First, the golden sentence to save your girlfriend is 1. Don't worry. Don't sigh. Yes, I sent you a message. Let's make up, whether it's a mistake or a misunderstanding. I hope we can still be together! 2. Don't say those unhappy words just because you have been together for a short time, whether you want to separate or not. Friend, as long as you are happy, don't worry about anything else. Say take care and let's remember each other. 3. How many times can I go back to meet you? This is a 500-year wish. How many times have I begged you? It's hard for us to break up so soon. No matter life or death, we must be together! 4. Stay together even if you break up. Even if I only see one side, I don't care about love. Even then, what can we do? What do you think of just being good friends? Don't go! We will be together forever! When you leave with all my love, you say goodbye. I looked at your back and couldn't hold back my tears. I really want to hug you for the last time. Can you say "I love you" again? Don't leave me. Let's stay together! 6. I vaguely remember that when I was with you, I told you that I would protect you for a lifetime, accompany you for a lifetime, and give you everything I have. Now I want to continue to pay for you and give you everything I have, but there is no chance. You will never accept my kindness again and leave me alone. 7. I really dreamed of you countless times, dreaming that we still held hands and hugged and went shopping for dinner as before. Every time I wake up from my dream, I think we are still the same, but it took me a while to react. It turns out that you have broken up with me, and all this is just my romantic dream. 8. Sometimes I think you are so vague in my mind, but sometimes I think you are so clear. Am I too afraid to forget your face? I want to see you again, talk to you from top to bottom, from night to day. 9. It used to be difficult for the sea to be water, except Wushan is not a cloud. I have an unforgettable relationship in my life. I once had the most touching woman in the world. I once had a perfect life that only envied Yuanyang but not immortals. But I don't have the satisfaction of a wise man and a saint. I lost everything because of my vanity. I am sorry for you, and I am more sorry for myself. Second, the most powerful way to save your girlfriend 1, don't mention saving or talking about feelings. After breaking up with you, a woman had a very serious negative emotion towards you. If you only mention saving, save and save. Or always talk about your emotional topic, she will be very resistant to chatting with you. I hate contact with you. What you have to do now is to let your sister feel your positive attitude and let her feel that you don't care. Reduce your sister's resistance to you. 2. Get along with girl friends. Many times, my sister breaks up with you, and she will say, let's be friends. In fact, if a girl says this to you when we break up, she is giving you a chance. There are many brothers who think, fuck, let's be friends and let me die. How can I be friends with the woman I love? If you don't lower her blood pressure in this way, take a step back and make progress. It will only waste the opportunity she gave you. 3. Be consistent with girls' emotions. After a girl breaks up with you, no matter what she says about you, you should be consistent with her emotions. When she says goodbye, you say goodbye. She said goodbye, and you said goodbye. Everything changes with her mood. 4. When freezing disconnection is adopted in this way, there is a premise that this girl won't answer your phone, and all of them are blacked out and have nothing to do with you. This situation shows that this girl is very negative to you now, and she doesn't want to see you at all, so you should freeze and disconnect now, which has nothing to do with this girl. Disappear from her world. It is estimated that some brothers will not be calm when they see this. If I really break up with her, then I'm hopeless. What can I save? But brothers, if you don't do this, continue to pester her and beg her, which will only make her dislike you more and more. After a long time, my sister has no contact with you, and the chance of recovery is zero. The purpose of letting you freeze off is also to have a chance to re-enter her life in the future. Time will also help you dilute her negative feelings and inherent impressions of you. Some brothers and sisters may still meet every day after breaking up and get along like friends, so it is impossible to be completely frozen. If you have such a brother, you really need to calm down and get along with her as a friend. You can also get together with mutual friends and have a meal or something. But remember, you can't treat her like before. Accept your need and don't get too close. It is important for her to see your changes, your small changes, and the same purpose is to dilute her negative feelings about you. And don't keep saying "redemption". 5. What should I do during the freezing disconnection? You're talking about redemption now. If you are exactly the same as when you were with your sister before, how did this woman come back to you? You said that saving and changing yourself is more important than anything else. Therefore, during this time, you should take action around the word "change". You need to think carefully during this time. Why did you break up? Where do your reasons appear? I have a brother because I was very interested in a girl when I was chasing her. After catching up with her, I was busy at work, so I didn't care about my sister, and there was no consistency that led to the breakup. There are other brothers who are also boring people because their lives are too dull and boring. Sister met other men who are more fun, interesting and understand the mood than you, and said goodbye to you. Some brothers are always unprincipled because of their low emotional intelligence. There is no bottom line for them to be kind to their sisters. In a long-term relationship, there is no man's framework, which leads to being trampled on by their sisters at last. I feel that you are not challenging and say goodbye to you. Wait, wait, whatever the reason, you need to sum it up yourself. In addition, during this time, you should actively manage your own life and create a sense of freshness and mystery, so as to give her a strong gap when you meet a girl. The best way to save the situation is for this girl to see you and find that you are really different from before. There are many girls around you who are better than her. At this time, you are attracting her again, and it is very easy to develop with her. Let me add here. If you keep in touch frequently after separation, it will be difficult for her to see your