The famous aphorism that words hurt people is as follows:

1. One must practice two skills in one's life: one is to make people become attached to words, and the other is to make people move. Bad words hurt people's hearts, but good words are good for deeds. The evil of doing things is greater than being harsh; The evil of mind is greater than sinister; The evil of words is greater than making false statements.

2. the ancients said: the mouth can spit roses as well as thistles. To cultivate oral virtue is to cultivate one's own aura, and a healthy body can bring a lot of good luck. Good speech can lead to good fortune, and good fortune can lead to less detours and more achievements. Bad words don't come out, and harsh words don't leave your ears. This is the accomplishment we should have.

3. If you make a careless remark, it's hard to make a mistake. Without knowing it, it is not smart; It is disloyal to know without telling. A gentleman's words are simple and practical, while a villain's words are miscellaneous and empty. Giving people words is more important than pearls and jade; Words hurt more than swords. Don't stab people in the bone marrow with words, and don't hurt people with jokes.

4. Good medicine tastes bitter and is good for illness, but advice when most unpleasant is helpful for action. Talking when you are happy, there is no credit; It's rude to speak when you are angry. Although people are unhappy, they may not hate it deeply. It's unpleasant to talk behind your back and hold a deep grudge. Needless to say, it is to say more, and saying more is easy to blame; It's nonsense to say it improperly, and it's easy to get into trouble. A gentleman speaks a hundred words, but a villain is tired of talking too much, thin of empty words, and insulting out of turn.

5. For those who are frustrated, don't talk about the proud things; Don't forget when you are frustrated when you are in a good day. If you like to hear it, your advice will come; Those who have heard of it are increasingly slanderous. Don't say it lightly. If you change your words, you might as well not say it. Don't promise lightly. If you promise to change, it's better not to promise. Therefore, it is advisable to be cautious when you make a promise.