Introduction to Father's Day
The third Sunday in June is Father's Day. Compared with Mother's Day, Father's Day is a relatively unfamiliar holiday. It was initiated by Mrs. Dude in Spokane, Washington, USA in 1910.
The origin of Father’s Day in our country can be traced back to the National Era. On August 8, the 34th year of the Republic of China (August 8, 1945), the Shanghai Institute of Literature and Art launched an event to celebrate Father's Day. The citizens responded immediately and held celebrations enthusiastically. After the victory of the Anti-Japanese War, celebrities and gentry from all walks of life in Shanghai jointly requested the Shanghai Municipal Government to forward to the central government to designate August 8th, which is homophonic to "Dad", as a national Father's Day.
Although most people today do not pay as much attention and excitement to the celebration of Father’s Day as they do to Mother’s Day, God teaches us in the Bible that our love for our parents is the same. When mothers work hard to take care of us, At this time, my father is also trying hard to play the gentle role given to him by God; perhaps when we are thinking hard about what kind of gift to buy for our father for Father’s Day, we might as well reflect on whether we love our father as much as he does. Have you ever selflessly devoted your life to us?
Father’s Day dates around the world
February 23: Russia
March 19: Belgium, Italy, Portugal, Spain (St. Joseph’s Day)
May 8: South Korea (Parents’ Day)
May 28: Germany (Ascension Day)
June 5: Denmark
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The first Sunday in June: Lithuania
The second Sunday in June: Austria, Belgium
The third Sunday in June: Argentina, Canada, Chile, Mainland China, Colombia, Costa Rica, Cuba, Ecuador, France, Hong Kong, India, Ireland, Japan, Macau, Malaysia, Malta, Mexico, Netherlands, Pakistan, Panama, Peru, Philippines, Singapore, Slovakia, South Africa, Switzerland, Turkey , United Kingdom, United States, Venezuela, Zimbabwe
June 20: Bulgaria
June 23: Nicaragua, Poland
Last Sunday in July: Dominica ***China
August 8: Taiwan, China
Second Sunday in August: Brazil
First Sunday in September: New Zealand, Australia
Second Sunday in November: Estonia, Finland, Norway, Sweden
December 5: Thailand (King Bhumibol Adulyadej’s birthday)
[Edit this paragraph] The origin of Father’s Day
The first statement:
The world’s first Father’s Day was born in the United States in 1910.
In 1909, Mrs. Dodd, Sonora Louise Smart Dodd, who lived in Spokane, Washington, USA, when she attended the Mother’s Day Sunday service held by the church, , Mrs. Dodd felt deeply in her heart, and she thought to herself: "Why doesn't this world have a festival to commemorate my father?"
Mrs. Dodd's mother died when she was thirteen years old. He died at the age of 18, leaving behind six children; Mrs. Dude's father, Mr. William Smart, raised six children alone on a rural farm in eastern Washington State, USA. Adult. Mr. Smart participated in the American Civil War and boasted of his meritorious service. After the death of his wife, he decided not to renew his relationship and devote himself to raising his six children.
Mrs. Dodd is the second child and the only girl in the family. The attentive nature of women makes her more aware of her father's hard work; Mr. Smart works hard during the day and takes care of the housework when he comes home at night. life with every child. After decades of hard work, the children finally grew up. When the children looked forward to allowing Mr. Smart to enjoy his old age, Mr. Smart fell ill and passed away due to years of overwork.
In 1909, which happened to be the year that Mr. Smith passed away, when Mrs. Dodd attended the church’s Mother’s Day Thanksgiving service, she missed her father particularly; it was not until then that Mrs. Dodd understood that she The love and effort that a father puts in raising his children is no less than that of any mother.
Mrs. Dodd told Rev. Rasmus her feelings about the church. She hoped to have a special day to pay tribute to the great Mr. Smart and commemorate it. The greatest father in the world.
