"A good word can warm you three times, but a bad word can hurt someone more." Language is a double-edged sword that can both warm others and hurt others. People often say: The water you throw out when you speak out cannot be taken back. Once words cause harm to others, it will be unforgettable. Therefore, when interacting with others, try not to use harsh words.
We all understand that diseases come from the mouth and disasters come from the mouth, but few can do it. Therefore, we should think more before speaking and think clearly before speaking. Praise more, praise others more, and don't speak harshly.
Some people will defend themselves and say, "I just speak too straightforwardly and speak unabashedly." To put it nicely, he is too straightforward and unpleasant to listen to, that is, his words are unpleasant to listen to. No one in this world likes to hear unpleasant words. The more unabashed and outspoken people are, the less they like to hear other people's blunt words.
Don’t do to others what you don’t want others to do to you. Why does society now value emotional intelligence? People with high emotional intelligence are people who can talk.
"A road can tell a horse's power, but time can tell a person's heart." It tells us that when you get to know someone, don't look at the surface, but have more contact with them. No matter in life, work or study, we should not judge a person out of context. Especially when young people are dating, they must not be carried away by temporary enthusiasm. Don't be fooled by a person's appearance. Only by understanding more can one's good or evil nature be revealed.
There are two sentences at the end: "It's easy to get along well when you meet each other, but it's hard to make friends when you live for a long time." From these two sentences, it is not difficult to see that communication between people still needs to maintain a certain distance. It is not good to be too close or too far. Keep a good balance.
"Don't do evil because it's small, don't do good because it's small." This is a sentence in Liu Bei's "Accident List". Tell us all, don’t not do a good thing because it’s too small, and don’t do an evil thing because it’s too small. Especially when we are alone, we must also be strict with ourselves.
"Knowing is knowing, not knowing is not knowing, it is knowing." This society is developing at a rapid pace, and each of us will have many areas that we are not familiar with or do not understand. This is normal. Some people are in an unfamiliar field and are afraid that others will know that they don't understand. If they don't know how to pretend to understand, they are more likely to make a fool of themselves or be laughed at. Just ask if you don’t understand, it’s normal.
This is why we use "pretend" to describe a person who does not understand but pretends to understand.
"Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you." We often hear this sentence, but what I want to say is that "don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you" does not mean "do to others what you want to do to you." To people". Everyone knows the truth of the previous sentence. We should not impose on others what we don’t like ourselves. But I think we should know that the latter sentence is more harmful. When getting along with others, some people like to use their own standards to suppress or impose on others.
Some people like a brand and will recommend it to others, as if others don’t buy it because they have no taste. Some people want others to agree with what they think is good. This is actually worse and can easily make people resentful in interpersonal interactions. Everyone has different thoughts and hobbies, and everyone has their own ambitions. Don't ask others for your own will. Otherwise, the two people will be very depressed in their relationship.
Human beings are social animals, and reading more famous quotes and aphorisms is also very beneficial to our interpersonal relationships.