenly felt that Gu Jia was dead, and it was Xu Ziyan's mother who survived."

In order for her son to go to a good kindergarten, Gu Jia put down her figure and repeatedly tried to please Mrs. Wang, who can help her children enter the kindergarten.

Walking barefoot for more than 2 floors to carry Mrs. Wang's shoes is not to lose face, but since the day she became a mother, children have become her biggest weakness.

when her son was bullied by other parents, at the age of 3, she hit someone for the first time.

"Because there are more precious things than dignity, and there are people who want to protect."

I heard that God can't be everywhere, so I created a mother. Every mother is the biggest patron saint of children.

don't mess with the mothers, they are all tough characters, who can bear the responsibility and the life!

the three views of parents are the wealth of a child's life

The greatest wealth that parents can leave their children is not money or a house, but the three views that moisten their hearts.

A child in kindergarten had a seizure, and a mother of the family committee encouraged her parents to vote for her to drop out of school.

Gu Jia not only supports letting this little friend stay, but also patiently explains to his son why his little friend is ill, and demonstrates with her husband how to help others.

When his son said that he didn't like equestrian, Gu Jia didn't push him, but sat down and communicated with him, encouraging the children to try.

French scholar Baudas said: "People's ideas and standards are deeply influenced by their parents and rooted in their minds."

Children are still young and cannot form their own critical thinking ability. It is their parents' ideas that determine their attitude towards the world and influence their views on life.

Only when parents have a correct outlook on themselves can their children achieve great success.

Don't overestimate yourself or underestimate others

Gu Jia tried her best to get into the wife circle. When she thought she was getting along smoothly, she didn't want to be set aside by Mrs. Li and transferred a tea factory with expired qualifications to her.

There is an old saying in China: "Be a man, don't overestimate yourself."

don't overestimate your position in other people's hearts because of the sporadic benefits in the past, otherwise all expectations will eventually turn into disappointment.

people, don't take yourself too seriously, but don't underestimate others at the same time.

A customer with plain clothes went into the store to shop, and other shopping guides bluntly wasted time. However, Wang Manni didn't look down on others, but still patiently received them, and finally won a million big orders.

the most important thing for people to walk in the world is to have a humble heart.

don't look down on others, don't look down on yourself, and don't covet temporary interests. Only by keeping your own acre of land can you live brilliantly.

Don't be in a hurry to forgive the person who has hurt you

Wang Manni was framed by her colleague. She threw a glass of water at her directly, warned the other party with malicious words, and found that she had been cheated by love rat. She took off her clothes on the spot and broke up coldly.

Gu Jia was surrounded by his wife. She stepped on the door and found her husband cheating, so she decided to divorce.

In the face of injury, they are not in a hurry to forgive, because they know that connivance of evil is ignorance of good.

I have read this sentence. Be grateful to those who have hurt you. It is they who make you strong.

But malice is malice. Why should we pull it out with a smile when someone else has inserted it?

You don't have to pretend to be generous. What you should thank most is yourself who has not given up after being injured.

The parents who have worked hard all their lives get us through to the end.

Three different protagonists have the same parents:

Gu Jia's father doesn't want to bother his daughter and chooses to live alone;

Wang Manni's mother is worried about her daughter's hard work, and she calls every three to five times to ask questions.

Although Zhong Xiaoqin is married, her mother will often come to cook for the young couple ...

As Gu Dad said,

"Children are debts of our past lives. If we can't do it, we can be a boat that ferry people and send them wherever we want before we close our eyes."

This may be a true portrayal of most parents in China.

When I was young, I ran for my children. When I was old, I was still worried about their happiness. All my life, I spent the boat crossing my children.

in their eyes, as long as they are there, no matter how old they are, children are children after all.

Their care and preference for their children is unmatched by anyone.

Your kindness will grow into a tree that will bless you.

Gu Jia is a wise woman with vision, courage and pattern, but at the same time she has a soft part in her heart.

In the face of the female secretary who has been publicized to the old man, Gu Jia dismissed her and gave her an extra two months' salary and recommendation letter;

Some parents encouraged everyone to unite and forced the epileptic student to drop out of school, but Gu Jia chose to support the child to stay.

When the tea factory was pitted, Gu Jia wanted to stop the loss, but because he couldn't bear to leave the tea farmers and children, he gambled all his fortune again and continued his tea garden career.

Some people say that Gu Jia is the winner of life that everyone envies, but they ignore that she is helpless sometimes.

No matter how hard the process is, Gu Jia can always save the day again and again.

If there is a noble person, then this "noble person" must be herself, and her kindness and sincerity support her to achieve herself.

Beethoven once said, "Anyone who is kind and noble in behavior will certainly bear the hardships because of it."

Born as a human being, there are unavoidable sufferings and endless rugged terrain. There are many strong and brave people in this world, but only sincere and kind people can walk the whole course.

There is a question in Zhihu: "When did you begin to realize that life is not easy?"

A netizen replied, "When I started eating bitter gourd, I didn't feel bitter, because life was much more bitter than bitter gourd."

yes, the essence of life is that there are many difficulties after thousands of difficulties.

Maybe what you think is earth-shattering at the age of twenty is nothing at all at the age of thirty.

at the age of 3, you will laugh it off at the age of 4.

There is a hurdle in every stage of life. When you pass it, everything is a passing sight.

May you cut through the thorns, be brave enough to face the life of a chicken feather and hold up your own day;

May you ride the wind and waves, hold your lover's hand, and successfully step through all kinds of hurdles in life;

I hope that after going through Qian Fan, you can still say frankly, "Why are you afraid of thirty? That's all."

I wish you to live your best at every age, with 2 years of innocence, 3 years of wantonness, 4 years of joy, 5 years of knowing your destiny, and the rest of your life can be expected.