After listening to Mr. Smart’s story, Pastor Reimas was deeply moved by Mr. Smart’s spirit and love. He praised and supported Mrs. Dodd’s idea of ??promoting “Father’s Day” effort. So Mrs. Dodd began to promote the establishment of Father's Day in the spring of 1910, and soon received support from various church organizations. She immediately wrote to the mayor and the state government to express her ideas and proposals. With Mrs. Dodd's hard work, The mayor of Spokane and the governor of Washington state publicly expressed their approval, so Washington state held the world's first Father's Day party on June 19, 1910.
In 1924, U.S. President Calvin Coolidge supported Father’s Day to become a national holiday in the United States; in 1966, U.S. President Lyndon Johnson announced that the third Sunday in June of that year would be celebrated as Father’s Day. Mr. Smart’s birthday is Father’s Day in the United States; in 1972, US President Richard Nixon signed an official document to designate the third Sunday of June each year as Father’s Day in the United States, and it became a permanent holiday in the United States. National anniversary of sex.
The second statement:
The idea of ??dedicating a day to honor mothers was first proposed in the United States in 1907. Two years later, Mrs. John Bruce Dodd, a woman in Washington state, proposed a day similar to Mother's Day to pay tribute to her father, the head of the family. Mrs. Dodd lost her mother when she was young and was raised by her father. She loves her father very much.
In 1909, the same year that Mrs. Dodd proposed her idea, the governor of Washington State responded by declaring the third Sunday in June as Father's Day. The idea was officially approved by President Wood Wilson in 1916. In 1924, President Calvin Coolidge proposed Father's Day as a national holiday to "establish a closer relationship between fathers and their children and to remind fathers of all their responsibilities." Red or white roses are recognized as the flower of Father's Day.
Father's Day has been established as a holiday throughout the United States, and it has taken longer than Mother's Day. Because the idea of ??establishing Father's Day was very popular, businessmen and manufacturers began to see business opportunities. They not only encourage children to send greeting cards to their fathers, but also encourage them to buy small gifts such as ties and socks to express their respect for their fathers.
During World War II, American soldiers stationed in Britain asked for Father's Day cards to be sent home. The requests of American servicemen were responded to by British greeting card publishers, and greeting cards were printed. Although the British public has been slower to accept this man-made holiday, Father's Day is still celebrated in the UK today on the third Sunday in June, in much the same way as in the United States.
Father's Day seems far less important than Mother's Day, and no children give gifts to their fathers. However, American fathers still believe that their destiny is much better than that of fathers in many other countries, because fathers in those countries do not even have a holiday in name.
[Edit this paragraph] Father's Day customs
On Father's Day, people choose specific flowers to show respect for their father. People adopted Mrs. Dodd's suggestion and wore red roses to express their love for their living fathers and white roses to express their condolences to their deceased fathers. Later in Vancouver, people chose to wear white lilacs, and Pennsylvanians paid tribute to their fathers with dandelions. Red or white roses are recognized as the flower of Father's Day. Father's Day has been established as a holiday throughout the United States and has taken longer than Mother's Day. Because the idea of ??establishing Father's Day was very popular, businessmen and manufacturers began to see business opportunities. They not only encourage children to send greeting cards to their fathers, but also encourage them to buy small gifts such as ties and socks to express their respect for their fathers.
In addition, the breakfast on Father's Day is cooked by the children. Parents do not have to get up early in the morning and can continue to sleep. The children prepare breakfast and take it to their parents before going to bed.
[Edit this paragraph]Father's Day flowers
※Rose
Red or white roses are recognized as Father's Day flowers.
Usually, yellow roses are given. In some countries, yellow is regarded as the color of men.
※Sunflowers
It is popular in some countries to send sunflowers on Father's Day, which means that father is like the great sun. The growth of all things depends on the sun, which means that only under the care of the father can children thrive. This sunflower can be a sunflower or a gerbera.
※Carnation
Yellow, it symbolizes kindness, warmth, sincerity, love that does not ask for any price and will never fade.
※Father's love is like a mountain---Sunflower with sword leaves
Flower language: What is wider than the ocean is the sky, what is wider than the sky is your mind and the wrinkles on your forehead Recording the ups and downs, your life is a magnificent poem.
