Some people say that advantages are advantages and disadvantages are disadvantages. The two cannot be confused. However, I think it is not that the two cannot be confused, but it is better to confuse the two. I believe there will be a lot of gains from a Zheng Banqiao-style "rare confusion".

I believe everyone is familiar with the story of the tortoise and the hare. Traditionally, the tortoise and the hare are very different in strength and have obvious advantages and disadvantages. However, the result is not in line with the thinking logic of ordinary people. On the contrary, it is not difficult to see the reason. Mentality plays a key role in this process, and disadvantages become advantages. The hare has all the advantages and victory is within reach. The tortoise was originally unable to catch up. However, just as the hare was narcissistic and relaxed during the race, the tortoise clearly understood its obvious disadvantages, corrected its mentality, and was neither humble nor arrogant. In the end, it was its disadvantage that allowed it to win the race. If the tortoise is strong and has obvious advantages, or at least is as good as the rabbit, the result may be self-righteous and give up the victory. From this point of view, the disadvantage is the advantage, it is true

Needless to say , no one will take the initiative to like disadvantages, because disadvantages mean that everything does not go well, and you have to work hard and go through a lot of hardships to achieve success. Disadvantages are advantages. The attraction of advantages is undoubted. It can make you more It is easy to succeed, but you cannot experience the unforgettable scenery on the road to success. However, you cannot always be successful and have an advantage everywhere, so when facing a disadvantage, your mentality is an important bargaining chip for success. But the obvious advantages will blind your eyes, deceive your mind, and create a natural sense of superiority. At this time, your advantages are the biggest obstacle to your success, and even the direct cause of failure.

On the contrary, disadvantages can make you more aware of your current position. "It's important for people to be self-aware." You are your biggest enemy. If you can eliminate your own psychological enemies and adjust your mentality, the disadvantages are actually just imaginary drawbacks. Disadvantages are not terrible at all, what is terrible is your own psychology. Have a normal mind and maintain a calm attitude. Disadvantages are advantages. "Since ancient times, heroes have suffered many hardships, and dandies have rarely been great men." Disadvantages can train people and temper their will, and suffering is a precious asset. On the surface, this seems to be your disadvantage. You have experienced more pain than others, but maybe It is precisely this experience that gives you the conditions for greater success. This disadvantage is your own advantage. And as long as you have a strong will, you will be able to cope with good times and bad times. You will not complain about others, but only think about how to overcome these difficulties and how to turn temporary disadvantages into advantages.

However, it is not easy to accept it psychologically, let alone maintain a relaxed attitude in practice. Even when you are at a disadvantage but others continue to enjoy it, your psychology will Jealousy and imbalance will arise, but "it is better to retreat and build a net than to envy a fish in the abyss." If you are always pessimistic and self-destructive, then even the gods will not be able to save you. Therefore, from this perspective, in order to truly realize that a disadvantage is an advantage, certain conditions must be met, that is, you yourself are a motivated person, otherwise everything is out of the question.

In fact, on the road to success, there are no so-called advantages and disadvantages. If you grasp your own conditions and opportunities, disadvantages are advantages. If you let opportunities slip away in vain, your advantages will turn into disadvantages, even worse than disadvantages. If you transform your own shortcomings into unique advantages that are difficult for others to defeat, success will not be far away. The reason why some people fail is because they are too stuck on their own disadvantages, instead of trying every means to take advantage of the situation and turn their disadvantages into their own advantages. They worry about their shortcomings all day long and allow opportunities to slip away. There can only be one result like this, and that is failure, and failure again. It is not easy to take advantage of the situation, go with the trend, take advantage of the strength, and make the best use of the situation. You must have agile thinking, turn disadvantages into advantages, and change passiveness into initiative, so that you can move things in the direction of your ideal development and ultimately victory.

Therefore, having an advantage does not necessarily lead to victory, and facing a disadvantage does not necessarily mean failure. A disadvantage is still an advantage. The key lies in one's own mentality and attitude towards doing things. If the mentality is adjusted well, the disadvantage is also an advantage, that is, success