Why should we have family rules?

Psychologist Seidez said:

People are like ceramics, and early childhood is like the clay used to make ceramics. What kind of education will become what kind of prototype.

Professor Li Meijin also said that Xiaohongshu should educate children as early as possible. For children under 6 years old, parents’ words are golden. After children are 12 years old, parents’ words are garbage.

The road to raising children is long, and we cannot protect our children for the rest of their lives. But letting children understand the rules, learn rules, distinguish right from wrong, and be knowledgeable and reasonable is the best "protective umbrella" for children and the most useful social core competitiveness.

1. Put used things back in their original places

This is a habit. Many adults who have not developed this habit will still lose things when they grow up, such as keys and identity documents. Teach your children to put things back in their original places promptly and develop a habit.

2. Don’t interrupt others when they are talking

This is respect. It is good to have the courage to express your own ideas, but you must wait for others to finish their words. Not hitting others is a sign of respect and responsibility for what you have to say. For children, it is equally important to learn to listen and express.

3. Don’t use bad words

This is a quality. Not only does swearing not solve any problem, it can make it worse. No matter what situation you encounter, never say bad words and find the key to solving the problem.

4. Don’t disturb others

This is education. In public places (except for places where you can play freely), the volume of your speech should be controlled so that no third person can hear you. You should not do whatever you want. You should learn to consider the feelings of others from an early age.

5. Admit your mistakes

This is responsibility. Everyone makes mistakes. Making mistakes is not terrible. What is terrible is evading responsibility and making mistakes bigger and bigger. The correct way to deal with mistakes is to reflect on them after making a mistake and make timely remedies.

6. Sports hobbies are healthy.

Having at least one sports hobby can not only symbolize the child's inner aggression, but also provide a healthy body. -Once you lose your health, no matter how much you have, it is nothing. A healthy body is a child's greatest wealth.

7. Food cannot be wasted

This is frugality. Take the food we can eat and buy the items we need. Develop the good habit of being diligent and thrifty, and your children will be able to live within their means when they grow up, instead of being what is now called a moonlighting family.

8. Solve problems without relying on violence

This is the boundary. But if you cannot avoid fighting, you are not allowed to use tools, teeth, or poke your eyes. You can legitimately protect yourself; when encountering bullying, children who are only polite and humble will become a fixed doormat.

9. Greetings, thanks, and apologies

This is etiquette. When you see an acquaintance, say hello first. If you receive any kindness or help from others, you must also express your gratitude verbally or in writing. If you do something that causes trouble to others, you must apologize on the spot.

10. Be grateful

This is emotional intelligence. If someone sincerely treats you to something to eat, if you don't like it, you can say "I'm full," but you can never say "it tastes terrible." People who are always harsh and mean will not only keep strangers away, but will also hurt those closest to them.