On the first day of school, migrant workers wrote messages of encouragement on the classroom blackboard. The message to encourage students to study is as follows:
If you don’t struggle, how will your talent match your willfulness;
If you don’t struggle, how will your footsteps keep up with the speed of your parents’ aging; < /p>
Without struggle, the world is so big, how can you see it;
When a person gets old, the most painful thing is not failure, but what I could have done.
There is a sea in everyone's heart. If you don't set sail yourself, no one will help you set sail. You can only succeed by working hard, but there is no glory waiting for it!
The signature is "Migrant workers to all students."
Language is a reflection of soul and cultural upbringing. A migrant worker working on a construction site can write such a literary message and have such a high ideological consciousness. Noble language also contains sincere motives. It can be seen that this migrant worker sincerely hopes that young people will study hard and work hard. If a bird wants to fly high, it first flutters its wings; if a person wants to make progress, he first studies. For young people, reading can be said to be the most important mission in life. A life of struggle is a life of reading. The struggle of young people is to study hard.
"Knowledge can change destiny" is the motto of every young person and a spiritual encouragement for every young person to learn knowledge. Where does knowledge come from? In the words of everyone, it comes from reading.
But in recent years, some young people who should be studying on campus have changed their lifestyle and want to live another life. Some young men mixed together, the so-called "brothers", and some young women mixed together, the so-called "sisters". They did not study and wanted to use another way to prove their abilities, and they wandered in the society from then on. Some parents even say, I have spent so much money on tuition for my child to study. Will he or she be able to earn back the money in the future? Just like a sister I know, with her grades in high school, if she studies hard, it is not difficult to get into the next level. But she always felt that studying was too hard. In the sprint stage of the college entrance examination, give up studying. After graduating from high school, I stopped going to school and worked part-time, and started working in cosmetics promotion. At the beginning, because her cosmetics sales were good, her income was higher than that of many college students. Some old people also say that they can still be promising even if they don’t go to college. But within a few years, she was no longer as young and beautiful as before. Her income immediately dropped sharply, and she could not even maintain a basic life of food and clothing. She had to find a new job and was running around for a living all day long. Looking at herself who was tired and thin, she regretted more and more that she had not gone to school properly. Only then did she realize that life without studying would be even harder. There are many girls just like this sister who drop out of school and work because they are young and beautiful and can earn money in other ways on the grounds that they are not good at studying and do not want to waste their family's money and their youth.
Even a piece of news called "Disaster Pig" was broadcast on TV news recently. Rescue workers in the disaster-stricken area rescued a cute little pink pig. After being rescued, it actually faced the staff's camera. Smiling slyly. Many netizens are wondering: Is Xiaozhu trying to say something? Some netizens actually speculated that Xiaozhu wanted to say: "I don't want to go to school!" Oh my God! I am tired of reading and studying, and I wish that people all over the world were tired of reading and studying, even cute little animals. Some girls even think that studying well is not as good as marrying well, so they might as well find a rich man to marry. But what's the result? When they are still young, they realize that they can no longer eat the "food of youth". They only have to do heavy physical work and earn only a meager income. It is difficult to support themselves, let alone shoulder the responsibilities of the family. Some get married based on their good looks, those men who once swore to her that I will only love you in my life, those who have changed their hearts, cheated on them, kept mistresses, divorced them, and did not care about their families and children. , appears frequently. Even for Luo Zijun in "The First Half of My Life", her husband and children are the center of her life. She guards against her mistress every day, but she still can't stop her husband from cheating on her. A cleaning aunt once cried to others about her husband keeping a young and beautiful mistress. She even took her shopping with her, accusing her of not being as good as her in appearance or grooming.
Everyone advised her to get a divorce, but she cried and said: "My monthly salary is only more than 1,000 yuan, how can I support my son?" She did not study well when she was young, and the result was her current life. If a young man does not work hard, the old man will be miserable. Will you still find studying difficult when the pain and problems you face in life without studying appear? If a person can't even endure the hardships of studying and studying, how can he or she endure other hardships in life? If a person even finds reading and studying difficult, then what things does he (she) do in life that he (she) would not find difficult? What would life be like if you didn't study? Then he (she) will definitely sigh: My life is too miserable.
When my mother was young, my maternal grandmother often taught my mother: "If a child doesn't pay attention to reading, he doesn't know that there is gold in the book." Even a rural woman like her who can't even write her own name has this problem. With this kind of knowledge, shouldn’t we who are born in modern society have more outstanding knowledge and have a soft spot for reading?