※Brilliant time---various colors of sunflowers, appropriate amount of green leaves
Flower language: Youth is a star blinking sincere eyes, youth is a smile, conveying flowing happiness, Youth is a song that sings full of passion; youth is a poem that is filled with the joys, sorrows and joys of life. . .
※The harbor of the soul---red carnations, pink roses, white lilies, white violets with alpine green leaves
Flower language: flowers, longing for the moisture of rain and dew, after wandering for too long, Longing for the embrace, wandering around the world, still thinking about that warm harbor.
※Long-lasting happiness---red carnations, pink carnations, oriole, green leaves
Flower language: I wish you long-lasting happiness and a long history.
※Passionate---red roses, pink perfume lilies, sunflowers, green leaves and sword leaves
Flower language: The sun in life makes every day full of confidence and hope. Let your passion accompany you on your journey to the ends of the earth!
[Edit this paragraph] Father’s Day related
Father’s influence
The extent of father’s influence mainly depends on three factors. The first is the father’s personality. . In the "Three Character Classic", Dou Yanshan's five sons in the Five Dynasties all became officials of the dynasty, and he was a typical successful father at that time. Before he became a father, he was a cunning businessman, and later he became a respected and good man. This is how he successfully raised five sons. From his story, we can see how much influence a father's personality has on his children. Secondly, the father's influence depends on his status in society. Finally, it also depends on the father's status in the family.
My father’s advantage is that he is broad-minded and has a wider scope of practice than his mother. He is more sensible and takes a long-term view on some major issues. And mature fathers are also more adaptable. So I think the father's role in the family is mainly twofold. The first is to establish a good family tradition, and the second is to be a good director of family relationships. The father does not have to be as concerned about everything as the mother, but he must be able to ease family conflicts and reduce conflicts at critical times. I think the way to be a father is also about "doing something and not doing something".
The role of the father in the family is still in a transitional period in China. Chinese history emphasizes that "men take care of the outside and women take care of the house". Economic status determines that the father's status is higher than that of the mother. This, coupled with the traditional model of "a strict father and a loving mother", has caused children to be afraid of their fathers and have a sense of psychological distance from their fathers. Even now we often hear mothers scolding their children: "If you don't obey again, I'll go back and tell your dad!"
However, this situation is gradually decreasing in cities. On the contrary, women's status is constantly improving. Today, more and more cases of fathers over-indulging and pampering their children are increasing. Not long ago, I used a questionnaire to survey 961 middle and high school students in Beijing. The survey data showed that 33.9% of fathers overprotected their children, 30.4% of fathers overly interfered with their children, and most fathers were The children's material aspects are fully cared for, but the spiritual care for the children is obviously insufficient.
I am most afraid that my children will say that I am useless. In our interview survey, fathers and expectant fathers said that being called “useless and cowardly” by their children was the last word they wanted to hear.
40% of the fathers surveyed felt an unprecedented pressure after the birth of their children. They were most worried about doing nothing in their career and that their children would think they were incompetent when they grew up; 34% of the fathers surveyed said that After the child is born, they no longer "act like heroes" and hide whenever possible. Therefore, they are most worried about being called cowardly and timid by their children; 34% of the interviewed fathers and expectant fathers are most worried about doing so in front of their children. Couples quarrel.
[Edit this paragraph] Collection of Father’s Day text messages
·Your perseverance and strength will always be an example to me. I draw strength from you to overcome setbacks and move forward. Success, dad, you are my role model, I love you!
·I would like to express my infinite gratitude and warm wishes to you, as well as the many memories and affectionate thoughts because you are so kind, which is beyond words. I wish you a happy Father’s Day!
·Dad, you are the best!
·Dad, please hug me again!
·Dad, I hate preaching, tell me how to become a rich man!
·Dad, this is our most precious understanding and memory!
·Dad, you and I are the greatest in my heart!
