Although Liu Bang was born as a poor peasant, he had constant lovers and affairs all his life. He embraced all the young and old in his arms, and summed up four periods of love-hate history.
the first love: the secret love. Although Liu Bang married late, it doesn't mean that he has no women outside. According to historical records, Liu Bang had an affair with Cao Shi, a widow who opened a pub in her hometown. As a widow, what you need is protection, care and care. It happened that Liu Bang was a bachelor, and he was in his prime, which could meet her physiological needs and care needs.
the second love: the love between husband and wife. When Liu Bang, a poor wanderer, met Lv Zhi, a leftover woman in bud, the warm nest of love was opened. Although this love affair was done by Lv Gong, it should be said that Lu Jia helped Liu Bang a lot. Before Liu Bang made his fortune, Lu Jia supported Liu Bang, and Lv Zhi was in good order. After Liu Bang revolted, Lu Jia still supported him, which was the key to his transformation from a mermaid.
the third situation: extramarital affairs. Liu bang is very popular with women. Before marriage, he hooked up with a woman named Cao, and after marriage, he had the same luck. During the period of competing with Xiang Yu for Jiangshan, he always lost in the early stage, but he gained a young and beautiful woman, Mrs. Qi, who later influenced the harem. There are many women around Liu Bang, but his love for Mrs. Qi is supreme, which is a good proof that he wants to change Liu Heng, who was born to Mrs. Qi, into a prince in the future.
the fourth love affair: one-night stand. In the fourth year of Emperor Gaozu, Liu Bang came to Chenggao Lingtai, Henan Province. At this time, it was Guan Furen and Zhao Zier who accompanied him. The two women remembered the oath of being a good sister Bo Ji and recommended this peerless beauty to Liu Bang. And Liu Bang overheard a little bit of conversation, and out of curiosity, she called Bo Ji to serve her. One night's love affair and one day's charity, Bo Ji's belly was as disappointing as Mrs. Qi's, and she gave birth to a chubby son for Liu Bangsheng.
The above are just a few examples to prove that no matter whether Liu Bang is rich or poor, there are many beautiful women around him.
"Men conquer women by conquering the world, and women conquer the world by conquering men" is an ancient saying. The reason why Liu Bang can conquer the beauty in the world shows that his emotional intelligence is very high, which is mainly reflected in the following three aspects.
first, I am willing to spend money on women.
It is often said that a man who is willing to spend money on a woman may not necessarily love this woman, but a man who loves this woman will definitely be willing to spend money on her. Women don't just love men's money, but money is often an intuitive expression for women to measure whether this man loves her or not. No woman will like a man who only talks empty. Give up, give up, and you will get it. There is no free lunch in the world, and there will be no pie in the sky.
second, I can speak sweet words.
Women are auditory animals, so they all like to listen to sweet words.
Third, they know how to pester and beat.
There is such a famous love saying: Love and marriage are about who is shameless.
Liu Bang's emotional intelligence is so high, it is reasonable for him to have a lot of beauties in troubled times.