Be a person in advance
Sentiment Selection 1:
Be a person in advance
Seeing in the publicity column of an enterprise "When others give you help, you must thank them and look them in the eye to show your sincerity. When you bring inconvenience to others, you must apologize in time to avoid leaving a bad impression. When you don't know a person well enough, don't jump to conclusions easily. Hearing is empty, seeing is believing, and sometimes eyes can deceive us. " These three sentences touched me deeply and made me think of the truth of being a man in advance.
establish a career first, and be a man in advance. Everything starts with being a man. Throughout the ages, people have been asked to be human-oriented. "University" said: "From the Emperor to Shu Ren, one is based on self-cultivation"; Confucianism takes "self-cultivation, keeping the family in order, governing the country and leveling the world" as the basic norm for cultivating talents; Sima Guang wrote in Zi Zhi Tong Jian that "talent, virtue and capital, virtue and talent are handsome"; Tao Xingzhi, a people's educator, said: "Teach thousands of religions, teach people to seek truth" and "Learn thousands of things, learn to be a real person"; Chairman Mao said: To be a "noble person, a pure person, a moral person, a person who is free from low tastes and beneficial to the people". All these talk about the importance of being a man.
In history, all those who have achieved great things have taken Lide as the first priority. Qu Yuan "has a long way to go, and I will go up and down", and Li Sao is the first romantic literature. Sima Qian wrote Historical Records in a straightforward way, which became the swan song of historians. Zhou Enlai "studied for the rise of China" eventually became a good prime minister of the people ...
Sima Guang said: "A gentleman thinks that talent is good, but a villain thinks that talent is evil". Those who think that they are evil have Zhao Gao and Qin Gui in ancient times, but now there are Liu Qingshan, Zhang Zishan and Lai Changxing.
This shows that a person should abide by the principle of self. A man should have a correct belief in life and a persistent pursuit of life. He should conform to the historical trend and not follow the tide. Tao Yuanming didn't bend his back for five bushels of rice, Zhu Ziqing would rather starve to death than eat American flour, and Lu Xun "looked down at a thousand fingers and bowed his head as a willing ox". Being a man should be honed in practice. As we grow up in a peaceful environment, we need to exercise ourselves in practice. Those who are unwilling to endure hardships and struggle hard can't achieve great things, nor can they become indomitable talents.
respect others and be tolerant of others. We often say: "forgive others and forgive others." In fact, tolerance is the embodiment of a person's insight, mind and personality strength. There is a saying: "All rivers run into the sea, and tolerance is great". The real strong man is that he can make people sincerely support and can't help but love him. His power is not in anger, and his strength is not in roar. If you look at the dissatisfaction of the leaders and colleagues, and look at the world with cold eyes, you can only make yourself miserable. We cannot change the world, but we can change ourselves. To some extent, respecting others means respecting yourself. Appreciate others and be good at discovering their strengths. For example, children appreciate his innocence, young people appreciate his bodybuilding and vigor, middle-aged people appreciate his maturity and openness, and old people appreciate his vicissitudes and meticulousness. Smart people appreciate his wisdom, wooden people appreciate his duty, elegant people appreciate his temperament, unconventional people appreciate his free and easy, rude people appreciate his generosity, and steady people appreciate his calmness and atmosphere.
We are grateful for a family relationship with our relatives, cherish a friendship with our brothers and sisters, rejoice in the prime of life when we meet our classmates, surprise our colleagues with a * * * fate, be lucky to meet a friend, and defeat our opponents. We regard it as a storm on our way forward. Without the storm, how can we have a rainbow? This requires us to adjust our mentality and look at things from the sunny side. There is depth in knowledge, but there is no distinction between high and low in life. Educator Zhu Xi said: "Small is small, big is big, and there is no abandonment of people." No matter what you do, you can become a noble person.
Entrepreneurs, businessmen, politicians and ordinary people all love to quote this sentence when they are faced with different situations. It reflects the practice and thinking of all levels of society on how to be a man, how to be a good person, and the pursuit of kindness.
bill? Gates once said: "I rank character first in all human qualities, surpassing wisdom, innovation, emotional intelligence, * * * and so on. I think that if a person's character has problems, this person is not worthy of a company to consider hiring him."
Honest people can keep their promises, respect each other and help each other, thus making their career bigger and stronger. Therefore, no matter what happens, you must remember the essence of being a man: kindness and integrity, and insisting on character first. (Han Lingsha)
In 186, as the presidential candidate of the United States and the Party, Lincoln participated in the presidential election. He gives a lecture tour all by himself, promoting himself-he can't afford to hire anyone to serve him. Douglas, Lincoln's biggest rival, the Democratic candidate, is a rich man, with a special train and a band, who is making a grand tour in the United States. The train is also equipped with a salute. Everywhere, 32 salutes are fired and speeches are made to show off people's distinguished aristocratic origins and solid economic foundation.