·I hope that all fathers in the world can truly cherish all mothers in the world and become an arm to support each other
·Dad, thank you for doing everything for me. I will definitely work harder and study harder. To repay your nurturing, I love you. Today is Father's Day, and I sincerely wish you a happy holiday! ·Dad’s teachings are like a lamp, illuminating my future; Dad’s care is like an umbrella, shielding me from the wind and rain. Happy Father’s Day! !
·Dad, you and I will always be the most stylish and best father in our hearts. I wish you a happy Father’s Day! !
·Happy holidays to my versatile dad, you will always be my idol - just like a star!
·Dear Dad, I miss you very much when you took me to the park to play when I was a child. Your hands were so big and strong at that time. Thank you for nurturing me. Happy Father’s Day!
·Pet a ray of breeze and ask God to bless your father’s health and happiness! He worked hard to have you, and he also made me feel that the world is beautiful because of you
·My father always has many ways to make me happy, and he always cares about me the most. I love you, father! Happy father!
·Every time I think of you, I feel extremely proud. You always inspire me to keep forging ahead. I wish you the best on this special day!
·You give, you pray, just for our growth. Thank you. You, Dad
·Your day is once a year. I hope you can live happily every minute without me, Dad, thank you for your hard work!
·A gentle greeting turns the blessing in my heart into the warmth of sunshine, and it will remain in your eyes and your heart forever.
·I will always remember that the hands on my shoulders, the wind How warm you were when you were young; I will always remember the figure that accompanied me as I grew up, exchanging your years for my worry-free happiness! Happy Father's Day!
·No amount of mountains and Cui Wei can outline your majesty; no number of extraordinary years can describe your weathered face. Dad, thank you for doing everything for me. Happy Father's Day!
·A smart father who can understand his children
·Dad, you let me have a broader sky, you let me see higher and farther
·Turn countless thoughts into infinite blessings in my heart, pray for you silently, and wish you health and happiness!
·You are a big tree. I rely on you to dream in spring, flourish in summer, mature in autumn, and meditate in winter.
Dad, I give You found that piece of music you like to listen to. I wish Dad a happy day!
·The daughter is grateful to her father beyond words. Thank you, Dad!
banknote? Happy Father's Day, Dad! ·I will always remember how warm the hands on my shoulders are when the wind blows; I will always remember the back figure that accompanied me as I grew up, exchanging your years for my worry-free happiness! Dad, happy Father’s Day!
·Father's love is as tall as a green mountain; as holy as ice and snow; as warm as the sun; as broad as a river and sea! Happy Father's Day, Dad! Love you daughter forever!
·Happiness is health. If my blessing can bring you a source of health, I am willing to pray for you day and night.
·You give and you pray, just for our growth. Thank you, Dad , Happy Father’s Day!
·This is your day once a year. I hope you can live happily every minute without me by your side. Dad, thank you for your hard work!
·Dad takes the longest time to understand the character
·I want to announce loudly to everyone: Dad, I love you!
·Dad’s teachings are like a lamp, illuminating my future; Dad’s care is like an umbrella, shielding me from wind and rain. One father is better than a hundred teachers
·Dad: for
I have worked hard to give birth to you for most of my life! Today is your holiday, and I want to say to you: Thank you, my dearest and most beloved dad!
·Dad, on this special day, all the blessings are with our love. , squeeze it into your wine glass, and it will be red deep in your heart. Happy Father's Day! ·Dear Dad, I wish you happiness and success every year
·Father’s love can sacrifice everything, including his own life
·Dad! Today is Father’s Day, didn’t you know? I wish my dad good health, a prosperous business, and a "red" stock! Do you want any gifts? But I have to reimburse you!
·Of course just saying "Happy Father's Day" doesn't mean anything, but I wish you all the best on this happy and auspicious day, and all the warmth and affection it contains comes from the depths of my heart
·Dad, today is Father’s Day, happy holiday. Although you are sometimes fierce, I know you love me. ? I wish you happiness and health here!
·Dear Dad, Happy Father's Day, I wish you happiness and success every year
·Dad, on this special day, all the blessings are with our love, squeeze your wine glass Inside, the red is deep, till the bottom of my heart. Dad, I wish you a happy Father’s Day!
