Don't make excuses for failure, just find reasons for success.
People who escape from reality will be even less ideal in the future.
It is not the environment that makes people, but people create the environment.
Those who have never failed may not succeed.
6. Life is a kind of endurance, so you should learn to support yourself.
7. If you put it down, you will have no worries.
8. In fact, every day can be a new beginning, and every day can be different.
9. You don't have to work hard, but nothing is work; You don't have to feel virtuous, but complaining is virtuous.
10, some roads are far away, and it may be very tiring to go on. However, if you don't leave, you will regret it.
1 1. Fate determines who will come into our lives, and our hearts determine who we will stand with.
12, if you take fewer detours, you will miss the scenery. Anyway, thank you for your experience.
13, don't promise when you are happy, don't answer when you are sad, and don't make a decision when you are angry.
Mentality determines fate
Fate is determined by the mind (1)
People's fate depends on their mentality. Both the negative and positive mentality are experienced in life and can be grasped.
A mediocre person, driven by things, becomes a mechanized person. Only when your commander gives the order will he work nonstop, which will lead to irritability. If he can find happiness, negative emotions will disappear. In fact, happiness is the source of the sleeping sea in your heart. You just need to reach it in a canoe, and happiness will trickle like running water. So make up your mind that the difficulties you encounter are the cornerstone of success. But when difficulties are in front of you, it is not surprising that you can overcome them. What should you do if there are thousands of difficulties in Qian Qian on the road to success? I think you should pick up a sword and try your best to chop at that wall, and the difficulties will be solved, and the dawn ahead will greet you brilliantly.
A person should not make important choices when he is in a bad mood. The choices made at this time are often pessimistic and negative. When you are in a good mood, you make the opposite choice. I have read such a sentence in a book: actively create life and passively consume life. I think this sentence clarifies a truth, that is, mentality determines fate, so you must make a choice when you are in a good mood in order to get ahead. However, many people in life can't see hope, because of the lack of self-regulation consciousness, which leads to hope stranded on the sandbar on the other side. However, as long as you have perseverance, perseverance and faith, it is entirely possible to control the negative mentality and play a steady trickle.
Xunzi said: the heart is the king of form, and so is the Lord of God. A philosopher said: Your mentality is your real master. A great man once said: Either you control life, or life controls you. Your mentality determines who is the mount and who is the jockey. The Buddha said that things change at will, the environment is created by the heart, and troubles are born by the heart. It is said that what kind of mentality a person has will produce what kind of results. Destiny is in your hands, see how you create it. Mentality is the key to success or failure, and success or failure is often between thoughts. However, having a positive attitude does not necessarily mean success, but you must take real action and break down the wall of difficulties with some ideas.
Therefore, life can not lose its positive attitude, because it is a canoe, carrying hope to the other side, carrying happiness. It is also a street lamp that illuminates and points the way forward.
Therefore, we should face life with a smile.
Mind decides fate (2)
Philosopher said: Your mentality is your real master. A great man once said: Either you control life, or life controls you. Your mentality determines who is the mount and who is the jockey. An artist said: you can't extend the length of life, but you can expand its width; You can't change the weather, but you can control your mood; You can't control the environment, but you can adjust your mentality. Dickens said: A sound mind is more powerful than a hundred kinds of wisdom. Emerson said: The whole world gives way to a person who keeps moving towards his goal forever. Although these words are simple but classic and incisive, there is no doubt that what kind of mental state a person has will produce what kind of life reality.
Therefore, it is very important to adjust our mentality at any time in our life. A person can always have a good attitude, which can make him cheerful and generous, optimistic and open-minded; A person can always have a good attitude, so that he can overcome all kinds of difficulties in his work and life at any time, even all kinds of hardships we encounter; A person can always have a good attitude, which can make him indifferent to fame and fortune and live a truly happy life.
Having a positive, healthy and peaceful attitude can not only help us get health and happiness, but also help us get success and hope. So we must change the wrong understanding in the past, re-examine ourselves, adjust ourselves and be a harmonious person.
Mentality determines life. A philosopher once said: Your thoughts are your masters. In real life, we can't control our experiences, but we can control our mentality; We cannot change others, but we can change ourselves. In fact, there is not much difference between people. The real difference lies in the mentality. Therefore, a person's success mainly depends on his mentality. Having a positive, healthy and progressive attitude is an essential quality for a person to succeed.
It is better to be angry than to live up to expectations. There are prosperity and adversity in life, and it is impossible to have adversity everywhere; There are peaks and valleys in life, and it is impossible to have valleys everywhere. Being cocky because of prosperity or peak, or depressed because of adversity or trough, can't look at life correctly. In the face of setbacks, if you just complain and get angry blindly, instead of challenging fate and fighting hard, you will eventually achieve nothing.