Reading makes people's eyes bright, reading makes people enriched, and reading in a sense nourishes the mind. Reading can cultivate a person's good character, and reading can also shape a person's personality. Reading enables you to have your own thoughts, your own ideals, your own values, and your own outlook on life. Reading is to wisdom what gymnastics is to body. Reading can make you wise and have the ability to distinguish right from wrong. Reading can also purify people's minds and prevent them from doing things that violate morality, let alone commit crimes. Books are sometimes the spiritual food of mankind. The more you read, the stronger and braver your spirit becomes.
If you are at the age of studying, follow the attitude of "just do your best, but have a clear conscience", ignore what is happening outside the window, and only read books by sages. Even if you encounter difficulties and pain in your life, you have enough courage to face it and will not be afraid of it. You will think: "Winter is coming, can spring be far behind?" Think of the difficulties and pain you encounter as the darkness before dawn. Even if you don’t have an ideal job or an ideal income, you have a strong will that allows you to enjoy the hardships in life. So what if you are at the age of studying and do not study well? One can imagine whether your life will be too bitter.
Some people also talk about a social phenomenon. Some people still do not have ideal jobs and achievements after studying. For example, Cambridge masters drive taxis on the streets of London, Harvard graduates tally goods in supermarkets, Peking University graduates sell meat on the street, and Fudan graduates sell vegetables on the street. But haven’t these people seen how many national leaders have graduated from prestigious universities, how many scientists have graduated from prestigious Ph.D.s, and how many university professors have graduated from prestigious Ph.D.s. In fact, many stars in the entertainment industry are highly educated. The main reason for their achievements is that they studied hard when they were young and did not waste time. And have you noticed that many successful people rarely play cards, drink or play games in their free time, but spend all day with books to "recharge" their studies. They are still studying and studying while working and working hard towards higher goals. Their idea is that there is no cheaper entertainment or more lasting satisfaction than reading.
Don’t talk about modern successful people. Looking through history, which of the successful literary politicians did not achieve great achievements after studying diligently? Even the ancients could write inspirational poems about studying hard and studying. For example, Emperor Song Zhenzong Zhao Heng of the Song Dynasty wrote "Learning Encouragement Chapter": "A rich family does not need to buy fertile land, there are thousands of bells of millet in the books. There is no need to build a high building to live in peace, there is a house of gold in the books. When marrying a wife, don't hate unscrupulous matchmakers, books There is a beauty like jade in it. Don’t regret that no one will follow you when you go out. There are many cars and horses in the book. The man wants to fulfill his life ambitions and read the Five Classics diligently in front of the window. "Like the "Prodigy Poetry" written by Wang Zhu: "The emperor values ??heroes and articles. Teach me Cao Cao; everything is of inferior quality, only reading is good..."
Every time I go back to my hometown to celebrate the New Year, I see my girlfriends whom I haven’t seen for a long time, and I think of the youth of the girls more than ten years ago, but now they are all married. As someone else's wife, I can't help but feel a lot of emotions.
The first thing they said when they saw me was: Why are you so young and still the same as before?
It’s hard to imagine that I am already a mother of two children. Then he asked me if I had any skin care tips or what kind of cosmetics I used.
I answered with a smile: Time will turn a woman into a woman, but reading can make the time peaceful.
If you read more, you can look at things from multiple angles, be tolerant to others, and don’t get into trouble with others, and don’t get into trouble with yourself, so you will be treated particularly favorably by time.
If there are people around you who live a better life and are richer than you, you will not be envious or jealous: because you understand that "you stand on the bridge and look at the scenery, and the people watching the scenery are upstairs." The deep meaning of "looking at you";
When you see the sunset on the horizon and a row of wild geese flying south, what comes to mind is: "the setting sun and the solitary swans fly together, the autumn water is the same color as the sky", and It’s not about arguing, “I’ll go, it’s so beautiful, so beautiful.”
When you fall in love, you will quote the poem: "If life is just like the first time we met, why is the autumn wind sad to draw a fan? It is easy to change the heart of an old friend, but it is easy to change the heart of an old friend." instead of thousands of times. shouted: "Lan Shou, shiitake mushrooms!".
I won’t complain if I get scolded by my boss for trivial matters or get splashed with mud by the rain when I go out: there are many ways and possibilities in life, and no matter what the situation is, I can handle it calmly.
In "Qi Pa Shuo", Jiang Sida said: You can become Fan Bingbing overnight, but you cannot become Lin Huiyin overnight.
Everyone knows that external beauty can be copied uniformly, but internal weight can only be accumulated bit by bit by oneself.
How long has it been since you finished reading a book?
Before getting off work, I wanted to go home and read a book, but when I got home, I said, "I'm too tired, let's talk about it tomorrow."
Every year on World Book Day, the Chinese are always criticized by the public as a negative case. The per capita reading volume of paper books by adult citizens is 4.66, and the average per capita reading volume is 13.4 minutes per day.
