1, learning becomes lazy, and learning becomes lazy.
2, people have a hurdle, lost in their prime; Don't give up on yourself when you study that night.
3, accumulate wealth, do not study.
4, living with good people, such as entering the room of Lan Zhi, has been fragrant for a long time; Being with the wicked is like entering the land of abalone, which stinks.
Sincerity is better than hypocrisy.
6. It's a pity that time is a pity, just like lost water. Making a confidential statement will help your career.
7. Seeing waves is not chaotic, and listening to them is not chaotic.
8. I slept last night and regret yesterday today.
9. Those who seek fame without self-cultivation will look evil and blame Yan Ying for being in the mirror.
10, the husband eats for the people, and the people have no food.
1 1, marriage should not be greedy.
12, one tenth of things in the world are abandoned by difficulties and nine tenths by laziness.
13, you can't hesitate to live. This gentleman cherishes taking risks, fearing hardships, doing things that are difficult to eliminate disasters, and dying of greed. If you are sincere and filial, you will see thieves; Righteousness is offensive; If you lose your family, you will help the country. A gentleman doesn't blame you.
Yan Zhitui s Thoughts on Family Education;
(1) Family education should be carried out as soon as possible.
(2) Love and teaching should be combined.
(3) When dealing with world affairs, we should attach importance to practical education.
(4) We should cultivate an open-minded and diligent learning attitude.
Excerpts from famous sentences of Yan Zhitui, an ancient educator in China.
Yan Zhitui (53 1 year-about 595) was born in Linyi (now Linyi, Shandong), Han nationality. China, an ancient writer and educator, lived from the Southern and Northern Dynasties to the Sui Dynasty. Yan Zhitui's "Yan Family Instructions" has an important influence on the development history of family education. It is an important prose work in the late Northern Dynasties. Guanzi Fu Sheng is contained in Biography of Northern Qi Dynasty, and it is also a famous fu.
Yan Zhitui's famous saying:
1, learning becomes lazy, and learning becomes lazy.
2, people have a hurdle, lost in their prime; Don't give up on yourself when you study that night.
3, accumulate wealth, do not study.
4, living with good people, such as entering the room of Lan Zhi, has been fragrant for a long time; Being with the wicked is like entering the land of abalone, which stinks.
Sincerity is better than hypocrisy.
6. It's a pity that time is a pity, just like lost water. Making a confidential statement will help your career.
7. Seeing waves is not chaotic, and listening to them is not chaotic.
8. I slept last night and regret yesterday today.
9. Those who seek fame without self-cultivation will look evil and blame Yan Ying for being in the mirror.
10, the husband eats for the people, and the people have no food.
1 1, marriage should not be greedy.
12, one tenth of things in the world are abandoned by difficulties and nine tenths by laziness.
13, you can't hesitate to live. This gentleman cherishes taking risks, fearing hardships, doing things that are difficult to eliminate disasters, and dying of greed. If you are sincere and filial, you will see thieves; Righteousness is offensive; If you lose your family, you will help the country. A gentleman doesn't blame you.
Yan Zhitui s Thoughts on Family Education;
(1) Family education should be carried out as soon as possible.
(2) Love and teaching should be combined.
(3) When dealing with world affairs, we should attach importance to practical education.
(4) We should cultivate an open-minded and diligent learning attitude.
Famous sayings of family education
1, the children's grandparents may only have some limited educational experience, which is useless because of their doting and connivance.
Parents can only gain their children's admiration and love through continuous progress and their own personality strength. Jiang Jing
3. Children from poor families should be taken care of early, but they must be wary of short-sightedness.
All dude are rich, although not all rich kids are dude. Heroes have suffered a lot since ancient times and have never been too handsome.
5. Whoever can make a child move like a rabbit and be as quiet as a virgin will master the secret of education.
6. Whoever can make children have their own opinions, know how to compromise, be bold and know how to obey will stop the key to education.
If parents want to cultivate their children's healthy personality, they must create a relaxed and harmonious family.
8. Before parents become family educators, it is best to study and teach by themselves.
9. Preschool education should pay more attention to the development of children's good habits.
10, usually at home, parents and children try to maintain an equal status, and ask their children for advice when something happens.
1 1. Parents should prepare a notebook to record what happened with their children or the confusion caused by the problems found. The process of frequent recording is actually a simple process of self-reflection.
12, parents should not do everything for their children and deprive them of their self-care ability.
