For Li Lie, this is a love and marriage in which love is dying. After torturing each other for two years, they divorced. Li Lie went on with his work and spent all his energy and time on his career. She invested most of her savings. Unfortunately, these measures did not bring her benefits, but left her penniless and penniless.
Li Lie was 30 years old at this time. She has never encountered such a blow and setback in her life. Even when she was divorced, she had never felt so bad. At such an unfortunate moment, she met Tayu Lo again.
That little boy has become a capable and responsible person. Tayu Lo met her in the most difficult time in Li Lie, helped her, gave her a place to live and gave her a support. Soon, two people living together fell in love. They eat together, participate in activities together, make music together, walk from early morning to dusk together, and walk from youth to middle age. 1999, the two entered the marriage hall.
But after more than ten years together, it finally came to an end one year after marriage. In 2000, two people went through the divorce procedure.
A life of mutual companionship
People often don't believe in love at first sight and think it is superficial and insincere. In contrast, a long-lived relationship is more reliable and stable. However, love is love, and it is not doomed that two people will be together forever just because it is a long-term love. Just like Tayu Lo and Li Lie, after knowing each other for more than ten years, they will never meet again.
Why did you break up after being together for so long? Why can't you keep each other when you get married?
What is the most important thing for two people to be together? In my opinion, it is appropriate. Appropriate personality, living habits, all aspects. Of course, not all relationships or marriages are incomparable from the beginning. There is always a process of running-in and adaptation. What is running in? It is the two parties who are not used to and adapt to love to make corresponding changes, rather than the endless accommodation of one of them.
Li Lie once said in the program "Kangxi Comes" that Tayu Lo, as a musician, must listen to the songs played outside when sleeping. Li Lie was completely unaccustomed to it at first. She gave Tayu Lo a suggestion, but she didn't take it to heart, and even got angry later. Slowly, she stopped talking. Finally, she also got used to this way of falling asleep.
But this is not a run-in, but a unilateral accommodation. It can be seen from such a small detail that the running-in of two people is not successful.
But it is reasonable to say that two people have been getting along for more than ten years. How can they feel that they are not suitable for each other in just one year?
In fact, everything is developing slowly, and the understanding of a person is also changing slowly. Some people may get along with each other all their lives and never know who they are. Moreover, people who love each other will always tolerate each other. It's just that this tolerance is not infinite. When negative emotions such as disappointment and sadness accumulate to a certain extent, this tolerance will end.
One point and two widths, each has its own fun.
In fact, in a relationship, two people have experienced countless losses and pains from falling in love to not loving. When love has gone away from each other, two people continue to be together, which is not life, but being tied up and numb. So, it is better to say goodbye to each other, bid farewell to the past and start a new life.
After the divorce, both of them now have their own new lives. Li Lie embarked on the road of producer, and most of the movies and TV series she handled were talked about. Li Lie, who experienced ups and downs in the first half of his life, finally understood that when you fall in love with others, don't forget to love yourself. On the other hand, Tayu Lo also met a new wife and had a lovely daughter. After the divorce, the two people did not feel depressed because they left each other, but realized the meaning of happiness more clearly.
Although Tayu Lo and Li Lie can't get together, they are both very lucky. After leaving, you can still live with a smile. Most people envy the kind of love that never dies, but behind the long-term love is the precious mutual love? Accommodation? .
References:
Tayu Lo's ex-wife Li Lie: Our wedding is just a play? Guangzhou Daily
Encyclopedia entry? Li Lie? 、? Tayu Lo?