Confidence is the only way to win. Throughout the ages, many people failed not because of incompetence, but because they were not confident. Self-confidence is a kind of strength and a kind of motivation. When a person is not confident, it is difficult to do things well; When a person can't do anything well, he will feel more insecure. This is a vicious circle. If you want to get out of this vicious circle, you have to fight against failure and establish firm self-confidence.
The heart must act more. The heart is not as good as action. Although action may not be successful, it will not be successful without action. A person's goal begins with a dream, a person's happiness is grasped from the mentality, and a person's success is realized in action. Only action is the source of strength for our success.
Normal mind is indispensable. Life can't be smooth sailing, there are successes and failures; There are happiness and loss. If we take these gains and losses and ups and downs in life too seriously, then life will never be calm and there will never be joy for us. Life should be pursued, but don't let the temporary lack affect our happy life every day.
Give up at the right time and you will gain something. Don't force things that don't belong to you, learn to give up at the right time. Giving up in time is a kind of wisdom. Giving up at the right time can make us more aware of our internal potential and external factors, adjust our tired body and mind, and become a happy and wise person.
Tolerance is a virtue. As the saying goes, take a step back and have a peaceful mind. This means that people need tolerance. Tolerance is a virtue that can make a person respected. Tolerance is a good medicine that can save a person's soul. Tolerance is like a bright lamp, which can radiate radiant light in the dark and illuminate everyone's heart.
Learn to untie your own heart. The human mind is fragile and needs constant encouragement and comfort. Self-encouragement and self-praise will make the mind happy. Learning to untie the knot is to create a warm harbor for yourself, adjust your mentality in time and relax.
Don't treat setbacks as failures. In a person's life, everyone will inevitably encounter setbacks and bumps. The difference is that losers always regard setbacks as failures and are deeply frustrated by their courage to win every time; Winners never give up. Faced with setbacks again and again, they always say to themselves: I have not failed, but I have not succeeded yet.
Happiness is actually very simple. Some people say that happiness is the flower in spring, the shade in summer, the wild fruit in autumn and the snow in winter. In fact, happiness is all around us. Knowing smile, sincere handshake and heart-to-heart conversation are very happy things.
Mind decides fate (3)
Why some people are more successful than others, earn more money and have better jobs. And many people are busy with work but can only make a living. In fact, there is not much difference between people.
Many psychologists have found that this secret is people's mentality. A philosopher said: Your mentality is your real master. A great man once said: Either you control life, or life controls you. Your mentality determines who is the mount and who is the jockey.
About 40 years ago, two brothers lived in a poor village in Fujian. Unable to stand the harsh environment, they decided to leave their hometown and seek development overseas. Brother seems to be very lucky. He was sold to the rich San Francisco by slave owners, and his brother was sold to the Philippines, which was poorer than China.
Forty years later, the two brothers were lucky to get together again. They are not who they used to be. The eldest brother became an overseas Chinese leader in San Francisco, with two restaurants, two laundries and a grocery store, and his descendants were full. Some of them inherited the mantle, while others became outstanding engineers and other scientific and technological professionals.
Where's the younger brother? He has become a world-famous banker, with a considerable number of forests, rubber plantations and banks in Southeast Asia. After decades of hard work, they all succeeded. But why are there such differences in the career achievements of the two brothers?
My brother said that since we China people have no special talents in white society, we can only cook and wash clothes for white people with one pair of hands. In a word, we in China have taken all the jobs that white people refuse to do, and our lives are fine, but we dare not expect anything from our careers. For example, my children and grandchildren, although they have read a lot of books, dare not dream. They can only make a living by doing some intermediate technical work with peace of mind.
Seeing his brother's success, a brother can't help admiring his luck. The younger brother said there was no luck. When I first came to the Philippines, I did some rough work, but I found that some locals were stupid and lazy, so I gave up my career, gradually acquired and expanded, and my business gradually expanded.
This is the true struggle history of overseas Chinese. It tells us that it is not only the environment that affects our lives, but also the mentality that controls our actions and thoughts. At the same time, mentality also determines a person's vision, career and achievements.
Whether a person can succeed depends on his mentality. The difference between winners and losers is that winners always dominate and control their lives with the most positive thinking, the most optimistic spirit and the most brilliant experience. On the other hand, losers are mostly influenced by past failures and doubts.
Character determines fate.
1, personality determines your choice. If you have a choice, modest people will choose cautious choices, impulsive people will choose emotional choices, smart people will choose long-term choices, cunning people will choose wily choices and so on. Therefore, personality determines choice, choice determines environment, and environment affects choice. Then, environment and destiny are closely linked. 2. Success is also personality, and failure is also personality. A good character makes your life, and a bad character destroys it. As Cervantes, a great Spanish writer, said: Everyone's fate is determined by his own character.
