Ming Lan just understands this, so she is very open-minded. Although she has been made difficult by Xiao Qin and others in her family, Ming Lan never asks others for help, but always relies on herself. Ming Lan once said a word, telling the true meaning of marriage, let's have a look!
1. Wei Xiaoniang's death
As we all know, ancient women had no status, and men were the masters of society. Women exist for a family to carry on the family line. Few women can read and write with men. After a woman marries her in-laws, she begins to give her life until she dies.
Wei Xiaoniang in the play is a living example. She comes from a bad family. She has never been treated as a concubine since she married into a prosperous family. Instead, she was tortured. Wei Xiaoniang only gave birth to two children for the Sheng family after she married into the Sheng family. After her mother died, Ming Lan also realized that women should take control of their own happiness and have the ability. Otherwise, her life will only be like her own mother.
2. Lin Xiaoniang's death
Although Ming Lan contributed to Lin Xiaoniang's death, Yi Sheng was also responsible. Although Yi Sheng has always spoiled Lin Xiaoniang, he is also true to Lin Xiaoniang. But when Lin Xiaoniang made a mistake, Yi Sheng only dealt with her, but did not think of the past. At the same time, Lin Xiaoniang's death also made the big lady understand that women are not favored again.
Ming Lan naturally understood that Yi Sheng used to love Lin Xiaoniang more. Because of this, Lin Xiaoniang cried in front of Yi Sheng when she was embarrassed, so she had no ability at all, so Lin Xiaoniang's death had a great influence on Ming Lan.
3. Ming Lan's consideration
I had my own mother before, and then I had Lin Xiaoniang. From their death, Ming Lan knew that a woman can't rely on others when she is alive. Although her husband is her own backer, Ming Lan has long understood the truth that when the backer falls, everyone falls. Wei Xiaoniang did not rely on her husband, but she was incapable, while Lin Xiaoniang relied on her husband and was incapable. At the critical moment, she can only cry by herself.
Ming Lan won't make the same mistake again, so after marriage, Ming Lan said: No one is who's backer. It's best not to expect too much of others in everything. Everyone has his own difficulties, and we really have to expect too much. The more we expect, the more inevitably we will be disappointed. If we are disappointed, we will have resentment, and hatred will begin our life. This day will be very sad. Therefore, no matter how difficult it is, Minglan will not easily ask others.
But it is precisely because Ming Lan does everything himself that Gu slowly feels that he is really doing things too neatly, and also makes Gu feel that he can't help. This makes Gu, who wants to spoil his wife, very upset and doesn't give him a chance to show it.
However, women like Ming Lan are the most successful women. After all, a woman should have the ability not to let things depend on others. Although the husband is willing to pay for his wife, he will get tired after a long time. Ming Lan is the person who sees marriage most thoroughly. Women really should study!