the way to make friends: article 1? These days, with the approaching of the exam, my mood fluctuates greatly. Because I have always attached great importance to this exam, I always feel that if I fail it, it will be over. So the more I think about it, the more I feel stressed. I rush to the 3: 1 line every day: home-school-canteen, burying my head every day and thinking only about studying, but I know that I am in a bad mood. But I'm glad to have friends around. With their support and encouragement, I gradually got out of my psychological shadow and my grades improved. So friends are very important. ? Making friends can be roughly divided into four categories: the first category is casual acquaintances, who say hello when they meet on the road in a good mood and turn a blind eye when they are in a bad mood, with a friendship index of 1%; What is the second category? Friends? But it's not derogatory here, it just emphasizes that this kind of friends are inseparable, laughing and laughing together all day, booing and destroying together, and the friendship index is 4%; The third category is people who have the same hobbies and pursuits, study together and make progress together. There are no more than ten such friends, and the friendship index is 8%. The fourth category is the intimate friend type. Two people have almost no secrets, and the other person's mind is clear. Even in the classroom, these two people sit in the first group and one in the eighth group, but they will also form a unified tacit understanding at the same time. Such friends are limited to one person, and the friendship index is 99%. ? I hope my friend-she is not indifferent, but can always care about others; It is not arbitrary, but can listen to other people's opinions widely; Not cowardly, but someone who can stand up for me; Not stupid, but someone who can advise me; Not dull, but a person full of humor? Can't he be cunning, greedy, hypocritical and stingy? He should be honest, and never or ever cheated me in good faith; Should be frank, who can boldly make well-founded criticisms of me; It should be an upright person, a aboveboard and upright person; Should be diligent, and I can * * * with the development, * * with the progress of people; Should be an open-minded, generous and generous person; Should be brave and dare to face any reality? ? However,? Gold is not enough, and no one is perfect. ? Don't be too hard on your friends. Think about whether you can do it yourself when you ask others. ? The way to make friends: article 2? Friends are indispensable in today's competitive real society. With friends, there is an extra layer of barrier, which still stands when the wind and waves sweep through. For example, when you are in financial or career difficulties and your family can't help you, you need a friend. He can help you through the difficulties. If you don't have this friend, you will be devastated, perhaps as poor as a church mouse. This shows how important friends are. We can't live without friends. ? My understanding, my friend, is: the person who never gives up on you when you are in danger, helps you when you are in trouble, takes care of you, shares happiness with you when you are in trouble, ignores your position and origin, brings you happiness, and comforts you when you are sad. This is a friend. ? Friends are everywhere, but they are easy to find, but it is very difficult to find a bosom friend who really shares your interests. As the saying goes: bosom friends are hard to find. Finding a good friend is not easy. Many people can't find a bosom friend all their lives. Aristotle said: A good friend is like a different person. ? If you make a good friend, you will benefit for life, while if you make a bad friend, you will bring about your own destruction. Make a good friend who can help you, especially when you are in danger. Make a bad friend, he will make it easy for you to be in cahoots, and let you go astray. Friends are important, but you should be extremely cautious when choosing friends. You can't bear the consequences of making friends carelessly. The principle of making friends is roughly as follows: we should treat our friends sincerely, not hide ourselves, be honest and trustworthy, be heart-to-heart, be tolerant and trust our friends, be willing to do anything for our friends, respect our friends when necessary, raise their position and lower their position. When making friends, we should pay attention to his character, and we should not blindly choose his position and origin. Don't choose fair-weather friends. At this time, the basic principle of making friends, if you follow this principle to make friends, you will certainly make a like-minded friend. Making friends, from ancient times to the present, has been praised by people all through the ages. For example: Bao Shuya and Guan Zhong in the Spring and Autumn Period; Prissy, uncle Jian. These are real friends in need. They help you when you are in trouble and are willing to do anything for you. This is a real friend. ? The way to make friends: article 3? What is a friend? Some people understand, others don't. ? A friend is someone who can tolerate each other. No matter how much joke he played on him and what unpleasant language he said to him, he would smile at each other, at most, only with humorous words. ? A friend is someone who can help each other. If the other party has any shortcomings, he