Women's lesson: everything must have a "degree", and emotional things are no exception? I read this statement in the book: everything has a limit, and the extremes meet! What is the degree? Degree is a unit of measurement and a standard, which is recommended for everyone to follow. In this range, being a person or doing things, in order not to violate standards and laws and regulations. However, the word "degree" looks easy, sounds easy, but it is really difficult to do. Because the degree is only a kind of conceptual cognitive ability, there is no obvious boundary, and it is not a definite enterprise such as a ruler inch in the true sense. So not many people can grasp proper limit. Degree is a rule of human beings at the level of being a man and doing things. In other words, degree is the principle and bottom line set by people themselves. Standards and red lines are relatively easy to understand, which is what most people want to think of when doing things.

For example, some people say: I can do other jobs, but I definitely don't want to do anything illegal. You see, this is the principle and the bottom line. This is also the "degree" of people. There is a saying: everything must have a degree, and the degree depends on the right; Things are changeable, and its difficulty depends on impermanence. That's good, isn't it? Degree, the original is appropriate. The unpredictability of the world is mainly due to the impermanence of the world, which many people cannot predict. In that case, how can we handle affairs properly?

Let's talk about the human dimension first. Being a man is actually a science. It is difficult to grasp the degree of being a man. To be a man, you should grasp the appropriate limits, and you can imagine infinitely in your heart, but you should have your own rules in your behavior and not do whatever you want. The reason why people make mistakes and commit crimes is because they have lost their own degree and have no own principles and bottom lines in their behavior. In other words, the loss of "degree" of people's heart is due to the high nature of people. If a person desires more, he will forget the "degree" of being a man and forget that there are principles in the world. So, what are the main aspects of excesses? For example, greed, selfishness, arrogance and malice. People's hearts are contaminated with this bad character, and it is easy to do things beyond "degree".

For example, a person, who is supposed to live a self-disciplined life, will invite people to quarrel every once in a while, or argue with people because of a little interest, and may even take extreme actions. Such people have no limits, no principles and no bottom line. No one can enjoy getting along with such people. People in this life yearn for and respect beauty. There is no limit to being a man, and most of them have a dark and selfish psychological state. Everything is only for oneself, only for self-interest, regardless of the feelings of others.

So, it's annoying to go too far. Let's talk about doing things again. When people do things, they must grasp the boundaries, which is what everyone usually says, "Don't let yourself go, leave yourself a way out." This retreat is also standard. People who can grasp the limits at the business level are smart or wise. Because the degree of things is as difficult to control as the degree of people. If something is done, it will hurt and hurt yourself; If the guarantee is not implemented in place, it will not get good results. Therefore, proper limit's grasp is really not so easy.

I still remember reading such a passage on the internet, which can't be denied. In fact, this is the induction of "degree", which is very classic-there is a degree in the road of life, and it is a disaster to go too far. You don't need to be deliberate, and you don't pursue the ultimate. Workers do not seek profit, industry does not seek fullness, and when the flowers are half closed, the wine is slightly drunk. It doesn't matter, but be tolerant, otherwise it is arrogance. Kindness, but determination, or weakness. To be noble, you must know humility, otherwise it is arrogance. There is a limit to everything, and you can't say it all. You should grasp the appropriate limits, don't do everything, and leave room. We all know that catching more is different. Most people who can grasp the limits can do things successfully because they will give people the right feeling. People who can't grasp the boundaries usually accomplish nothing, and even people don't want to be with them, because being with such people doesn't bring them any benefits.