13. Beating and cursing can't solve children's education problems, but can only vent parents' impatience.
14. Parents should not pin all their education on schools and teachers, because children spend half their time at home in a year, so family education is as important as school education, or even more important.
15, children's picky eaters start with what their parents say is not delicious.
16. When parents are confused about their children's education, they can try to consult teachers, neighbors or education experts.
17. Young parents in China spend thousands of dollars to learn driving or send their children to training institutions, but few people attend family education and training.
18, if you do the above 20 family education maxims, you will definitely achieve excellent children.
19, good character is better than excellent intelligence.
20. The baby's mood is a reflection of knowing the world.
2 1, talents are like natural flowers and trees, which need pruning.
22. The education of children should not only focus on intelligence and scores, because it is often not the level of knowledge that determines the success or failure of life or happiness and pain, but the health level of personality, and behavior habits are just one of the key factors that affect personality development.
23. A behavior repeatedly forms habits, habits repeatedly form quality, and quality changes fate.
24. Good habits are the capital stored by children, which will continue to increase in value, and people will enjoy its interest all their lives.
Only when parents and teachers form good educational habits can your children or students form good habits.
26. 80% of children's bad habits are formed at home.
Parents must remember that in family education, emotional education is always greater than rational education.
28. What kind of person a child will become in the future is always more important than his current achievements.
29. Parents should give their children room to grow freely, guide them in the wrong direction and encourage them in the right direction.
30. Loving children does not necessarily mean understanding them. Only by making friends with children can education play a role.
3 1. For children, life is a school, and every grass and tree can be the object of research and exploration.
32. Children's learning is comprehensive, not limited to reading, writing, arithmetic and various skills.
33. Too hasty and slow education will destroy children's normal psychological development.
In any industry, the first step to success is to be interested in it, especially in children's learning.
35. Education must begin with the psychological exploration of children's interests and habits.
36. Parents are educating themselves as well as their children.
Parents are natural teachers and have the greatest influence on children, especially young children.
Stimulating children's desire for knowledge and learning is far more meaningful than teaching limited knowledge.
39. Parents can't accompany their children all their lives, so they must cultivate their children's social consciousness and independent consciousness from an early age.
40, before reaching the age of reason, children can't accept the concept, can only accept the image.
4 1. The process of parents educating their children is also a process of self-awareness and learning.
42. The art of education lies not in imparting skills, but in trying to awaken and inspire.
43. The way to bring one's abilities into full play is appreciation and encouragement.
44. Parents are the earliest enlightenment teachers for all the words and deeds of children in life.
45. Children's rationality is constantly growing. Don't feed them, guide them.
As long as parents make good use of it, every detail in life can be used to educate their children.
47. Learning in life is the most effective learning method for young children.
48. Character cultivation begins in infancy.
49. If you really love your child, you should let him go to sea in the storm.
50. The distinction between imagination and display makes it easy for children to integrate into the story and get education from it.
5 1, timely guide children to tell stories, which is a wonderful way to keep active thinking.
52. Combining fairy tales to guide children to think and explore is more profound than simple reasoning.
53. Simple and concise fairy tales often contain rich knowledge and profound truth.
54. Parents should gradually cultivate their children's habit of thinking and solving problems independently, thus building their confidence.
55. The main skill of teaching children is to turn what children should do into games.
56. A person's success = 1% IQ) +99% EQ).
57. Motherly love is the most sacred feeling in the world, which should be because it is the least profitable.
58. There are infinite possibilities between children and young children, which need to be explored and guided by parents.
59. As long as teachers and parents are in harmony, the resultant force of education can be formed.
60. A rich imagination is more important than book knowledge.
6 1. In children's world, everything is the same as people, with thoughts and feelings.
62. Exercise is expensive, but diet is expensive.
63. Children make their own small toys. Although rough, they are far happier than ready-made exquisite toys.
64. Without understanding and trust, there can be no friendship.
65. All education begins with our understanding of children's nature.
66. Parents are the first school where children learn about the world and acquire knowledge.
Besides patience, we should also pay attention to the methods and skills of educating young children.
68. Children's humor is the most natural and frank human language, which needs parents' heart to discover and experience.
69. There are joys and sorrows in parenting.
70. No friend can match health, and no enemy can match illness.
7 1, the right medicine can cure the disease.
72. The task of family education is to educate parents to study first.
73. Liu Lianghua's family education motto 100.
74. The main factor that affects children's grades is not school, but family. Family education is the foundation of human growth and bacon education.
75. If there is something wrong with family education, children may have a hard time at school, and children may become problem children at school.