change. This is also the purpose of completely disconnecting you. 6. Mentality is an extremely important point in recovery. Many brothers came to me and said, "Teacher, what am I doing now?" ? Teacher, let me send her a message. Teacher, I made an album of our previous photos. Let me give it to her. Teacher, I saw her today. Please tell me what I should do next. "If you come to me with such a desire and demand. The mentality is extremely unstable and you can't break contact. When you encounter some setbacks, you should give up easily. So such brothers, please don't come to me to save them. Love is like ceramics. At first you two just cracked a small crack, and finally you broke it into pieces. How can I make you do one thing and repair love instantly? If you don't have the ability to execute, don't want to improve yourself, and don't want to change yourself, then your recovery will be more difficult. Third, how to shake my girlfriend's heart 1, and pull away appropriately instead of being overbearing. When the negative emotions of the other party have not subsided, the more you say, the more mistakes you make. But you can hold each other steady first, otherwise she may really cut off all contact with you. Girls are as heartless as men, and of course their disappointment with you has reached the threshold. Therefore, in the case of self-recovery, you are still stalking, including frequent phone calls and news bombings, and even going to other people's homes and units to chase and intercept, which will only increase your boredom and make your ex-girlfriend think you are horrible. I have a strong desire for control, and if I behave like this after breaking up, the consequences can be imagined. After all, strong desire for control = strong sense of demand! You can bully the president when you pursue it, but it is not the time to "force you to submit" after breaking up! Because this is a disguised form of emotional persecution, think about it from another angle. If you switch roles with your girlfriend and she forces you to get back together in disguise, will you be annoyed and not angry when you see her? Therefore, temporary withdrawal will leave you room, and also keep each other's impressions at one level, which will not deteriorate. People who break up are also sad. You all have emotional foundation and shared happy memories. Give her time and remember your past. At the same time, it means that now you and her have entered a frozen period. What needs to be done? Many people read too many posts and think that the freezing period is to cut off all contact. I don't know, only when two people calm down can you have the opportunity to look at yourself objectively and think about what is wrong with your relationship. As the subject said, it may not be complete. Maybe it's a reason given by a girl to break up. You can try to remember it again, which will also help to prescribe the right medicine. 2. Change is very important, but it cannot be a mere formality. The attitude and importance of others to you depends entirely on the level of self-worth. The more you cherish, the more your value has reached a certain "high" standard, at least in the eyes of the other party. What I want to emphasize is the role of gender attraction, which is the most important link in gender relations. If the other party proposes to break up, you may unconsciously fall into a strange circle of questioning yourself, and then you can't control your emotions, thinking that contacting each other more and apologizing to each other unprincipled can improve the relationship, but in fact, it will expose your negative energy. Therefore, it is the most important thing to improve your value indefinitely in a limited time. You can't just change it. If you get promoted just to save each other, then in the end you just go to the gym superficially and keep busy. This is just a form of kneeling. You can learn a special hobby, transform your appearance, reshape the way and style of life, and travel with friends to make your state different. This is actually your investment in yourself. Only by being kind to yourself can we accept others. If you don't even care about yourself and don't want to invest, how can you become better? Many boys feel at a loss at this step. They are all very ordinary people, doing ordinary jobs, and they usually have nothing to like. If playing games is a hobby, there may be another reason to break up. You have to give the other person hope and see that there is a future with you, then she will let her guard down and contact you again. It is a fact that one person is attracted to another person, in fact, it is attracted by the survival and reproduction value of the other person, which is based on evolutionary psychology. Many people contact each other in a low-key way without changing anything, which makes no sense. Expert analysis: Many men will be impulsive and reckless when they just break up with their loved ones. The consequences of doing so are often incalculable. Many people say that I have done almost everything I can. Why can't I shake her heart? Is it because I can't go back and she won't look back? Is it really irreversible? No, there is a solution to everything. The so-called right medicine is truth. Do the best thing, say the strongest words, and get her back with one blow. Save your girlfriend's strength 2 1. Make yourself confident. When saving your girlfriend, don't always revolve around your girlfriend. If everything revolves around your girlfriend, she will think you are a person with no confidence. Therefore, in the process of saving your girlfriend, you should not only keep your distance, but also build yourself with confidence. Whatever the reason for breaking up with your girlfriend, remember that if you are not good enough, the other person may leave. If you are good enough, the other party will be reluctant to leave you. Make yourself a better person. 2, don't press hard, let your girlfriend relax. Every couple should have an argument. Some people break up because of quarrels. In life, in fact, no matter after breaking up or after the Cold War, every couple will have a period of incompatibility. At this moment, loneliness and sadness will always haunt you. After breaking up, people are generally very unhappy. However, if you want to save your girlfriend, in fact, whether you have the possibility of saving yourself or not, you should devote yourself to improving yourself before meeting your girlfriend, and don't feel sorry for yourself. You should adapt yourself to the lonely life, and don't let your girlfriend feel that you are a soulless person without her. You should give your partner a breathing space, let your girlfriend have a relaxing space, and don't disturb her too much.