The last choice a person cannot make by himself is his own birth. You can't blame the sky or the earth for this, let alone your own parents. Since you can't change your birth, why can't you use your own efforts to change a family that you think is bad? The ancients said it well: If you want to be rich, the son must strengthen the father. People who blame their own family for bad things have an inaction mentality at work. I can blame this reason for everything that fails me. Such people often lose the direction of progress, only complain about everything and worry about others all day long, and thus lose their ambition. If he has this kind of mentality, even if he has a good and wealthy family, he will still find other reasons to blame the family. Such cases are not uncommon.