3. Personality determines a person's communication relationship, marriage choice, life status, career orientation, success or failure of starting a business, etc. , which basically determines a person's fate. Therefore, success and failure are closely related to personality, and personality determines whether a person's life is tragic or mediocre, or whether he has achieved anything or has outstanding life experiences.
4, everyone's personality has good and bad, but some people's personality is more suitable for career success, some people's personality is more conducive to an affair, some people's personality is more conducive to family unity, and some people's personality is more conducive to making friends from all corners of the country.
Follow your own personality and you will find the way to success. Contrary to your own character, you will be insulated from success. A person has his own personality, and each personality has his own career. No matter what kind of personality, we should accept it and give full play to our own nature, so as to shoulder the mission entrusted by God and open the door to success.
6. An American reporter interviewed Jp Morgan, a master of investment banking in his later years, and asked: What are the conditions that determine your success? Old Morgan said publicly: character. The reporter asked again: Which is more important, capital or capital? Old Morgan replied in a word: capital is more important than capital, but the most important thing is personality.
In July, a student of Washington University was lucky enough to invite Warren Buffett and Gates, the richest men in the world, to give speeches. When students ask: How did you become richer than God? When asked this interesting question, Buffett said: This question is very simple, and the reason is not IQ. Why do smart people do things that hinder their work efficiency? The reason lies in habit, character and temper. Gates agreed. Whether it is work or life, it is personality that determines fate. Personality is like a steel bar in a cement column, while knowledge and learning are poured concrete.
8. Personality is an invisible force and an asset. As long as you can foster strengths and avoid weaknesses and choose the one that best suits your personality, you will succeed. A person's personality determines his different attitudes towards all kinds of things, and finally leads to different results, resulting in different life situations. If you are keen on politics, don't engage in art or anything like that; If you are committed to art, stay away from politics. The reason is very simple, it is determined by your personality, otherwise, you will live in contradiction and will not be happy all your life.
9. But fate is not the only corresponding change in personality. In fact, luck is very important in fate. In a sense, about half of a person's fate is luck. Luck itself is not entirely arranged by God. Why do you call your bad luck Rp problem on the Internet today? Rp refers to personality, so it is not difficult to understand that personality is also a factor that constitutes luck.
Selling hamburgers will not harm your dignity. Your grandparents have a different understanding of selling hamburgers. They call it opportunity.
1 1. When you are in an artificial predicament, don't complain, you can only learn from it silently. No one's fate is smooth sailing. There are four seasons in a year: spring, summer, autumn and winter. The same is true of life, with peaks and valleys. You should cheer up quietly in order to cheer up again.
12, never criticize others behind their backs, especially your boss is ignorant, mean and incompetent. Because of this mentality, you will embark on a bumpy and difficult road to growth.
13, society is full of injustice. Don't try to reform yet, you can only get used to it first. The world won't care about your self-esteem, people will only look at your achievements. Don't overemphasize self-esteem until you achieve something.
14, william james said: sow the next action and you will gain a habit; Sow a habit and you will gain a character; Sow a character and you will reap a destiny.
What determines our life is our choice.
I heard that happiness is very simple and will be diluted with the passage of time. Once the seas run dry and the rocks crumble, but your last sentence can't be reconciled. The furthest distance in the world is that we are in a city, but we have gradually lost contact.
Sometimes, we can't let go of one person, but for a period of time.
Why care about the person who doesn't care about himself? In the end, I just lied to myself.
What determines our life is not our ability, but our choice.
The real forgetting is not that you can't remember, but that you can think of inner peace.
It doesn't matter what others think of you, the only important thing is that you like who you really are.
Sometimes, we do something wrong because we use emotions when we should use our brains.
A smile. A look. Just suddenly. I miss you very much.
Life is like a road, you have to walk out of the most prosperous scenery from the most desolate journey.
Sad is sad, happy is happy,
There is nothing like empathy. It is your own pain. It's tears you can't bear.
We always care about the people we like, but forget the people we like.
It is my right to love someone, and it is my choice to hate someone.
If my joke hurts you; I'm sorry. I thought we knew each other well.
Sometimes, shut up, let go of pride, admit that you are wrong, and grow up instead of admitting defeat.
It doesn't matter where you went, what matters is whether you will come back or not.
Delete, write and delete. Finally, I just said good night.
Why care about the person who doesn't care about himself? In the end, I just lied to myself.
I have always believed that if it is not the ending of comedy, it must not be the final ending.
Maturity is not the aging of the soul, but the ability to keep smiling even when tears are rolling in your eyes.
I'm so tired that I don't even have the strength to be angry and concerned.
Laughter does not always mean happiness, just as tears do not always mean sadness.
If I am not brave, who will be strong for me?
Some words, in this way, become eternal in memory; Some people, in this way, go further and further in life.
There is always a time when tears make us grow up instantly.
I am sad, not because I lost you, but because my love is still there.