·I feel extremely proud every time I think of you. You always inspire me to keep forging ahead. On this special day, I wish you a happy Father’s Day!
·You often give me an understanding look, and you often say that a happy child is a gift. So today, I send you a smile to warm your heart. Dad, I wish you a happy Father’s Day!
·My father gave me a piece of blue sky and fertile soil. My father is always the sun in my life. I wish you a happy Father’s Day!
·Although your eyes are harsh, they are more warm and caring. Thank you. Dad wishes you a happy Father's Day!
·If you are an old tree with vicissitudes of life, then I hope that singing lark will sit on your branches and sing day and night, in exchange for your youth, so that you will always be green. Dad, I love you!
·Maybe in the eyes of others, you are just an ordinary person, but you are upright and honest, which makes me think: you are great and extraordinary
·Dad’s love is like autumn The sun is warm and down-to-earth without being dazzling. My father gave me a piece of blue sky and fertile soil. My father will always have the sun in my life. I wish my father a happy life!
·I will never let go when I stand on the green hills. Father, I am as determined as you and as brave as you. I love you deeply
·A song I have sung since I was a child and never tire of listening to it: Straw Shoes Ship, daddy, sail with me
·Dad, how are you doing recently? As you get older, don’t worry too much. Your children will take care of things on their own. You should take more care of yourself. Today is Father’s Day. I wish you a happy holiday!
·Thousands of miles away, whenever my steps are heavy, I can always think of the power of your eyes and move forward. Dad, Happy Father's Day!
·Dad, frankly speaking, you are sometimes very cunning and sometimes very funny, but I want to say more: I am most proud of your humor! ! Happy Father's Day!
·Dad, you always express your love in the most plain and simple way, but your love is enough for me to last a lifetime. I wish you a happy Father's Day!
·The passage of time will make the skin full of wrinkles day by day. In my heart, you will always be a young father.
·Smoking is harmful to health. For the sake of your health, smoke two less! Happy Father's Day, Dad!
·Dad, Mom, I wish you always good health and happiness every day
·Every time I think of you, I feel extremely proud. You always inspire me to keep forging ahead. I wish you the best on this special holiday. you!
·Dad! Today is Father's Day, didn't you know? I wish Dad good health, a prosperous business, and a "red" stock. Do you want any gifts? However, you have to reimburse me!
·Dad, Father’s Day is here, I have specially prepared a gift for you, but please reimburse me for the expenses first
·A father is better than a hundred teachers
·Your blood flows in my pulse, your mark is deeply imprinted on my character, and your wisdom is inherited in my mind. I will never forget all of this. My dear father, happy holidays!
·Dad, you are my crutch at any time, give me support, give me direction, give me strength, so that I can walk every step of the way in the future, even if you are not by my side, that deep father's love Will still help me forever!
·Dad’s teachings are like a lamp, illuminating my future; Dad’s care is like an umbrella, shielding me from wind and rain
[Edit this paragraph] Learn to be grateful and advocate filial piety< /p>
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Fate is a kind of luck, life is a kind of miracle. Life seems so insignificant in the vast universe, but it is the most precious wealth given to us by our parents. From the moment the child is born, parents look forward to a wonderful life for their child, and are busy and toiled for him. It is a kind of willing dedication, it is a great consciousness, it is a sea of ??kindness formed by thousands of love rivers.
"Poor parents in the world." Who can feel the father's happy touch when the fetus is restless? Who can feel the pain a mother endures during childbirth? When a baby is born, parents are full of excited laughter; when the swaddled baby keeps crying, parents show the most patience; when we babbling and calling out the first "Dad" and "Mom" When we are young, our parents give us countless kisses in return; when we are frustrated or full of grievances, our parents' comfort will promptly heal the wounds in our hearts and give us the courage to stand up again... It can be said that our parents' care brings us Endless happiness and the love of our parents accompany us to grow up healthily. Our parents are the "gods" who protect us throughout our lives.
