? The most painful things in life are "where will you go" and "death". Throughout the ages, few people can really live and die. After all, "life and death are also great." The pain of "parting" is so painful that it makes the living extremely sad. But as time goes on, this sadness will gradually fade away. Because you and I both know that when a person's life comes to an end, death is the inevitable way home. It is no different from you and me, and human resources cannot be violated. The pain of "where will you go" will gradually become a kind of nostalgia buried deep in my heart. Only at a certain moment will it suddenly pop up and make the living feel grateful ... And the pain of "leaving life" has nowhere to escape, just like the punishment in the middle of the year, gouging out my heart with a knife, my heart can't heal and bleeding. ...
? What's it like to miss your sweetheart far away? Bo Xi, the wife in The Book of Songs, misses her husband who is sailing all the time. "Since the east like flying peng. Without ointment, who is suitable for it? " "It is said that women please themselves, sweetheart. Since I left you, I have been haggard and have no intention of dressing up. Who but you deserves me to stroke his eyebrows and mend them for him? " My wife misses her illness. Her first illness was devastating. I don't know where to find the "grass" that can forget her troubles and let her stop suffering from lovesickness. However, on second thought, she realized that even if this miss is like poison, even if it makes her beyond redemption, she is willing to drink one of them, as sweet as a cup of tea. ...
? Yes, who doesn't want to be with the person they love? However, there is too much helplessness in the world. When there are thousands of waters between two people, the pain of "where will you go" will turn into endless acacia, which is heartbreaking and thrilling. ...
? Zhang, a poetess in Song Dynasty, wrote The Height of the Mountain when she was forced and separated. "The mountain is high and the moon is small. The moon is very small, how bright! I have some things to think about. If you don't see it for a day, you will be calm. " The mountains are high and the moon is small, and the moonlight is bright. Yu Niang looked at the moon alone, filled with sadness. "The person who lives in a distant heart, every day since you left, my heart is fading, and it will never be inscrutable. Just want to know, are you thinking of me at the moment? I only hope that the bright moon can send me an inch of acacia and turn it into a continuous silk thread, holding hands with each other ... "
? The ancients left, had nowhere to send their feelings, and were in a different place, but they shared the bright moon and looked forward to the moon to send acacia. Just like the "Moonlit Night on a Spring River" (III), "The poor wander upstairs and the moon, so they have to leave someone to make up the mirror. The curtain of the jade pot could not be rolled up, but it was brushed back on the anvil. I don't know each other at this time. May China take care of you every month. " Nowadays, people are separated from each other. Although we can "hear each other" and "meet each other" with the help of communication tools, we are still homesick and sleepy in the dead of night, and "Luozhou can't stand the cold".
? "It was a long time before I met her, but it was longer after we separated" (5). If you get together less and leave more, separation is the norm. If you face separation after a short meeting, you will be more worried about being swayed by considerations of gain and loss. At this time, what you think is "not as good as seeing it with your own eyes". When I can't see you, I miss you and have expectations. See you don't say goodbye, only bitter, I can't let go. ...
Appendix: The Book of Songs, National Style, Feng Wei and Bo Xi
Bo (qiè)⑥, the state of solving ⑥. Bo also has the title of "sh ū" and is the forerunner of the king.
From the east of Bo, my head is like a flying canopy. Is there any ointment? Who is suitable for it?
When it rains, it rains, and (G m: o) the sun shines. I am willing to talk, I am willing to take the first disease.
Can't get (xuān), and it is the back of the tree. I am willing to think about it, which makes my heart tired (mè i).
Precautions:
Life and death is a big thing. Language "Zhuangzi DE chong fu". There is a famous saying in Wang Xizhi's Preface to Lanting Collection, "The ancients said, death is also, life is also, and greatness is also".
② Zhang, one of the four great female poets in Song Dynasty. The Height of the Mountain was written when she missed her childhood sweetheart Shen Yi.
(3) Moonlit Night on a Spring River was written by Zhang in the Tang Dynasty. Wang Kaiyun, a A Qing dynasty man, commented: "This is a lonely article, but it is suitable for everyone." This shows its position in China's poetry forest.
(4) from the southern tang dynasty li yu's "waves beat sand, the rain outside the curtain gurgling".
⑤ It took a long time to meet her from Untitled, but it was even longer from Li Shangyin's Breaking Up in the Tang Dynasty.
⑥ (qiè): Heroic power is high.
⑦ Jie: Tong Jie.
⑧ (shū): Ancient weapons.
⑨ (xuān) Grass: A girl without sorrow.
Attending heartache (mèi): heartache.