When someone asked about Lincoln's family during his speech, Lincoln said seriously, "I have a good wife and three clever children who are priceless to me. In addition, I also rent an office with a desk, three chairs, a bookcase in the corner and books wrapped in bookcases, each of which is worth reading. This is my general situation. I really have nothing to rely on. The only thing I can rely on is you. "
Lincoln's heartfelt speech deeply touched the audience and won the hearts of thousands of Americans. He finally defeated Douglas with deep pockets and became the first civilian president in American history.
This story tells us that only the inner beauty can be reliable and lasting, and it is worthy of our pursuit and respect. Although the external appearance, figure, style, power and property are also attractive, the internal moral character, knowledge, talent, sincerity and self-confidence are even more attractive.
There is a question circulating in the workplace–how much is ten minus one? There were three people in the interview, and the other two were graduate students. I saw that the first one quickly said confidently, "You can equal as many as you want." The second person gushed: "Ten minus one equals eight, which is consumption; Equal to 12, that is management; Equal to 15, that is finance; Equal to 1, that is the winning prize. " Looking at them with high spirits, the job seeker's mind was blank, and finally he had to answer sadly: "Ten minus one equals nine". And prepared for losing the election. But the boss announced that he was admitted on the spot. When asked about the reason, it was his honesty, which was surprisingly simple.
In today's society, the principle of employing people in enterprises tends to put personality first. He Boquan, president of Guangdong Jinri Group, said: "The principle of employing people is to have both ability and political integrity, and to put morality first. For example, morality is like the direction of a train, the track, and talent is like horsepower. If the direction track is biased, the greater the horsepower, the greater the harm. "
actually, being a man and doing things are inseparable. Being a man is reflected in the process of doing things, and the purpose of doing things is to make people do more valuable. The two are mutual conditions and preconditions. The focus of this sentence is "being a man" and its carrier is "doing things". If the carrier is removed, people can only walk, what is the difference with vegetarians? I'm afraid I can't do anything good if I don't understand the basic principles of being a man.
under normal circumstances, there are two kinds of people who are very worthy of sympathy. First, being said to be "a good man, but with no potential"; The second is "having potential, but being too bad". The former, who works with heart and treats others sincerely, is limited to lack of knowledge, weak understanding, weak execution, inefficiency and low success rate, and often gets things wrong; The latter, smart and capable, has the ability to do things, and there is no lack of courage, but it is too subjective and doesn't care much about others' feelings. Sometimes it infringes on others' interests with selfishness and makes enemies by doing things. The former, others understand the sincerity of doing things, but the result of things denies being human and pitiful; The latter, on the other hand, rises to the principle of social life, directly denying the feeling of being a man and not taking care of things. It's even more pitiful to do something thankless.
both kinds of people are failures, and the key is that they don't properly handle the relationship between being a man and doing things. It is distressing that everyone knows this truth, but it is not handled satisfactorily.
This distress is accompanied by the whole process of the development of human society, which is the distress of today's people and the thinking of the ancients. More than 2, years ago, when Confucius was wandering in Wan Li in winter snow and the Central Plains in the sky with wind and dance, it was this problem that he discussed most with his students. Confucius put forward three criteria for doing things for people: to be virtuous, to make meritorious deeds, and to make a point. The first-class "virtue" is to set an example of moral education in the process of doing things; The second-class "meritorious service" is to achieve the cause and seek benefits for the public; The second-class "statement" is to explore and establish the norms of doing things. In this "three-stand" life, Confucius added one of the most important elements in the inspection process of being a man and doing things: that is, the third party-other people who are related to your life and doing things. See if you inspire him with morality, bring him benefits, and give him guidance and warnings on code of conduct. This indicates an important principle of being a man and doing things, the principle of "altruism". (True Friends)
On the basis of this principle, Confucius put forward the five words "Gong, Kuan, Xin, Min and Hui". Respect for people will not be disrespected by others, tolerance for people will be supported by others, credibility for people will be trusted by others, dedication to people will be achieved with the help of others, and others will be able to mobilize their human resources to achieve the same career. Another principle has been added, the principle of selflessness.