On the other hand, France has 8.4 books, South Korea has 11 books, and Japan has 16 books. The smartest Jews in the world each read an average of 64 books a year...
The lives of Chinese people have long been entertained. , social, fragmented chat, mobile phone, Douyin short video are filled.
I don’t have time to study, and I don’t systematically improve myself. I want to change jobs and find that I am not capable enough, so I can only stay in my current life.
In the long run, we can only "disappear into the crowd".
Some people think that studying is very hard, but they don’t know that life is a long road and studying is not tiring.
I used to waste a lot of time reading books.
When I was in college, I read about 200 books in two years. There are those who read carefully and those who read extensively.
However, others don’t seem to feel it.
After graduation, I went to interview with a Fortune 500 company. The interviewer looked at me sideways and said: I can’t tell you have read so many books...
Now think about what I have done before. Apart from the title of the book I have read, I don’t even remember anything like the introduction.
Many times, it’s not that we don’t want to read, but that we don’t know how to read at all.
Have you ever encountered these problems?
①The book is too long and too difficult to read;
②What kind of book should I read and when should I read it? It has always been a problem;
③I finally finished reading a book, but within a week I almost forgot about it.
When reading, we actually use the wrong method!
There are three things in life that others cannot take away: the first is the food that goes into the stomach, the second is the dreams hidden in the heart, and the third is the books that are read into the brain.
Inefficient reading prevents us from understanding the essence of the book, and we cannot "read the book into the brain".
Others can build up their own "temperament" by reading 10 books, but you need 100 or 1,000 books...
It takes time and effort, but it yields results. Very slightly, this is a true portrayal of my past.
How can I spend less time reading more books? Is there a bigger gain?
I have heard many people ask this question.
If I told you today that there is a method that can help you improve your reading efficiency by 3-10 times, would you believe it?
Here, I must recommend to you a very useful reading method-the dismantling and essence extraction method.
What is the dismantling essence extraction method?
It is used by experts from "Shifenshu" to help you summarize the essence of the book. In the same time, you can have a thorough understanding of the book content in the most comprehensive way, without spending a lot of time searching up and down to get the essentials. It is precisely by relying on this way of reading that I have the opportunity to increase my reading level in a short period of time, and more importantly, I have formed my own reading thinking! And the whole process is easy and enjoyable.
Why does the dismantling essence extraction method have such a better effect than traditional unconscious reading?
Explain in a simple and easy-to-understand manner, and grasp the essence through the text of the book——
What is this book talking about?
What exactly are you talking about? How did you say that?
Does what this book says make sense?
Does this book have anything to do with me? What does it mean to me?
Through the reading and explanation of professional teachers, simple input will be used to help you output through concise and concise examples to form your own knowledge system.
According to statistics: 86% of energy and time are wasted on meaningless details and plots in books.
The dismantling and essence extraction method spends 100% of your time and energy on the areas that deserve your attention most - this is how you can truly read.
When I came home from get off work last winter, I saw this scene:
In the cold wind, a little boy sat on his grandma’s garbage truck, listening intently under the dim street lights. He looked at the book in his hand.
I suddenly remembered myself many years ago.
My parents were not well-educated. In order to make money, they had to work in the city. A family of four people live in a small house of less than 15 square meters. The father works at a construction site and the mother rides a tricycle to carry passengers.
Before middle school, I didn’t buy any underwear. They were leftovers from my sister’s wear. The shoes were given by neighbors. After two years of wearing them, the soles were almost broken.
The school held a sports meeting that year, and I participated in the relay long rope jumping competition. When it was my turn to jump, I quickly ran to the middle of the long rope and jumped up, but the soles of my shoes suddenly flew out.
I blushed all of a sudden and wanted to find a crack in the ground to crawl in. I immediately asked for leave and returned home.
My father was going through a box full of old shoes sent by neighbors, but he couldn’t find a pair that was the right size, had the soles intact, and had both of them.
I stood next to my father and couldn’t see his face. I only saw him lowering his head and his neck was red. I thought he was angry, so I quickly wiped away my tears and said, it’s okay. You can wear bigger shoes. ...
I still clearly remember that after saying this, my father turned over his shoes more violently. He lowered his head, and two large tears fell on the worn shoes.
I don’t remember how I got back to the classroom that day, but I will always remember that during my most vain and self-respecting adolescence, I rarely spoke.
Holding my breath, I was admitted to the best local school.
Because every time my father came home from the construction site and took off his clothes stained with mud and sweat, I secretly told myself that I should study hard, not only for myself, but also for my family.
I have always believed that for each of us, studying hard and getting into a good university is still the most important way to change our life situation.
