As soon as this debate came out, all debaters in the program expressed their views in different paragraphs:
1. Your letter to yourself is self-confidence. Why don't you read it?
Although the experience and process of life are much more important than the result, isn't the process of knowing the result more exciting?
Please believe that you in the future and you in the present are both creating life and busy.
4. How many people have become what they hate? The 28-year-old and 18' s attitude towards love remind us that life is our own and growth is our own.
The wind can't blow away a butterfly, because the power of life is not obedience, but butterflies can roll up storms, because the charm of life lies in uncertainty.
The above is the debater's answer. What about you? Just now, you received your own life advice 30 years later. do you want to see it ? If you don't read it, you will choose to delete it or save it. If so, for what purpose or expectation would you open it?
During the broadcast of the program, most of the answers given by the barrage are understandable. After all, people are curious, especially about unknown information. I like Professor Liu Qing's answer to this debate: I will wait until 30 years later to open that letter, and then write on it that you love yourself so much that today you open it and write the same words to congratulate you.
Many people naturally think that the advice written to themselves 30 years later must be to avoid going the wrong way, doing the wrong thing and choosing the wrong person, but few people will think that maybe that advice just happens to be to continue to be brave.
We are always dissatisfied with our present life, have no confidence in ourselves now, and always think that all good things and results will stay in the future. We have so many expectations for the future that we ignore the present beautiful and hard-working self.
On the other hand, if you were asked to write a letter to you ten years ago, would you write it? If you were asked to write a letter to you in ten years, would you like to write it again?
Some people may think that life is tired enough, but why bother with these fancy and useless formalism? Perhaps some people think that not thinking about the past is the best answer to the present, and looking forward is the most important thing.
But some people will quietly pick up their pens and write down a page of stationery. All these behaviors are our attitude towards life.
Thirty years later, or ten years ago, we can't go back to the past, let alone cross the future. The only thing we can decide is this moment. Don't be afraid of time, don't run away from it, and don't complain about it. Be a friend of time and never look down on yourself.
If you want to read that advice 30 years later, I hope you won't be forced to open your life because you regret and complain that it's not what you want, and I don't want you to open it because you are eager to draw a line with yourself now.
Sometimes, the unknown is the starting point of courage and happiness. Of course, sometimes knowing will help many people become better themselves.
But remember, thirty years ago, thirty years later, you have always been you.
Ding, look at your mobile phone. There is an unread email. What do you want it to be?