Helen Keller said, "Facing the sunshine, you can't see the shadow." I can't see the shadow, and I am playing a happy life with an optimistic attitude.
Nietzsche said, "If you know what you live for, you can endure any pain." Why live? Treat all pain as a whetstone to hone yourself, face it calmly, be fearless, turn pain into happiness, turn grief into joy, and change emotional channels. It's like Cao Cao's San Xiao in adversity. God hates my luck. I responded with laughter, keeping a happy channel and keeping a happy mind.
In fact, there is no absolute bitterness and joy in life, but all of them are nutritious. Spring, summer, autumn and winter are all beautiful scenery, but the perspective of the problem is different. As long as you keep a sunny mind, work hard and see the bright side, you can turn pain into pleasure. For example, you carefully prepare for the college entrance examination, but the disappointing score ruined the dream of a key university; Maybe you want to make yourself slim, but the quietly bulging belly destroys the symmetry of your body; Maybe you want a raise and a promotion, but your hopes were dashed when you came to Jin Yao on the way ... Maybe we will feel uneasy and annoyed. Think about the life of Ukrainian refugees under the war, think about the eating of hungry people in Africa, and the sky in your heart will clear up. It can be said that people ride horses, I ride donkeys, and there are luggage behind me.
Adversity in life is a melting pot for tempering will; Difficulties and hardships are the additional factors in shaping personality. Although there were some shortcomings in the vigorous movement of going to the countryside in the 1960s and 1970s, the vast countryside, experiencing hardships in the countryside, was of great benefit to young people in tempering their will.
We can't be influenced by troubles and worries. The heart is bright and sunny, and now it is a beautiful garden. If it is raining in my heart, there is a quagmire of tears in front of me.
When you face difficulties, you can face them calmly. It can be said that "the benevolent is not worried, the knower is not confused, and the brave is not afraid." Be strong and brave to overcome it, and it will yield to your feet; If you are timid, timid, negative and pessimistic ... failure will embrace you.
Smooth sailing and safe journey are our expectations. But sometimes it is full of thorns and muddy. If we face it optimistically and boldly, after "clothes are getting wider and wider, and we will never regret it", the front is "people are looking for him for thousands of Baidu, and that person is under the dim light".
If you are bright, the world in front of you will not be dark; If you have hope, the world will not despair now. If you sing to the sky and live in the sun, what can the world do to you?