1, everything should be treated calmly and rationally, and don't get too excited;
2. Put yourself in the right position, because you are a third party. Although you are often treated well, don't treat it as an original match.
3. If mistress only wants you to satisfy your own economic desires, then don't destroy other people's families, especially those with children, because you simply can't be the stepmother of others;
4. If you know the original match, please keep a harmonious relationship with the original match, and don't be intimate;
5, don't make any comments on the original match, it is also a good word, even if she is really rubbish, remember that it is not a gentleman to speak ill of others behind their backs;
6. Don't ask about his family affairs, and don't ask anything that has nothing to do with you. If you listen more and think more, you will lose if you talk more.
7. If he decides to divorce, be sure to dissuade him and list one or two reasons, especially if you don't want to have a long-term relationship with him.
8. If it is possible for three people to appear in one occasion at the same time, avoid the intimacy between you and him, forbid flirting, and be calm when you see his intimacy with the original match, because you are a third party and have no right to speak;
9. Remember that you are definitely not the root cause of their breakup. Although you accelerated their breakup, don't think of yourself as a sinner through the ages. Even without you, there will be a small four and a small five.
10, if he really enters the room smoothly, treat his children well and don't interfere too much, otherwise the result will be the same as the original one;