Zhang Youyi, Lin and Lu Xiaoman —— Women in Xu Zhimo's Life
In Xu Zhimo's 35-year life, he has constant feelings with three women. In addition to Lu Xiaoman, his original wife Zhang Youyi and another architect Lin all ended in silence.
Zhang Youyi was born in a noble family, and he was a wise man. 19 15 years, he married Xu zhimo in Shi Xia, Zhejiang at the orders of his parents. The year after marriage, Xu Zhimo went out to study. The Xu family is a wealthy businessman in Jiangnan. There are electric light factory, cloth factory, Yutong Bank and so on. Knowledgeable Zhang Youyi respects her in-laws and helps them manage their finances. 192 1 year, Zhang Youyi went to England to accompany him, and spent a warm and sweet life with Xu Zhimo until Lin, who is both talented and beautiful, appeared in Xu Zhimo's life.
Xu Zhimo and Lin's father met when they were studying in Peking University. At that time, Liang Qichao was the Chief Justice and Lin Changmin was the Chief Education Officer. They are very close. Xu Zhimo, a beginner of Liang Qichao, often met Lin Changmin in Fu Liang and forged a friendship with him. 192 1 In the spring of, Lin Changmin went to study in the UK and sent her daughter to study in the UK at the same time. Xu Zhimo fell in love with Lin at first sight when she was in her prime. Lin asked Xu Zhimo for a divorce before talking about their relationship. However, after Xu Zhang agreed to divorce in March 1922, Lin somehow quietly returned to China with his father, leaving Xu Zhimo alone.
Lin soon fell in love with Liang Sicheng, the son of Liang Qichao, but did not hold an engagement ceremony immediately at Liang Qichao's request. Liang Qichao knew that Xu Zhimo still loved Lin. He was afraid that they would regain their old feelings and refuted Liang's face. At the same time, he was afraid that Lin Liang's engagement would give his disciples a heavy blow. Therefore, he asked his son and Lin to study in the United States and get married after they finished their studies. Liang Lao's painstaking Xu Zhimo naturally doesn't know. In order to pursue Lin, he returned to China from England, but his wish still hasn't come true. Lin Liang got married in Canada. As for why Lin and Shi Ma just hit the target and returned home, why did they write back and forth frequently after being so rude to Shi Ma? Lin Yinhui remained silent until his death, which became an unsolved mystery.
It was Lu Xiaoman who had a great influence on Xu Zhimo. Xiaoman is smart and lively, knows music and painting, and has novels and scripts. His father, Lu Bao, is a protege of the famous Japanese actor Ito Bowen. After returning to China, he worked in the tax department for more than 20 years. 1920, Xiaoman's parents chose Wang Geng, who studied in the United States' West Point Military Academy and worked in the Beiping Police Station, as their son-in-law. Xiaoman is lively by nature, and her husband is rigorous and unsmiling. Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman got to know each other and fell in love with each other in Peiping communication field. It was during this period that Lin's heart was fixed and Xu Zhimo was extremely empty. After many twists and turns, everyone is happy. Interestingly, they insisted that Liang Rengong marry him. Rengong said he must be reprimanded at the wedding, and Shima agreed. In public, Liang Rengong scolded: "Xu Zhimo, you are impetuous, so you have no achievements in learning." You are not an emotional expert, so you divorced and remarried ... You must repent and be a new person in the future. " After the ceremony, Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman went south to settle in Shanghai.
After marriage, the two lived a fairy-like life, but their love didn't last long. Xu Zhimo divorced and remarried, which angered his father and cut off financial support. However, Lu Xiaoman's luxurious life made him unable to make ends meet. At the invitation of Hu Shizhi, an old friend, Xu Zhimo taught in Peking University to earn some extra money to support his family. He asked a friend to buy a ticket for a postal plane for free, which often flies between Shanghai, Nanjing and Beijing. 193 1 year1kloc-0/month
19, because Lin was going to Peking Union Medical College Auditorium to give a lecture on China architectural art to foreign envoys, and Xu Zhimo was going to pay tribute, and the plane crashed. Before his death, Xiaoman met Weng Wurui, a student of Yue Opera, which was a heavy blow to Zhimo. They were inseparable and smoked on the sofa all day. Xu Zhimo repeatedly persuaded Xiaoman not to change and to make a scene.
The death of Xu Zhimo awakened Lu Xiaoman's soul. She quit smoking, stayed awake, thought behind closed doors, and devoted herself to compiling the Complete Works of Xu Zhimo, in which the postscript "Editing Your Heart" expressed her regret.