In life, if some people expect more from something, the greater the disappointment, the more painful it will be.
If you want to live a more comfortable life, you should lower your expectations.
If people want to live happily, they should lower their expectations of others.
Writer Ma De said: "I gradually understand why I am unhappy, because I always expect a result."
We always expect more from others, but the results are always disappointing, and then we constantly complain that life is not satisfactory.
You can expect something from people, but you must grasp a degree.
Only by lowering our expectations of others can we live happier.
Only by lowering the expectation of the lover can we see his efforts and ignore the shortcomings of the other party, so as to better maintain the intimate relationship between husband and wife.
Only by lowering the expectation of children can we reduce the pressure on children, let them grow up healthily and happily, and make the family more harmonious.
Only by lowering expectations of friends can we have pure friendship, get along more harmoniously and have more intimate friends.
There are no perfect people in this world. We should learn to accept the imperfections of others, so that people can get along more comfortably and happily.
When you get used to lowering your expectations, everything you can see will become beautiful.
Life is not easy, you should know how to be content.
I used to have some illusions about "becoming famous overnight", but in reality, people who can become famous overnight don't rely on luck, but rely on real strength to prove themselves.
Many people don't suddenly become famous, but they become famous through constant efforts and good opportunities.
Everyone wants to succeed, but many people always look down on their eyes, don't want to do small things, and can't do big things. Then how can success come for no reason?
I see many people talking about the development concept, investment and financial management, and market enthusiasm. It sounds very tall, but it's actually an armchair strategist and useless.
In fact, theory is also a theory. It is the most important thing to actually do it. Think about it a thousand times, it is better to do it yourself.
Never expect too much from those illusory things, because the higher the expectation, the greater the disappointment. What's worse, people will be devastated and fall into the abyss of pain.
Learn to lower expectations, start with small things, be down-to-earth, and do every small thing to the extreme, so that you can succeed.
There is a particularly reasonable saying: it is difficult to achieve great things without doing small things.
Many big things are accumulated by small things. How can we do it well if we can't do it well?
I have been writing articles every day recently. Some articles feel good about themselves, but the feedback is average and few people read them.
Some articles are written casually, and there is a feeling of unintentional insertion. They don't deliberate on words and quotations, but they unexpectedly gain a lot of reading and praise.
I don't want to dwell on what went wrong. In short, if I lower my expectations, I won't be disappointed.
I'm happy if someone likes me, no matter how much, as long as someone watches.
Relax your mind, lower your expectations, and don't take the results of the article so seriously. Only in this way can you keep writing with a normal heart.
Writing is a long-term occupation, which requires continuous input and output. Only by accumulating to a certain amount will there be a qualitative leap. Don't be upset by occasional small reading and praise, which will affect your writing mood.
Treat every article with a normal heart, just stick to it, don't have too high expectations, and you can write a good article with a good attitude.
When you treat your writing achievement with humiliation, then I believe you will go further and further on the road of writing.
I have read an impressive sentence: the smartest way to live is to reduce dependence, lower expectations and maintain love.
Don't expect too much from others, because others have no obligation to realize your expectations.
Sometimes when expectations are too high, there will be excessive dependence. Too much dependence is an escape and shirking of one's incompetence.
Only by lowering expectations can we make ourselves stronger.
Just like when it rains, no matter how big the eaves of others are, they can't shelter you from the wind and rain forever. With an umbrella in your hand, you can move forward rain or shine.
When you lower your expectations and try to make yourself better, you will live more freely.
Peace of mind is the best state of life.