CCTV once broadcast a documentary called "Crossing Mountains and Waters to Go to School." The name is a bit strange.
Yes, this documentary exposes the real situation of children in some backward countries and regions in the world where we risk their lives and travel across mountains and rivers to go to school.
In order to go to school, children either walk with wild animals in the endless prairie,
or climb artificial "ladders" in high-altitude areas with dense mountains, hanging on by a thread. ,
Or on the fast-flowing "Man-eating River", using rusty steel cables to cross the river...
What impressed me the most, There was an episode shot in Kenya.
Kotanka’s mother is accompanying her daughter through a dangerous bush, where ferocious beasts may appear at any time. After crossing the bush, the mother has to return home to take care of the livestock, and the rest of the way can only rely on Kotanka went alone.
The 12-year-old Kotanka will have to cross the vast prairie all the way south to reach the school.
In the video, the mother looked at her daughter's leaving back and said with tears in her eyes: "The road ahead looks safer, but it is still dangerous for the children. Sometimes there are lions and elephants. Or some people with evil intentions, these are all dangers on the way to school."
She is not rich and does not have a mobile phone. During Kotanka's absence for several days, she asked around if anyone had seen her child. to ensure that her daughter has arrived at school safely.
There are countless similar scenes in the film that make people moved. Every road to school lurks the danger of life.
We have all gone to school, but our journey to school has never been so difficult and bumpy. We never imagined that there are such a group of children in the world who need to risk their lives to go to school.
However, the parents send each other off with reluctance and the children trek hard and stubbornly, just to study and gain true knowledge. The children always say: "I really like reading and I am not afraid of eating." These hardships. ”
Many children complain that school is hard and tiring. But in comparison, who is more miserable and who is more tired?
If you are afraid of hardship, you will suffer for a lifetime; if you are not afraid of hardship, you will suffer for half your life.
Don’t save things that can be solved with sweat now for tears later. Besides, tears can’t solve any problems.
When you gain enough knowledge, you will find that there are too many beautiful things in this world.
Only when you are tired can you know how to be leisurely. Only when you have experienced bitterness can you realize sweetness.
I was deeply touched when I saw a netizen named Meimei telling the story of her classmate on a social platform. Her classmate was tired of studying and dropped out of school to go home and help her parents manage the restaurant business.
Every day, I help greet guests, pass dishes, serve plates, collect money, and shuttle among all kinds of diners. The restaurant's income is not bad and the business is booming.
But it didn’t take long for me to complain to Meimei that making money was not as easy as imagined. It was tiring both physically and mentally. Moreover, doing so made me feel empty, which was not as fulfilling as when I was studying.
In fact, there is no easy road in this world, but after truly entering society, I discovered that the hardships and tiredness I complained about when I went to school are nothing compared to the twists and turns and cruelty of real life. Studying for progress, upgrading knowledge to open more doors of opportunities, and gaining wealth and peace of mind through wisdom may be a relatively easy way.
Of course, studying is not the only way out.
I have a friend who worked in a high-tech enterprise after completing his master's and doctorate studies. Once when I returned to my hometown, a local businessman asked about my friend's income.
My friend gave a general idea, but the fellow said with disdain: "I thought you were such great students, but it turned out that my beauty salon didn't make as much profit.
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My friend smiled and said nothing, but she knew very well that if she had not studied, her situation would have been even worse than it is now. However, the upgrade of knowledge and the improvement of her thoughts made her not want to follow this person. Competing among fellow villagers who "despise" her income
Many times, we may not be able to determine our origins, but each of us can build an excellent personality for ourselves through reading. , to achieve personal improvement and breakthrough
Recalling a passage in the book of writer Bi Shumin, it may help children understand the spiritual significance of reading. She said:
He can hear the sound of snow falling, but he can't feel the solemnity;
He can hear the laughter of children, but he can't feel the innocence;
He can hear Others cry, but they cannot feel the inner sorrow of others...
I deeply believe that this is why everyone is born equal, but their patterns and experiences are vastly different.
We educate our children to read in the hope that in the future, even if they face the same chaotic life, they can use their knowledge and wisdom to strive for more independent choices and a greater sense of control over life.
Instead of passively enduring and enduring against your inner will
If God is kind to you and gives you a superior life, please don’t restrain your fighting spirit; God will set up obstacles for you in every possible way, but please don’t destroy your confidence in yourself and your courage to fight.
When you want to give up, be sure to think about those who go to bed later and wake up later than you. The talented people who are ahead of you, run harder than you, and are more talented than you are already running in the morning light towards the distance they long to reach.
Life is like a bank, and your current efforts are just that. Principal.
If you think studying is hard and choose to give up, you will find out when you enter society: Studying is not hard, but life without studying is hard.