will point them out and help them correct them. ? A friend is someone who can accept advice from the other side. No matter what shortcomings or even criticisms the other party will put forward to him, he will happily accept them and seriously correct them to perfect himself. ? A friend is someone who will cherish friendship. He will respect each other and never force them. If the other party is happy, he will be very happy; When the other person is sad, he will comfort the other person and never gloat when he is down. ? A friend is an upright person. In the face of evil, he will never flinch or hide, but will uphold justice and overwhelm evil. ? A friend is someone who is not afraid of difficulties. In the face of difficulties, he will never be afraid or escape, but will bravely overcome them. ? A friend is someone who will protect each other. No matter what happens, he will stand up and give everything, even his life, for each other. ? Some people think that people who are willing to eat, drink and have fun with themselves are friends. Actually, it was wrong. ? ? See the truth in times of danger? . Dear readers, please think carefully. After all, who is your friend? ? As the saying goes, One fence, three piles, one hero and three gangs? . No matter in life or online, everyone will have friends. What is a friend? Friends are people who have friendship with each other and are good friends with each other. Friendship is the purest, noblest, simplest and most ordinary emotion, and it is also the most romantic, moving, solid and eternal emotion. Everyone is inseparable from friendship. Life is inseparable from friends, and the friendship and support of friends are indispensable. However, in the world, good and evil people are mixed, and friends gain and lose. The ancients warned us like this: Gentlemen choose their faces before they make friends, and villains choose their faces before they make friends, so gentlemen are few, and villains complain more? ，? Don't make friends carelessly when you lose a horse? . It can be seen that how to know and choose friends is a very important life topic. ? Be careful about making friends. No matter what kind of people you make as your friends, you should be careful. ? Close to Zhu Zhechi, close to Mexico is black? This famous saying, which has been circulating for a long time, vividly illustrates? Be careful about making friends? The importance is the experience of the ancients, and it is indeed the case. A person's friends often play a great role in his own development, which is an invisible and subtle force that edifies infection. ? What is the best friend to make? The ancients said:? There are three friends who benefit and three friends who lose. Friends are straightforward, friends are tolerant, and friends are more knowledgeable and beneficial; Friends are withdrawn, friendly and soft, and friends are embarrassing and damaging. . That is to say, making friends with honest, trustworthy and knowledgeable people will benefit a lot; It will do harm to make friends with people who are flattering, insincere and flashy. This still inspires us how to choose and make friends today. Generally speaking, in real life, we should make the following kinds of friends. ? Best friend. Refers to sincere and sincere friends who live by feelings and principles. ? Afraid of friends, just can? Morality meets morality, and negligence meets rules? . That is to say, it refers to people who dare to speak out and admonish each other among friends, criticize others directly, and actively carry out criticism and self-criticism. Fear of friends can be like a mirror, reflecting the dust and stains on each other's faces, so that they can find and correct them in time. ? Close friends. Just can? Priorities and * * *, life and death can be entrusted? . That is to say, close friends with strong feelings can share joys and sorrows with themselves. ? Xueyou A friend who is diligent in learning or knowledgeable. Making friends can increase knowledge, broaden horizons, cooperate with each other, learn from each other's strengths, promote each other and spur each other. ? Pay attention to avoid making bad friends. Middle school students are very imitative, and if they make friends with people with daggers and cigarettes in their mouths, they may eventually have the same taste. Middle school students are in an emotional and impulsive age, so don't be impulsive, or because of feelings or for the sake of? Loyalty? To do things that shouldn't be done. You must be careful what kind of friends you make. ? How to treat friends? When we find our friends through careful choice, how to ensure the harmonious and healthy development of our relationship is very particular and knowledgeable. ? Treat each other honestly. Is out of sincerity, sincerity. I am most afraid of insincerity, emptiness and dealing with my friends. Friends are allowed to have their own privacy, but there is no doubt, is it? Nothing to hide? ，? Concealed? How much is a sign of friendship. ? Keep your promise and trust each other. ? Letter? One of the unchangeable virtues of the ancients. Confucius said:? Make friends and keep your word? . Faith, first of all, is credit. You keep your word and keep your word. Secondly, trust, trust friends, and don't suspect without reason. An untrustworthy person can't make friends, and a person who always suspects others rarely makes friends with