Mom and Dad, I want to say to you... (Independence, Speech)
Date: Tuesday, November 15, 2005 Weather and Mood
Dad Mom, I want to say to you...
2 independent chapters 2
Mom, please let me "fly"
Mom, please open the cage and let me fly Let me fly!
That day, I made an appointment with my good friend to play football together. But when I hugged the football and went downstairs excitedly, I heard you yelling: "Dong Jiaming! Stop, where are you going?" "Go play football with your classmates." I replied. My mother refused: "No, you have to cross four or five roads to go to school. What if you get hit by a car? What if you are caught by the bad guys and have your hands chopped off..." Alas! It’s time for my ears to get calluses again! Football, rest!
Actually, I really wanted to go to school by myself, but I was afraid that you would bring out those "antique" words again, so I came up with a clever plan. I said to you hypocritically: "Let me carry the schoolbag." After I took the lunch box and schoolbag, I begged you: "From today on, can you let me go to school alone?" Mom actually moved out. It’s an old saying, but I’ve already “greased the soles of my feet” and escaped, haha!
Mom, I want to say to you, no, I want to say to parents all over the world: "Let go and let us walk on the road of life by ourselves. If we fall, we are not afraid. I will definitely get up by myself!”
Give me a chance to talk
That night, we had dinner at my grandma’s house. I heard my parents talking about a topic that I was also interested in. I just wanted to speak, but my mother scolded: "Kid, don't interrupt!" Dad also echoed: "Kid, what do you know?" I felt aggrieved. It was so bad that I could only lower my head and shovel the rice into my mouth.
Mom and Dad, I really want to say to you: Please give me some opportunities to speak. Because I am already a fourth grade student, I also have my own opinions on some things and some people, and I want to express my own opinions on some things at home. If what I said is wrong, you can point it out to me, just don't deprive me of my right to speak. Okay?
I don’t want to be a lazy princess
"Prime Minister, I want to eat ice cream, potato chips, Coke, and, by the way, Sprite!" "Yes, I will be there soon, my little princess !" Dad always likes to joke with me like this. Mom, you love me even more. Nonetheless, I still want to talk about your shortcomings. For example, my father didn't let me do anything, so I slowly turned into a lazy "princess".
One day at noon, I saw my father mopping the floor, and then I remembered that the teacher said that I should help my parents do one thing every day. This lazy "princess" like me has not "showed off my talents" for a long time. Today, let me work hard for a while! So, I helped my father mop the floor.
Dad said distressedly: "My princess, why did you do this?" "Dad, I haven't worked for a long time, just let me do it once!" "No!" Look! An opportunity to work was ruined again! Dad, I will be a fifth grade student soon. You should let me take care of myself. I don't want to be a lazy girl.
Let me have a little secret
Mom and Dad, you treat me very well, but you also have shortcomings. For example, Dad, you are a "workaholic" and you will get upset if you don't go to the construction site for a day. Mom, you are a math teacher and an excellent team counselor, so you should understand the child's psychology - let me have my own little secret, okay?
I remember that during the winter vacation, I made a pen pal from Yunnan. In the past, because I didn’t know how to write letters, I asked you for advice and let you read my letters. Now that you know how to write a letter, please stop reading my letters. Because there are some secret things I want to say to my pen pal. That is a secret between us children and should not be seen by adults.
Dad, you are a "workaholic" who always stays busy until late at night. Please balance work and rest! Don't forget to take stomach medicine because you are too busy at work.
2 Reflections 2
My "Thermos Bottle" Dad
People say that daughters and dads are the closest, but I don't think so. Growing up, I almost never acted coquettishly towards my father, and our relationship was never particularly close.
When I was a child, whenever my father came home, I would run away quickly, probably because I was afraid that he would teach me a lesson with his fists! After my parents divorced, I stayed with my father. To be honest, the fear of him at that time had begun to turn into hatred - I hated him, hated him for separating me from my dearest mother, and hated his cold face.
Dad has always been very strict with me, and he often lectures me with a straight face as soon as I get home. While I was crying, I was thinking: Was his feelings for me buried together with their marriage? He probably doesn't love me anymore. Our relationship had always been tense, until that time.
That day, I failed the math test. All day long I imagined how his face would turn "green" once he found out, and how tragic my end would be. Thinking of this, I chose to cheat and lied to my father that I had not passed the exam. Unexpectedly, my father found the exam paper. He yelled at me: "Didn't you say you failed the exam? You have learned to lie, ah!" He raised his hand as if he wanted to hit me. I was shaking all over and tears were streaming down my face. Dad's hand slowly dropped and he sighed: "Why did you lie to me?" The tone was extremely sad. This was the first time I'd seen him so vulnerable. "You kid, why are you so ignorant! Who is dad working so hard for?" I was shocked, he actually valued me so much! I cried harder and harder. At this time, he gently wiped away the tears on my face with a towel, "Okay, don't cry!" Dad's voice was soft, with a little tiredness. His love for me was felt strongly for the first time.
I finally understood that my father actually loved me, even though he didn’t want to express it. Dad, I want to say to you: Although you never express your love, I will hide this love deep in my heart forever!
12-year-old vow
As time goes by, what cannot be forgotten is the eternal family love.
I want to say to my parents: At the age of 12, I want to learn to care about others and sow the seeds of love. Mom, you have a bad heart. I am usually naughty and willful, which makes you angry. Dad, your blood fat is too high. In the future, you should try to drink less, smoke less, and eat more fruits and vegetables. Although every time I give you fruits, , you always smile and say: "I don't like to eat." But I understand that it is because you want me to eat more. In your heart, there is a deep and silent love for me.
I want to say to my parents: At the age of 12, I should learn to independently judge right from wrong and distinguish between beauty and ugliness. Mom, my daughter has grown up and is sensible. She will face challenges bravely, cherish the good life she has now, and graduate from primary school next year and enter an ideal middle school. Dad, you often say: "As long as you try your best, the result is not important. Your parents will not force you." Thank you for your understanding and tolerance, but I also silently tell myself that I must succeed. I think I can only repay your kindness in raising me by studying hard.
I also want to say to my parents: At the age of 12, I have to learn to take responsibility and learn to face myself. Maybe, some children will forget their parents’ birthdays, but I remember them because I love you deeply!
Thank you for your love
I remember a poet once said: "Even if I face the king, I will not treat him differently. Only my parents can have deep respect." . ”
Mom and Dad, I want to say to you, it is you who gave me life; it was you who nurtured me with your sweet milk; it was you who helped me learn to walk; it was you who taught me how to be a human being. . Whenever I am hit by the storms of life, you and dad are always waiting for me to return home at the harbor.
Mom and Dad, I want to tell you that now that I have grown up and am slowly learning how to face difficulties independently, please let go of your hands and let me spread my wings and soar in the journey of life!
Let all the gratitude and respect be combined into one sentence - "Thank you for your love!"