76. Parents' responsibility is to provide their children with two kinds of inheritance: one is congenital inheritance. One is acquired inheritance. Educators can be optimistic about education, but don't be so optimistic that they don't consider heredity. The ugly duckling became a white swan mainly because the ugly duckling studied hard, but because the ugly duckling's mother gave birth to a goose egg instead of a duck egg.
77. Corporal punishment is a simple primitive education with sticks and swearing, which is extremely unfavorable to children's physical and mental growth. Xu
78. After the child is born, parents have the responsibility to let the child accept good acquired inheritance as much as possible. Attaching importance to acquired inheritance means providing a family environment suitable for children's growth and raising the importance of family environment to a level similar to heredity.
79. For children, the family environment is similar to the mother's womb. The mother's uterus is the child's first palace, and the family environment is the child's second palace.
80. Let children experience other people's sufferings in hard places, and let children provide whatever help they can, so as to gain a sense of accomplishment and self-identity. The only way to change a child's bad habit of giving up on himself is to let him face the sufferings of others and help the suffering people as much as possible.
8 1, parents care about their children's sexual health, which is equivalent to giving their children a lifetime of happiness. Ma Wenhui
82. Let children feel helpless and painful when helping others. Let the child want to help others but can't do anything about it, thus stimulating his desire for self-improvement and making himself stronger and more responsible, so that he can help more people in the future.
83. Return the innocent and happy childhood to children, and preserve and enrich their sensibility. It is the greatest gift from nature to human beings and the wealth of children's life! Zhenshitian
84. There are two critical periods for children's growth. The first critical period is about 3 years old. About 3 years old is a critical period for children's intellectual and personality development; The second critical period is about 13 years old, and about 13 years old is a critical period for children and adolescents to develop and live independently. If parents make good use of the critical period of their children's growth, their children's future education will be smooth sailing. If you miss the critical period of growth, you will have endless troubles.
Only by putting what they have learned into practice can children really grow up. Gu Xin
86. The first mission of parents is to provide a good family environment for their children. Parents don't need to do much, just provide and maintain a good family environment for their children. To be a good parent is to be a family environmentalist. Good family environment and good children; If the family environment goes wrong, the child will become problem children. Sometimes, when a child is ill, it is not the child but the parents who need to take medicine.
87. If you look at children from another angle, you will see their advantages and growth points. Skinlin
88. Don't let children go to school in the morning. Children can't be born prematurely, because children need adequate protection in the mother's womb, so that the fetus has enough resistance to communicate with outsiders before going out. Children can't go to school too early, because they need adequate protection at home, so that they can take care of themselves and study by themselves before going out to associate with outsiders. Chinese medicine says: it is evil to fight for memory.
A person who loves his parents will love others, life and the world better in the future. Zhao Jingbo
90. School education always attaches importance to students' knowledge learning and stands on the side of knowledge standard; Family education must stand on the side of personality-body standard and pay more attention to children's personality and body. Family belongs to family, and school belongs to school. God's belongs to God, and Caesar's belongs to Caesar.
9 1, mental abuse is a comprehensive destruction of children's self-esteem and self-confidence. Zhang Jianhe
92. The standard of good moral character is civilized spirit, the standard of good health is savage body, and the standard of good study is self-study.
93. Effective learning is marginal learning, while ineffective learning is focus learning. There is something wrong with the child's study, but the reason lies in the child's mood or body. Parents directly guide their children to learn, just like gardeners throw water and nutrients directly to yellow leaves.
94. Academic achievement is the tip of the iceberg of human growth. Below the iceberg is a person's personality and body. Personality and body are two fulcrums of academic achievement.
95. Human growth follows the law of decreasing potential. A child born with 100 degree potential may grow into a person with 100 degree potential if he is educated ideally from the age of 0. If you start to receive education at the age of 5, even if you have a very good education, you can only have 80 degrees of ability; If you start education at the age of 10, you can only have 60 degrees of ability at most. In other words, the later education starts, the less children's abilities are realized. Kimura kuichi
96. Poverty is an educational resource, while affluence is another higher education resource. More advanced educational resources need more advanced educational skills. Without advanced educational skills, wealthy families will bring disaster to children's growth.
97. Educated parents always ask their children patiently when they are very young. Educated parents are Voltaire: I don't agree with you, but I will defend your right to speak to the death.
98. A successful education is like a tiger father without a dog, and a failed education is like a weak mother. Educated parents always take the cultivation of self-care ability and self-study ability as the top priority in educating their children.
