If we meet someone who is stronger than us, we cannot just obey them when we get along with them. Why should we obey them so much? We must have our own ideas and needs, and we cannot blindly obey others. We must know how to reject each other.

In fact, in our daily life, if I don’t meet any stronger people, most of them are our superiors or leaders. In my opinion, it doesn’t matter even if they are leaders, they are also We cannot use the power in their hands to be aggressive, nor can we do whatever we want, nor can we obey their will in everything, no matter whether it is right or wrong. It is said that when we get along with people who are stronger than us, we must try to express our own thoughts and be brave enough to reject the other party's request at the right time. If I say that if we just go ahead and accept it, then we will The inequality in your relationship will cause you to make excessive efforts and compromises, and will also make you mentally exhausted. This is likely to cause the other party to despise you. To put it bluntly, they look down on you.

It is not terrible to get along with strong people. As the saying goes, "Such strength can be overcome with softness." If he orders you with a stern tone or a strong attitude, and you don't want to do it, you must not lose your temper at this time. , you have to smile to reject him, and you have to smile and express your opinions in whatever tone the other party uses, and be more tactful, because in this way the other party may not be angry with you, and it may ease the atmosphere between you, so as to achieve the goal. You reject his purpose.