Gains and losses depend on conditions,

The heart does not increase or decrease.

——Sakyamuni

Life is a game, and those who can afford it can play freely and gain and lose as they please.

——Rao Xueman's "Things Girls Should Know"

No matter what mistakes you make in life, they are all your own fault, no one else's. Learn from your mistakes and improve, and strive for excellence. Until you don't make the same mistake, never put the blame on the shoulders of others, so as not to lose the opportunity to learn from others.

——Yishu "Asura"

Live in the moment, regardless of gains and losses, and do promising things with a mind of inaction

——"Three Idiots" "Bollywood"

Ignore success or failure as much as possible, and just try to do my best without any regrets.

——Fu Lei's "Fu Lei Family Letter"

I don't really care about the success or failure of things. What I care about is that I like this job and this career that I am happy to pursue. If after trying hard, I still fail, then I believe I will try harder again.

—— Steve Jobs "Follow Your Heart"

In life, there are things you should not do and things you must do. Who knows what will happen in the future? Momentary gains and losses are not important. The most important thing is to follow your heart and let go. Only in this way can you live happily.

——Huang Yi's "The Sun and the Moon in the Sky"

People will always have differences in intelligence and luck; they will always be bound by the environment and reality; there will always be someone who will support you in everything you do. When you are serving a plate of fruit, you can solve a math problem instantly; when you are sleeping, there will always be someone thinking about the gains and losses of the day; there will always be someone who can run faster than you... The unevenness makes up the beautiful scenery in this world. Bian Zhilin said: You stand on the bridge and look at the scenery, and the people watching the scenery are watching you upstairs. Yes, in the ups and downs of life, when you envy others for living in high-rise buildings, maybe the people huddled in the corner are envying you for having a thatched house that can shelter you from the wind; when you envy others for sitting in luxury cars, and When you are frustrated that you are walking on the ground, maybe the person lying on the hospital bed is envious that you can still walk freely...

——Mo Yan

"Fuyi, don't take gains and losses too seriously. "It's too heavy." "A person can say that just because he has never lost what he loves most." - Yi Shu's "Your Heart"

The world is full of time. It’s limited, so why bother running around? Life is mediocre, competing for shortcomings and discussing long points, but there are countless ups and downs, and gains and losses are difficult to measure. Look at the autumn wind in the Golden Valley, the moonlit night on the Wujiang River, the cold Epang Palace, the deserted Bronze Bird Tower, the dew on the glorious flowers, and the frost on the grass heads of wealth. He has a thorough understanding of the organization and forgets all worries, such as boasting about dragon towers and phoenix pavilions, and talking about being powerful and famous. Come to a quiet place when you are free, and indulge in poetry and wine. It's not too late to return home by singing a song that tunes the vastness of the lake and sea. When the time comes and the scene meets, pick up the greenery and seek the fragrance. Make an appointment with a few close friends to go to a stream in the wild, play chess and play chess, or drink wine in a meandering stream; talk about good karma, or talk about the rise and fall of the past and present; look at the beautiful flowers and branches, listen to the birds, and play the sheng.

——Six Chapters of a Floating Life by Shen Fu

If the mind and body are clear and always in the still water of the clear mirror, then there will be nothing to hate in the world; the mind and spirit will always be peaceful. Within the beautiful sun and wind, there will be no evil people in the world. When you are a friend of right and wrong, you must be less accommodating. If you are less accommodating, you will lose the rightness of obedience and disobedience. When you value the gains and losses of a meeting, you must not be too clear-cut. If you are too clear-cut, you will be selfish in seeking to avoid others.

——Hong Yingming's "Cai Gen Tan"

A happy person is not because he has a lot, but because he cares less. People who care too much about gains and losses will often You have to be treated badly. When a person always feels that he is being treated badly, he will not be happy.

——Romain Rolland's "Roland's Little Whispers"

There are no absolute rules between gains and losses, so it is best not to take it too seriously; a If a person wants to climb up, he has to endure hardships and sweat, but when he climbs up, he will find that no matter how much hardship he endures or how much sweat he sweats, it is all worth it. It's much easier to jump down.

——Gu Long

Even if there are gains and losses, we must preserve our spiritual beliefs.

——Disappearing Binnie's "Book of Loneliness"

Everything in the world is a method of action. If one day you can use the method of inaction to face gains, losses, and disadvantages, then you can really learn to be effective. Director.

——"Divorce Lawyer"