I was lucky enough to borrow the book I wanted to read. One of them is called "everyone who lives seriously deserves to be taken seriously", and many writers write it reasonably.
In my opinion, this book does not pay special attention to preaching, but talks about many rules, such as who is successful and what you have to do to become such a person. More is through examples, summary, as for everyone's feelings after reading, that is everyone's feelings. And what you get from it is different from what you have experienced.
The first article: "My Lower Bed Wang Zijian" by Mason.
If you feel pain, it is often because you don't work hard enough and think too much.
There is a character in it, who is positive and optimistic about life, but indifferent to material things (at least in words), but with the idea of becoming a poet like Li Bai and working hard in Beishangguang. Even if he can't eat well and live well, he still sticks to his dream.
He is an optimistic representative living in a capsule house. He believes everything is possible and represents positive energy.
From this article, my feeling is that everyone has their own experiences and dreams. You don't know how long you will last. What matters is experience. Failure is not terrible. The terrible thing is that you are hit by a failed dream and have no passion to pursue the next dream.
Therefore, we are not afraid of blows, failures and the future. Anything is possible, and there are still dreams. What if it is a ghost?
The second article: "You are a prodigal son, leaving the other shore and embarking on the road to freedom" Author: Girl A C
I'm in my prime. What's wrong with being single?
About a woman being single and getting married. Feudal thought holds that women should get married and have children at a certain age, otherwise they will be classified as heterogeneous, looked down upon or made irresponsible remarks. The older a single woman is, the less valuable she is. The pressure is really great.
I have the same view as the girl named Sasa in this article. She was urged to get married in her thirties. Although I just went to college, I don't think that with more college time and more boys, we must fall in love. I think we should talk about it when we meet the right one, and don't be wronged by some jokes or ridicule from others.
Being single is not intentional. She is also waiting for the right person for her, but she just doesn't want to find anyone casually or wronged herself to accept a man to live with her. As she said, it's not that people shouldn't pursue love, nor that they don't believe in love. Instead, they should concentrate on waiting for love. Everyone should live independently without external influence on the premise of maintaining self-esteem, that's all. In any case, the most important thing is to try to find a happy lifestyle.
My attitude towards love is the same as hers. You should find someone who is suitable for you to spend your life with, not someone who makes you unhappy, uncomfortable and worried about your family.
So those women who are still single or have been hurt by love, don't lose hope in love. Maybe our boyfriends are looking for us, too!
Article 3: "Why are you so anxious when you work so hard?" Author: Koiwai.
This paper takes a college student who studies Japanese hard in order to study in Japan, has no foundation and has no interest in Japanese culture at all as an example. Although he studies hard, he still can't learn well. I think his lack of interest in language is the root cause of his failure in learning Japanese.
When people blindly pursue fast and are indifferent to the matter itself, they just want to end it early and get the result, then the matter itself will not give you good feedback. Because the heart is absent, distractions will come (original).
My experience is: I actually understand that feeling, just like I chose liberal arts because I couldn't learn physics and chemistry, and chose Chinese major because I didn't want to learn mathematics. If I were to study physical chemistry, I would collapse, too.
However, sometimes you are really forced to learn things that you are not interested in, and it is possible to learn. Can't you start thinking, can I succeed? When can I succeed? If it works. As the book says, success is cool, but what about failure? Can you still enjoy what you are doing?
Therefore, in the face of what you don't like but have to do, you must calm down, be patient and work hard. Never go wrong. As for the setbacks encountered in the process, don't worry, we must firmly believe that there is always a solution to the difficulties, and we will cross the bridge.
In fact, there are many excellent articles and topics in this book. If you read them carefully, you will always be inspired. I just selected a few articles.
In fact, there are many such books on the market now, both good and bad. Sometimes it doesn't hurt to read them, at least don't be brainwashed and don't lose yourself. If you can really draw strength from it, that's best. If not, it doesn't matter. Don't be disappointed. Just read a fake book and enjoy yourself. Forget it.