When you become rich, you have confidence.
Ma Nuo was born in an alley in Beijing, and her family is not rich. At school, her father forced her to shave her head, so she was always a tomboy at school.
In the third grade, she had little feeling about looks and appearances, but one day she was stopped by a talent scout and changed from then on. A dream of becoming a star rose in her heart, but in the end her wish didn't come true and she was cheated out of 3000 yuan.
Mano majored in modern music when he was in college. After graduation, she didn't ask for money from home again. But for a while, her wallet was only 1000 yuan, so she had to live at her cousin's house, and she couldn't afford to rent a house. But once she went back to her cousin's house and found that her luggage was still at the door. It was past 6 o'clock and the real estate agent had already left work.
She walked with her luggage for a long time, and finally found an agency that was not closed. She rode an intermediary motorcycle to see the house, and tears could not stop flowing down the road. She looked at the yellowed wall and secretly made up her mind: "Take someone else's hand short, no one can be trusted these days. You have to be rich yourself to be confident! "
I would rather cry in a BMW than laugh on a bike.
On 20 10, Mano was invited to participate in If You Are the One, a blind date program. At the scene, Mano was beautifully dressed and proud. Many viewers like her better, and she is also chosen as "heartbeat girl" by many male guests.
In a program, a male guest asked Mano a question: "Would you like to ride a bike with me all my life?" Who knows Mano refused on the spot: "I would rather cry in a BMW than laugh on a bicycle!" " "At that time, there was a lot of discussion about this sentence.
After all, this is a typical money worship. A male guest couldn't help but fight back on the spot, saying: If you are the one, there is a word "sincerity", which is to let us find the other half with sincerity. Young graduates like us can hardly satisfy you as long as their parents are not rich. I suggest you take part in the beauty pageant, either rich or expensive, not to mention crying in a BMW or running nose in a Porsche.
When the male guests finished, the audience cheered. Mano wanted to refute it again, but they were interrupted by shouts from the audience. A female guest around me couldn't stand it anymore and began to argue with the male guest, but she still didn't have an advantage in momentum. Mano also cried and had to sneak off the stage.
Nevertheless, with the help of the media, this incident attracted more attention and Mano became famous. In the following time, she kept shuttling through various entertainment programs, talking about money worship and having her own acting career. She has shot such plays as Belly Dad and Son, Looking for Your deskmate, and Rhapsody of BMW.
Mano is as busy as a bee, but he is very happy, but the outside world is not optimistic. Because young people are under increasing pressure to buy a house, a car and earn money to support their families, there is no object to vent their grievances accumulated over the years. Therefore, Mano's resistance and abuse have been constantly in the media.
Later, things became more and more serious, and Mano was also labeled as a "BMW girl", "the originator of money worship" and "the girl with a bad tongue", and her career suffered a heavy blow unconsciously. In order not to cause controversy, many of Mano's film and television works were cut off, and she gradually faded out of people's sight.
However, Mano was still unwilling, and then the truth came out. She said that everything was arranged in those years, and even the golden sentences she said were designed in advance. Mano can't help but sigh that his greatest insight in these years is that he never treats others as good people, so you will be cheated miserably.
Although she has tried hard to prove her innocence in recent years, the effect of the harvest is negligible. This is actually because Mano's remarks have broken people's traditional value system. Although what she said is true, she was really vain in those years and should accept the bitter fruit of quick success and instant benefit. After all, her remarks quickly became popular, both as a beneficiary and a victim.
Is she really laughing in the BMW now?
Now, Mano is over 30 years old, but she is still single at the age of 30. With her figure and appearance, it is not difficult to find a rich man, but why is she single?
I believe that after all this, her mood will be much more dull. 10 years of precipitation, let her understand what she wants. A sincere feeling is far more important than a BMW mansion. She may also be waiting for her prince to appear and let people know that she is not the "gold digger" in everyone's eyes.
10 years have passed. Mano didn't laugh on the bike or cry in the BMW. She played down all this, stuck to her ideals, worked as a model and singer, and sometimes made a guest appearance as a "gold digger" in some TV series to share some of her usual life experiences. Although she didn't live a rich life, she was still comfortable.
Mano's experience is not right or wrong. She also suffered a lot in her early years, but she lost her real pursuit of fame and fortune. Therefore, everyone has to face the concept of money. As parents, we should cultivate children's money consciousness and three views from an early age, and don't let them lose themselves and take many detours in their later lives!
Professor Li Meijin once said: A family doesn't attach importance to children's view of money, and children don't have correct consumption consciousness, so it is easy for parents to regret it. So, how should children develop a good sense of money?
1, it is necessary to talk about money.
In life, as long as there is an opportunity, we should talk about money with our children. For example, in vegetable markets and shopping malls, when children are around, we can talk about money and teach children the meaning of money.
We often say that talking about money hurts feelings. But if you don't talk about money, it may hurt you more and even lead to the breakdown of your relationship, so talking about money is not selfish, but a means to protect both sides.
2. Let children develop a good consumption concept.
Some children spend a lot of money in life, because her desire to buy has risen to a certain height, and it is difficult to think about it again. Therefore, from the very beginning, children should develop a good consumption concept and avoid spending money indiscriminately and keeping up with the joneses.
3. Have a good happiness index.
Parents set an example to educate their children that money is not the only goal in life, because money can't buy happiness. Working hard and learning how to treat others is the foundation of happiness.
You are full of confidence in life, smile at it, and life will smile back at you.