“Filial piety comes first among all good deeds.” Parents’ selfless love does not expect anything in return, but children must not forget their roots, lose a grateful heart, and lack the willingness and actions to honor their parents. As parents enter middle age and age, they need our help and support. When you bring the eggs you fried for the first time to your parents to taste, they feel that they are very fragrant; when you bring a cup of hot tea to your exhausted parents after returning from get off work, they taste it very sweet. ; when you learn to wash clothes, get up and fold the quilt, and clean the house, your parents will feel that you have grown up... Honoring your parents is a kind of family affection, a kind of love, a kind of virtue, and a key to family harmony and social harmony. Musical note is the moral code that all children in the world should follow.
“Filial piety is the foundation of virtue.” Derived from honoring parents, it is fraternity, which means learning to love others, love the people, love the motherland, and love humanity. Everyone is born in his hometown and grows up in the big family of the motherland. He should drink water and remember his source, repay his kindness, have the love of his family and a pure heart. When he grows up, he should serve his hometown, the motherland and the people. Deduced from filial piety, an upright person should also understand the social responsibilities he shoulders: helping the poor, eradicating evil and promoting good, making the world full of love, making the society full of sincerity, kindness and beauty, and making people live in a warm environment. in a harmonious environment. This is great loyalty and great filial piety, this is filial piety to the world, and this is "the world is for the common good."
Fathers are under a lot of pressure and their families have many concerns
“Father’s love is like a mountain.” What can we do for fathers who are under a mountain of pressure? Father's Day will be here in a few days. With the concern of many readers for father's physical and mental health, the reporter interviewed some doctors and experts and called on everyone to pay attention to father's mental health and use gratitude as a gift to his father.
Young fathers:
Learn to be tolerant and complete the role change
As time goes by, the "little emperors" and "little princesses" born in the 1980s gradually When you reach the age of marriage, you accidentally become the father and mother of your child. From being pampered by thousands of people to having to give without regrets, a psychological gap is bound to appear. Attitude determines everything! Learning tolerance and communication are the most important.
Deputy Chief Physician Zhao Changjiang of Foshan Third People’s Hospital said. He believes that young people born in the 1980s grew up in a good environment created by their parents, and rarely have their needs unmet. Therefore, couples born in the 1980s should learn to think from each other's perspective and consider each other to run the family well.
Zhang Hongqiao, deputy chief physician of the Department of Neurology, Foshan First People's Hospital, believes that most men who are new fathers are in a struggling stage in their careers. At this time, the father was both happy and confused.
Zhang Hongqiao said that due to financial reasons, the young couple had to have close contact with their parents, and often needed help from relatives and friends of the original family, so they were not able to separate well from the original family. The men in the family will constantly switch and adjust among many relationships and roles, and sometimes they will even make themselves exhausted.
In addition, Guan Shujun, executive lecturer of the China International Marriage and Family Association, also reminded new fathers that the responsibility for raising children belongs to the parents, not the grandparents or parents-in-law. Nor can the future of the child be entirely based on their own Design in an ideal way and respect the child's personality development.
Expert tips:
Think in each other’s shoes and understand each other
Young fathers may need to take on a lot of housework, occupying personal space and affecting rest. At this time, the wife should also be more considerate of her husband's mood, reduce accusations and complaints, and jointly complete the bounden duty of caring for the little life.
As a husband, you can take the initiative to care for and love your wife and children, and create a good family atmosphere. If two people put themselves in another person's shoes and suppress their bad emotions, they can get through the role reversal smoothly.
Middle-aged father:
Being under multiple pressures requires more understanding
Zhang Hongqiao believes that as children grow up, the career of a man as a father is at a critical stage. rising stage. Many people will choose to "fight" at this time, investing more energy in their careers and communicating less with their children. This is often blamed by family members.
A father’s responsibility is to maintain the safety and development of the family. Compared with a mother, he will naturally spend less time at home. But this does not mean that his love will be less. Without his work, the family's basic survival may be problematic.