99. The secret of making children independent is to provide them with freedom of choice. Free choice leads to responsibility. If the child loses the right to choose freely, if what he does is completely forced and instructed by others, then the child learns to cope and perfunctory.
100 As parents, we must strive to win the heartfelt respect of our children. Jiang Jing
10 1. Understand and appreciate children's specialties, so that children can have a sense of accomplishment because of their own specialties. Let children have lofty aspirations and lofty sentiments because of their sense of accomplishment.
102, strict management around 3 years old, be the parents of children; /kloc-gradually put it down around the age of 0/3 and make friends with children. Effective education is first strict and then loose, while ineffective education is first loose and then strict. Effective incentives are from five to nine, and ineffective incentives are from nine to five.
103, children need company when they grow up. Only children can understand children, and only children's company can accompany children to grow up. Children never expect giants to understand themselves, and children never regard condescending adults as their friends. Parents can be only children, but they can't let their children grow up alone. Without brothers and sisters and partners, the only child will fall into double loneliness: not only the only child, but also the only child.
104, successful family education comes from parents' in-depth understanding, acceptance and respect for their children, rather than exposing their shortcomings. Lv Bin
105, Meng Mu moved three times, and Rousseau took Emile to the countryside. Don't let children have too many partners before they form mature rationality and judgment, and be alert to the bad habits of their peers.
106, no matter how successful parents are, their children will fail in education, and they will fail all their lives.
107, good parents guard their children and let them grow up on their own initiative; Bad parents do things for their children and let them grow passively.
108, a good mother regards her son as a friend and bad mother regards her son as a lover.
109, there are two most difficult things for human beings: one is how to rule others; The other is how to educate others. Kande)
1 10, if you want to be healthy, you must be hungry and cold. It is forbidden to eat snacks before meals to make children feel hungry enough. Those who can't drink the nectar from the barrel are unfortunate. Let children eat sweets such as candy and chocolate as little as possible. Children who eat sweets without restraint will be in poor health and have no better personality. Children don't have to wear heavy clothes, and children are not as afraid of the cold as adults.
1 1 1. For a child who is a little sensible, you can give him a look or a hint and keep silent for a while, which will often achieve the effect of silent notification even more than they used to. Lv Bin
1 12. Shouting for peace, but holding a big stick in his hand. Successful family education will always make children have one or more favorite and awe-inspiring people around them.
1 13, eating and sleeping are suitable for domesticating pets, but not for educating children.
1 14, we should respect the work of nannies, which is sacred, but we should not shirk the responsibility of educating children to nannies.
1 15. Poverty is an important educational resource, and the children of the poor take charge early.
1 16, parents who earn money must let their children experience the hardships and bitterness of their parents' labor.
1 17, parents who earn money can't be embarrassed because their children go out to work, and they can't condone their children's nonsense because of guilt.
1 18, parents who go to work must let their children develop the ability of self-care and self-study as soon as possible because of their parents' housekeeping. The most vigilant parents are the Monkey King's parents. Educated parents are just like the Monkey King's parents: let their children overcome obstacles, let them experience hardships and let them experience difficulties. Only when children can't solve the difficulties after hard work can they land beside them.
1 19, for older children, parents can tell him in a whisper that most children are willing to accept this gentle education. Lv Bin
120. Working parents must have one person at home to accompany their children or ask for tutoring for their children.
12 1. If working parents can't accompany their children, they must find suitable professionally trained tutors for their children, instead of simply giving them to grandparents or nannies.
122, let the children play the game of self-reliance, let the children leave their parents and go to the place of suffering: if he doesn't work, he will starve to death. The only way to change children's bad habit of getting something for nothing is to let them leave their parents for a period of time.
123, the insect jujube is early red, and the sick child is precocious. Intellectual geniuses are often deprived of their personality and physical growth.