Our distress stems from our indifference to history. In the requirement of "being a man first, then doing things", there should be principles as the soul. Confucius has already told his students in that snowstorm. If, from now on, all of us are willing to understand that distant guide from two thousand years ago, and add the principles of "selflessness" and "altruism" in the process of dealing with the relationship between being a man and doing things, we will be selfless in being a man and altruistic in doing things, and people and things will be integrated, and there will be more and more capable good people.
As young comrades in enterprises, we must establish four kinds of mentality:
1. Gratitude
(It is precisely because enterprises have brought us a platform for survival and development. ）
2。 Give up and you will get the mentality
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3。 Mentality of taking responsibility
(Being brave in taking responsibility will make you mature. ）
4。 The mentality of sharpening a sword in three years (poetic net name)
(Be sure to love one line and do one line, understand in work and improve in understanding. Generally speaking, three years in an enterprise are not only three years of work, but also three years of understanding and cultivation. We should enrich our world outlook, improve our academic qualifications and enrich our human resources, so that we can do even greater things in the future. )
Sentiment Selection 2:
Making a speech in advance
He was born in a poor family in Hong Kong and was sent to a theatrical troupe by his family at an early age. At that time, acting was a low-class business, and only poor families with no way out could do it.
according to the rules of the old pear garden trip, my father signed a certificate of life and death with the troupe, and within the agreed time limit, his power of life and death was in the hands of the master. The discipline in the troupe is extremely strict, and he should have been trying to live under his parents' knees, but he practiced under the whip and abuse of his master and suffered a lot. A short time later, he secretly ran home, and his father flew into a rage and resolutely told him to go back: "A man should keep his promise, have signed a contract, and never give up halfway. Although we are poor, our aspirations cannot be short! " He had to return to the troupe and practice hard for more than ten years.
In the end, he learned something, and the traditional Chinese opera industry plummeted. He had only one skill, but he was useless. At that time, the Hong Kong film industry was developing rapidly, but all the male movie stars were more powerful and magnificent than Pan An. He is not tall, with a big nose and small eyes. How can he get along in the film industry?
It is said that he entered the Shaw studio in Hong Kong and made a "smelly martial art" as a walk-on. The first protagonist he played was actually a "dead body". It's nothing to be bitter and tired. What's more, the walk-on has no dignity, and he is often made difficult by people and ridiculed. In such an environment, he didn't complain, but he still worked hard. As a result of learning a good kung fu and being kind, after several years, he gradually became a leading role and became famous, earning 3, yuan a month.
One day, Mr. He in the industry asked him out and asked him to play the leading role in a new script. "In addition to the due remuneration, we will also pay the penalty of 1, yuan for you." With that, Mr. He forced a check on him and left in a hurry.
when he looked at it carefully, he found that the check was signed with 1 million yuan, which is a huge sum of money! He has suffered a lot since he was a child, and he has tasted hardships. Isn't it just looking forward to this day? But on second thought, if I break my contract, half of the film I am shooting will be aborted, and the company will suffer heavy losses. He couldn't bear to abandon it because of emotion and reason.
after a sleepless night, the next morning, he found Mr. He and returned the check. Mr. He was very surprised. He said simply, "I love money very much, too, but I can't break my promise just because of 1 million. A gentleman should be a promise."
Mr. He admired the young man very much, and his story spread quickly. The company was very moved to learn that it took the initiative to buy Mr. He's new script and gave it to him to direct and perform. In this way, he created the box office record of that year with the movie "Laughing Boxing", which was a great success.
He was only 22 years old that year, and all of Hong Kong knew him-Jackie Chan.
For more than 3 years, Jackie Chan has been working very hard. He was seriously injured 29 times, but he never got down. He has made more than 8 films, and has 2 in the world. 9 million die-hard fans, or the only China actor who left his nose print on walk of fame.
Once, Jackie Chan was invited to attend an award ceremony abroad, and a large number of Hollywood stars gathered. He is a little weak, and he stands aside humbly and regularly. Unexpectedly, those big names lined up on their own initiative and came up to shake hands with him one by one. Then he suddenly realized, "Oh, I am also a big star."
In a TV interview, Jackie Chan recalled these past events and said with deep emotion, "Frankly speaking, I got a lot at the moment. However, if I had betrayed my faith and escaped from the troupe without this excellent martial arts, or walked away in order to get that 1 million yuan, my life would definitely be rewritten. I just want to tell the young people at this moment by personal experience that when things that money can buy are always worthless, people should be honest and trustworthy, and keep their promises. "
to be a man in advance, the most precious thing is to keep a promise.
Sentiment Selection 3:
Being a man should be sincere, and sincerity is the capital of doing things; Be a man with love, and love is a social platform; Be a man with confidence and faith.