Today, I will talk about an example of flattery, but the more I shoot, the more annoying it is, for your reference!
First, ignorant teenagers learn from age, and the more they pull relationships, the more annoying they are!
Chen Gang listened to his father's famous saying at work, "Depend on parents at home and friends when going out." "When a fellow villager sees a fellow villager, his eyes are full of tears!" If you go out to work and meet fellow villagers, talk more about lesbian relations. Only good is not bad. What a coincidence, Xiao Chen really met a senior fellow-townsman-Xiao Li at work, and he is a fellow-townsman in the same city, but Xiao Chen is from the county seat and Xiao Li is from the countryside. However, Xiao Li works early, is also very capable and handsome. Now in the company, I have been mixed with middle-level leaders, who speak standard Mandarin and occasionally speak a few words of English. Xiao Chen studied in general and graduated from university. When he first arrived at the company, he ran errands and did odd jobs every day. He was very happy when he knew that Xiao Li and he were fellow villagers. If he has something to do, he will show it off among his colleagues. It is better for him to have a fellow villager in the company, and then.
Every time Xiao Chen meets Xiao Li in the company, it's always Li Ge and Li Ge. But he gradually discovered that Li Ge was cold to himself, and sometimes even rejected himself. I have always been puzzled by two monks. Until one day, Xiao Chen was fired by the company. It turned out to be Li Ge's suggestion. My heart is cold and cold, and I am warm and full of enthusiasm. Meeting fellow villagers is like meeting relatives. Who knows that my hometown not only didn't help, but also filmed me behind my back. I'm confused. I really didn't offend Xiao Li. Why did Xiao Li do this?
It was not until one day that Xiao Chen saw a historical story that he suddenly realized. In the Ming Dynasty, Zhu Yuanzhang was born in a cowherd, worked as a beggar and a monk, and had a rough life. When he became emperor, did he come from his hometown, or did Zhu Yuanzhang grow up? As a result, this man was not sensible, and he went to curry favor with Zhu Yuanzhang blindly, saying, when we were young, we went to the East Village to beg, remember? When we were young, we all herded sheep for the rich man Liu, and his children beat us. Do you remember? What he said was hype, but Zhu Yuanzhang's face turned red and white. He is the emperor now and doesn't want to be mentioned again. As a result, Zhu Yuanzhang had small hair and was kicked out with a big stick, saying that he was talking nonsense.
After reading the story, Xiao Chen finally realized that Li Ge is now in the company, boasting that his hometown has been in the city and that he is studying abroad. He is really stupid. When I arrived at the company, I wanted to please Li Ge, boasting that I and Li Ge were fellow villagers everywhere, which was actually exposing the old foundation of Li Ge. People are proud. Talking about unpleasant things in the past will naturally make Li Ge more and more annoyed, because Li Ge will feel that the glorious image he has created over the years has been crushed.
Everyone loves their hometown very much, sometimes they really love it in their hearts, but some people really don't want to mention their hometown sometimes, because their hometown is poor and backward, and they are afraid of being looked down upon!
Making friends and climbing relatives may be a way to ask others for help, but only if they are willing to pull with you.
Second, there is nothing wrong with being loyal to the superior, and the company will suffer if it changes people!
Xiao Chen also listened to his father's words. "Listen to your parents at home and listen to the leaders outside." "Do whatever the leader tells you to do, yes, there is nothing to lose." So in another job, he told his immediate supervisor, Manager Zhao, where to play and what to do. Although he has no relatives or friends in this city, he has been appreciated by Manager Zhao by his own efforts, whether meeting customers or reporting to senior leaders. Manager Zhao always takes Xiao Chen with him. During that time, Chen Xiaozhen became a popular fried chicken, and he was everywhere. However, the good times did not last long. One day, Manager Zhao was suddenly transferred to another city to work. The new department head was the first person to use Xiao Chen and crowd him out.
Xiao Chen don't understand, but slowly recall, all this is a sign. Two months before manager Zhao left his job, there was a chat, and the superior leader of the company asked him what he thought of manager Zhao. Xiao Chen thinks this is a perfect answer: "Manager Zhao, he is very grateful to me. Manager Zhao's work is very good, and I can't speak ill of Manager Zhao. " There is nothing wrong with this sentence on the surface, but there are actually two major problems. One is that I am grateful to meet him, which means that he is manager Zhao's person. 2. What does "you can't speak ill of Manager Zhao" mean? Manager Zhao has shortcomings, but you Xiao Chen won't say anything? Or did you say Zhao got back at you, Xiao Chen? In fact, what you mean, Xiao Chen, is nothing more than to express that whoever is good to me will be good to him, and I can't do anything that is bad to people who are good to me. However, the company is very taboo to keep the middle and lower delegations warm.
To put it bluntly, there are two things in the job of an executive. If employees don't listen to the middle level, then try to get subordinates to listen to the middle level. If the employees listen to the middle class too much, try to separate you. Take a wooden bridge to balance, yes!
There is only one solution-always be loyal to work and rules and regulations, not someone. Be loyal to sb. If this person goes in the right direction, you will certainly rise quickly, but if the person you follow goes in the wrong direction, you are actually trying to get sick.
Third, make fun of your own abilities. The more you joke, the farther away you are!
Xiao Chen has been muddling along in the workplace for several years, and he has been depressed. As a result, an old classmate and good friend Xiao Wu extended an olive branch to him and invited him to start a business together. Xiao Chen Xin Ran agreed, and as a result, the two of them cooperated sincerely and the business grew. But in fact, Xiao Wu has always been in charge of the company, and Chen Xiao is a part-time worker, just a senior migrant worker and a migrant worker with a good relationship with his boss. With the development of her career, Xiao Chen is very happy and feels full of energy in her work. When I met Xiao Wu in the company, I always called him manager Wu. Xiao Chen still calls Xiao Wu's nickname-Mi Dan when addressing their classmates! Because he thought it was a joke, which showed that he was close to his boss. Xiao Wu didn't say anything, but once, Xiao Chen was caught by Guo Batian, the company's third son, taking kickbacks when talking about business. Guo Batian didn't like Xiao Chen for a long time, thinking that he was just a newcomer. What ability does he have to sit in the position of second child? As a result, when the meeting was held to discuss how to deal with it, Xiao Wu, the boss of the company, did not speak. Didn't you say anything? Didn't you acquiesce in Guo Batian's proposal? As a result, Xiao Chen only got a severance payment, and then he lost his job and returned to before liberation.
Of course, Xiao Chen was upset. He is full of enthusiasm for himself, and he keeps good relations with everyone sincerely. Why is the relationship getting stiff?
Depressed, I casually looked at the Romance of the Three Kingdoms and found that my story had a precedent in history. "Xu You, the word is far away, from Nanyang (now Nanyang, Henan). Originally a counselor under Yuan Shao's account, his family was arrested for breaking the law during the battle of Guandu. Therefore, Xu You betrayed Yuan Shao and took refuge in Cao Cao, and made a plan for Cao Cao to sneak into the lair of Yuan Shao's army grain depot. Yuan Shao was defeated by Guandu and made great contributions to Cao Cao. Later, Xu You followed Cao Cao to pacify Jizhou, and he repeatedly spoke wildly because of his independence. In the end, he was killed by Chu Xu because he angered Cao Cao's ministry. When Cao Cao knows, let him bury Xu You! . "
There is a poem that says, "I regret that I didn't study less, and I was stabbed three times in the workplace." I don't know until I get hurt. I must keep a low profile! " Never treat things correctly, never give trust! Call everyone the boss! It's a long liter. You can't pour medicine! "alas!