When people reach middle age, their bodies will undergo some changes. As a father, he will naturally notice that the momentum in his body has diminished, and he will become a little conservative and worry more. Learn to accept changes in your body. At the same time, children have entered adolescence, and there are more and more different voices in the family.
"Raising boys is afraid of being a bad learner, and raising girls is afraid of being harmed. Parents are always a bit 'unfounded'." Zhao Changjiang said that no one likes to live under surveillance, and the relationship between parents and children are equal, and parents who respect their children will also become good role models in their children's minds, allowing them to learn to respect others.
A special reminder is that some fathers with bad tempers tend to use sticks and fists to educate their children at this age, but this will only make the children more rebellious. At this time, children already have certain judgment and self-control abilities. Parents need to remind them of the correct direction in life and give more care to their children in life.
Experts’ advice:
Families should be more considerate of fathers’ difficulties
Dads have a heavy responsibility and a lot of pressure in the family. Their pressure is mainly released through the consideration of their family, the consideration of their wives, and the glory of their children's success. They can psychologically be given the warmth of being cared for and cared for, and can also be given the sense of success of being relied upon.
At this time, we must understand the contribution our father has made to the family, and say thank you to our father with gratitude. This will make our father feel more satisfied.
Zhang Hongqiao reminded parents that at this time we must trust our children and ask them to go their own way. Don’t shoulder everything about your children on your own shoulders. Children’s studies, marriage, love, and work must be done within their capabilities. We can provide some help when the situation arises, but the situation cannot develop entirely according to our wishes. If you learn to be your child's friend, it will be easier to understand your child's needs.
Old fathers:
Spiritual loneliness requires the company of their children
According to Zhao Changjiang, retired fathers suffer from the aging of various body organs and changes in social status. , there is a feeling of being disconnected from society, and people will become emotionally sensitive, forming the so-called "retirement syndrome".
Guan Shujun also believes that when his father gets old, his status as the pillar of the family will be eliminated, and psychologically it is easy to feel a lack of self-worth. At this time, children should try their best to spend time with their father, so that his father can relieve himself of the burden of the entire family and transition to a state of peace and happiness.
“At this time, children can pay more attention to their father’s health and warmth, and support them in going out to participate in community activities for the elderly.” Zhao Changjiang said.
Experts’ tips:
Find your own happiness
Older fathers no longer need to worry about the lives of their adult children and should do more things to make themselves happy. For example, attending a college for the elderly can not only lead a collective life like the elderly, but also allow various organs of the body to move and slow down the rate of aging.
[Edit this paragraph]Father's Day date
The third Sunday in June every year is Father's Day
[Edit this paragraph]Father's love quotes< /p>
Father's love is a ray of sunshine that makes your heart feel as warm as spring even in the cold winter; father's love is a clear spring that keeps your emotions pure and clear even if they are covered with the dust of the years.
Father's love is as selfless as mother's love, and he does not ask for anything in return; father's love is an unknown and invisible feeling that can only be understood by those who are attentive.
Having the moment of thought is happiness; having the joy of feeling is happiness; having father's love is also happiness.
A father's love is like an umbrella, protecting you from wind and rain; a father's love is like rain, washing your soul; a father's love is like a road, accompanying you through life.
When we are afraid, father's love is a stepping stone; when it is dark, father's love is a lamp that illuminates; when it is dry, father's love is a gulf of water of life; when we work hard, father's love is the spirit The pillar of support; when success occurs, father's love is encouragement and warning.
Father's love is as deep and broad as the sea.
Father's love is silent. If you feel it, it is not father's love!
Father's love is water——Gorky
The virtue of the father, the inheritance of the son. Zi Yan
Father's Day Special Recommendation Music Album:
Singer: Miscellaneous Collection
Album: Father's Day Special Recommendation
Language: Mandarin
Distribution Company: Fever Disc Recommendations
Song Name
Father's Kindness
Dear Dad
Father and Me
Dad in Ulaanbaatar
Dad’s Straw Shoes
Good Dad Bad Dad
Father-Gong Yue
p>Father-Liu Hegang