124 A bunch of approving eyes, a knowing smile and an approving nod can convey the true feelings of encouragement and praise for children. Zhang Shiping
125, taking children to travel, climbing mountains, visiting parks and watching movies are all the most appropriate ways to praise children. Zhang Shiping
126, parents' good emotional atmosphere and harmonious family life atmosphere are the environmental basis for cultivating children's healthy psychology. Lv Bin
127. In the long run, the relationship between parents in the family also affects to some extent whether children can establish true love with a certain opposite sex in the future and what kind of family life style they choose. Ma Wenhui
128, if children want to become talents, parents must not be more ruthless, but let their children go their own way. Xiao Yu
129, there should be a limit to the appreciation of children, a certain degree of punishment for children, and a clear way of operation. lantern ring
130, in the case of children making mistakes, appropriate punishment is necessary, but it must be on the premise of respecting children's personality and maintaining children's self-esteem. lantern ring
13 1. When punishing a person, the most important thing is to awaken people's self-esteem and self-confidence: I am a real person and an excellent person, and I should be punished if I do something wrong. I accept punishment in order to become a better person. lantern ring
132, when we praise children, we should be eclectic and appropriate according to time and situation, so as to fully show the true charm of praise. Zhang Shiping
133, Wang Shouren, a thinker in the Ming Dynasty, said: Generally speaking, boys are naturally willing to play and swim, but they dare not be frugal. If the grass is budding, it will be smooth, and if it is broken, it will be weak.
134. Some parents reward their children for learning progress, which is tantamount to bribery and extremely wrong. east
135. From the long-term interests, it may be more conducive to cultivating children's endurance and will, and more conducive to their healthy growth. east
136, the result that parents expect too much from their children is often counterproductive. east
137, our education is to save students from obedient normative education and restore their nature of free thinking. Miaotijun
138, leave students' thinking space to themselves, and of course teachers should give strong guidance to this. Miaotijun
139, the long feudal society is to cultivate obedient subjects and stifle the most dynamic innovative spirit of the Chinese nation. Miaotijun
140, the child's mind is as pure as a blank sheet of paper, easily influenced by truth, goodness and beauty, and easily polluted by falsehood, ugliness and ugliness. Zhang
14 1, let children enjoy the joy of fighting in the wind and rain, and let children grow and mature in the tempering of life. Zhang Shiping
142, let the child suffer, and he will feel the sweetness of life. Xue canzhi
143, nothing is more important than making children confident in their growth. Yuan zaju
144. In early education, we should cherish and preserve children's rich and keen feelings and desires in early life, and don't let children's minds become knowledgeable too early, that is, abstract, bookish and symbolic). Zhenshitian
145, the best way to preserve and enrich children's sensibility is to let children stay in nature and pay attention to the world around them. Zhenshitian
146, take children to break through the narrow circle of their own lives and feel the prosperity and happiness of life in nature. Zhenshitian
147, consciously let children experience some abnormal environments, such as storms and heavy snow.
148, if both husband and wife teach their children different views, it will confuse the child with right and wrong, which is not conducive to the cultivation of his good character. Zhao xiuduo
149, kneel down and listen to the children, and you will see a pure and flawless world! Ruan gengmei
150, suffering is like calcium in the process of children's growth, and it is an indispensable spiritual nutrition. William Lee
15 1. Cultivating children's strong and optimistic psychological character can provide a strong fulcrum for their later life. William Lee
152. Argument is an extremely important way for children to reach the peak of intelligence. narcissus
153. For children, parents are living people, role models and tangible heroes. Haitao Zhang
154, teaching children to return, this is an indispensable lesson in parents' parenting responsibilities, and it is also the basis for children to be accepted by society in the future. high mountain
155, in the process of taking care of children, the elderly should grasp the scale of educating children, neither offside nor being a vase. Xu Li
156, like children, but don't spoil them. Xu Li
157, in the new era, there are always new requirements for education, and we should try our best to draw pedagogy nutrition from books or magazines. Only in this way can grandparents play an active role in intergenerational education and benefit their grandchildren and themselves. Xu Li
The ultimate goal of education is to meet the needs of human self-development, and early education is no exception. Zhenshitian
159, under the condition of underdeveloped spirit and emotion and poor direct impression accumulation, formally mastering a lot of knowledge will inevitably cause people's feelings to shrink. Zhenshitian
160. Every parent who is responsible for his child's future should firmly remember this important parenting principle and do what he can for his child, which is the biggest blow to his enthusiasm. blue sky
16 1, incompetent people can't cultivate talented people, and famous teachers make excellent students. Parents should constantly improve and enrich themselves, and only by learning tirelessly can they tirelessly teach others. a surname
162. When parents criticize their children, please save some face for them. Lv Bin
163, a person may be poor, but he can feel the richness of life under the condition of poor material life. Zhenshitian
164, a person may be rich, but if he has no soul and rich sensibility, he probably won't really enjoy life. Zhenshitian
165, consciously let children pay attention to the beginning and end of some things, such as the first bunch of flowers and the last leaf on the branch, the first swallow flying in the sky and the first rain and snow flying south, the sunrise and sunset at dawn. As long as you have time and nature, it will always be the best book for children! Zhenshitian
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