If you like someone, all you want is today. Love a person, what you expect is forever.
Non-mainstream If you don't understand my silence, you will never understand what I said.
Learn to be myself and gracefully let go of everything that doesn't belong to me.
Loneliness is just a person's loneliness, loneliness, and loneliness of missing someone.
The only gap between dream and reality is that one can dream and the other can only be bored.
Memories, memories that can't be recalled, no matter how beautiful, are just memories.
We are all children. We don't know how to love, but we know how to hurt.
You are my best memory and the only memory in my life.
Love doesn't hurt people, what hurts people is a pledge of eternal love that can never be realized.
When I want to say something most, it is often the time when I am most silent.
If one day you love someone as much as I love you, you will know how tired I am.
Sometimes, music is the only friend who accompanies me through those nights.
If you are there forever, I will love you forever.
The biggest fear about distance is that you don't know whether that person is missing you or has forgotten you.
Expectation is the root of all heartache. If the heart does not move, it will not hurt.
When you can't explain your heartbreak with your mouth, tears are the only way you can express your emotions with your eyes.
I thought you said I love you, and you love me. Together, there will be a happy ending.
The real forgetting is not that you can't remember, but that you can think of inner peace.
I would rather die in a happy time in the best years.
Now I understand that a journey of thousands of miles is only for a farewell that I can't even see.
Sometimes, we clearly forgive that person, but we can't really be happy. That's because you forgot to forgive yourself.
The past page, don't turn it if you can't turn it over. If you turn over the dust, you will lose your eyes.
Non-mainstream students learn to be themselves and gracefully let go of everything that doesn't belong to me.
Loneliness is just a person's loneliness, loneliness, and loneliness of missing someone.
The stupidest thing I have ever done is to be sincere to everyone.
From the second I turned around, my happiness has nothing to do with you.
When you are sad, do you also like to hide yourself silently?
You can't get what you didn't care about before, and you don't want what you didn't get before.
Distance is just a space. As close as the heart is.
When I want to say something most, it is often the time when I am most silent.
I'm so tired that I don't even have the strength to be angry and concerned.
Never hurt people who love you deeply, because they don't have to love you so much.
If the ending is not what I want, then I would rather not participate in this process.
Giving up and losing is always the overall situation of life.
Sometimes, walking through a familiar street corner and seeing a familiar back suddenly reminds me of a person's face.
Please don't say hello when you break up. If I'm really that good, why don't you *
Some words are useless to say more. Some things, only oneself understand. .
Sometimes, I miss you day and night. But when the person you miss appears in front of you, you feel at ease.
I won't say goodbye or make an appointment with you. I think we will meet again.
Some wounds, no matter how long it takes, will still hurt when touched.
The so-called growth is to force you to stumble and get hurt and stumble and be strong.
You can't say why you really love someone. You only know that you want this person to accompany you whenever and wherever you are in a good mood.
Don't trust your memory too much. People in there may not miss you so much.
Some things, no matter how hard we try, can't go back.
Some things, you have to wait until you really put them down before you understand their heaviness.
The memories made by two people are left to me. How long will it expire?
We don't know this is love until we love it; When we hate, we know that hate is also because of love.
Only I know the silence after laughing, but I want to know how to put it down early.
You are my other person. Love as a community of life is so enjoyable, but now I can only write down this memory.
I chose to let go not because I couldn't persist, but because I found that some things were doomed to be impossible.
No injury can kill me, it will only make me stronger.
If you think this is pain, it's too easy.
There will always be times when others say what we feel, but we don't want to admit it.
Please believe that life will always meet the most beautiful scenery in the deepest despair.
Maybe I am not a good recorder, but I like to look back on the road I have traveled more than anyone else.
If I lose a lover, I won't lose love because of it.
Sometimes when you ask a question, the other person keeps dodging, which is to tell you euphemistically that the real answer is cruel.
I only think of you when I feel uncomfortable, because my heart is full of seriousness when you comfort me.
Say with a cold face that I don't understand you. In fact, only I know you best, but I can't express it.
Flowers bloom and fall, love comes and goes, she has changed, I am tired, and then I have to part.
We are two waiting periods, waiting for our own accidents.
If there is no ugliness of separation and betrayal, how can it be considered true love?
Once the storm is over, the ground is red. Wet flowers, how sad, but things change.
I miss you, a little deeper, a little more frequent, and stronger every day.
Our only tacit understanding is that I don't contact you and you don't contact me.
When you see through everything, you know that losing is more practical than having.
Sometimes, lies are just a kind of protection, and not knowing the truth is also a kind of happiness.
Some pains can be avoided, but we insist on putting moths to the fire.
The longest is suffering, and the shortest is life.
Everyone has a tattooed lover in his life. Fire can't be put out, and water can't be flooded.
First love makes you forget time, then time makes you forget love.