The friends around us always appear indecisive in the face of emotional breakdown. In the past, the chic atmosphere when accusing others of their feelings did not exist at all, and all that remained was crying and indecision like a little woman.
When her boyfriend cheated, they would say, "He promised me that he and that girl would break up completely, and it won't happen again."
When a boyfriend is cold and violent, they will say, "I don't know what happened to our relationship, and I don't know why he ignored me. I just don't want to let go."
Even when their boyfriends have domestic violence, they will say, "He said it was just an impulse and he didn't control his emotions well. He won't hit me again. "
I don't understand why a person who said before falling in love, "If my boyfriend cheats, I will never forgive him" and "If my boyfriend hits me, I will definitely fight back and break up with him" will become such a grievance.
I clearly remember that a little sister around me could handle love rat with her hands when her best friend cheated her. But when I was waiting for myself, I gave in and made myself uncomfortable.
I once told her that concession is not respect and pity, but pushing your luck. She just wouldn't listen. It was not until she turned herself into the most annoying person that she suddenly realized that timely stop loss is the highest level of self-discipline in adult relationships.
Why did Rachel Momo find the news that Sean moved quickly within four hours after cheating?
Because that kind of decisive and timely self-destruction courage is what we want, but it is exactly what we lack most.
In other people's feelings, we act as bystanders, and we know what is best for us. Therefore, we can always give advice to the young ladies trapped by love.
But once you are on yourself, you can't leave him alone when you face him. You can't let go of your beloved him, nor can you let go of that warm and beautiful memory.
So you hold back, you run, and you feel like you can go back in time. But it's not that simple. If the feelings are weak, it is really weak.
The second time is beautiful, but not realistic!
Therefore, in the face of unreasonable feelings, both boys and girls should stop losses in time. I don't deny that love is supreme, but you should know that there is no eternal love in this world.
Now you may feel that you have no regrets, but when you are scarred, you will understand how valuable it is to stop loss in time in your feelings.
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