you. ? ? A friendship between gentlemen is as light as water? . "Zhuangzi Mountain Wood" says:? A friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, but a friendship between villains is as sweet as water? . True friendship depends on sincere sympathy, not on sweet words or heavy gifts. As for the exchange of material, disgusting flattery, mutual use, and even cheating, we should throw it into the garbage. ? A friend of a gentleman? Should stand the test of time and the test of external environment. ? First of all, we must make more friends with heart for heart. You have to use your own to make friends with people? Heart? In exchange for the trust of others, so that the other party knows that you are his good friend, true friend and caring person, so that he can have no scruples? Heart? Dedicated to you, so as to achieve? Heart for heart? Become good friends with each other. If you are hypocritical, duplicitous, face-to-face, behind-the-back, or even secretive, such people will not make friends, let alone make more friends. Just like a salesman who comes to the door to promote sales, he should promote himself first, and then the product. Because customers will spend money to buy his products after accepting him. The principle of making friends is actually the same. ? Secondly, seek common ground while reserving differences and make more friends. There are no exactly the same people in the world, and there are no people with exactly the same personality, temper and ideas. As Goethe said: It is difficult to find two leaves with exactly the same shape on a tree. So? Seek common ground while reserving differences? , take? The principle is correct, and the trivial matter is sloppy? The policy. Treat the differences of opinion between friends, even if you are wronged, be generous. We can clarify right and wrong by exchanging views and achieve the purpose of reconciliation. ? Furthermore, it is to change temperament and make more friends. If a person's temperament is stubborn and life habits are too much? Personalization? , or silent, introverted, wooden and taciturn, etc., it is difficult to make more friends. We should try our best to make ourselves cheerful, go to the big social family to exercise, talk with people and gradually improve our communication skills. Only in this way can we deal with anyone, and only in this way can we know all kinds of different personalities, learn how to behave, and adapt to this society. ? The way to make friends: article 4? Friendship has been regarded as the most precious thing in the world since ancient times. The value of friendship lies in being like-minded and keeping your word. ? Fire knows gold, but danger sees truth? Adversity is the best witness of friendship. Throughout the ages, how many people with lofty ideals have left a brilliant page for friendship. ? ? Knowing each other is the most important thing. Knowing each other is the most important thing, right? Friends can only be comfortable if they are intimate; Only when friends are intimate can they be United. With the same heart and mind, our life will be full of sunshine, comfortable and happy, and we will work with one heart and one mind for the same goal in life. ? Friendship is spiritual communication, emotional communication, selfless care, precious trust, sincere advice and enthusiastic encouragement. With friendship, our life will have more hands and more sunshine. ? True friendship is based on like-mindedness. Only like-minded people can establish true friendship. People with different ideals and aspirations cannot have long-term friendship. Lu Xun and Zhai Qiubai met in the summer and autumn of 1932, and they felt like old friends at first sight. From then on, they fought side by side to promote the revolutionary cultural movement and forged a profound friendship. During their mutual communication, Lu Xun helped Zhai Qiubai many times. I wrote Selected Works of Lu Xun's Miscellaneous Feelings to thank Lu Xun, and gave high praise to Lu Xun's essays. Lu Xun also wrote a couplet for Zhai Qiubai? It's enough to have a bosom friend in life, so we should treat it with empathy? . The reason why Lu Xun and Zhai Qiubai established such a profound friendship is that they have the same ideal. Therefore:? Different ways, no common goal? . ? Su Jun in Ming Dynasty said:? Sweet words, games, friends; Interests are connected, intentions are mutually reinforcing, and thieves are friends? . Not bad,? What about friends? Or? Thief friend? Not a real friend. You can't be eager to make friends, not everyone can be your friend. Choose carefully when making friends, which is a big difficulty in making friends. With the progress of society, people's thoughts are also improving. Choosing friends is easy to be deceived by some insidious and cunning people. Such people look honest and trustworthy, but they are not. Those who forget about profit and righteousness are also not worth paying. Wang Tong of Sui Dynasty said this: Those who pay with the potential, the potential is poor; Those who make friends with benefits, and those who are poor are scattered? . Therefore:? If you make careless friends at first, you will become enemies later. . ? The vast sea of people, looking around, who can be a confidant? Who is a bosom friend? This requires us to master the way of choosing friends and choose carefully, so that we can have a pure friendship. Read the full text