But in today's society, as long as they leave the society after reading books, they will face all kinds of pressures, especially men, because they bear the responsibility of supporting their families and have to take care of their parents. Therefore, as the saying goes, if people fail to achieve some goals in life before the age of 30, they will be miserable and even ridiculed, and everyone must be eager to succeed, but to achieve this goal. It must take a lot of effort and experience some difficulties and obstacles, but now, many people will only choose to escape when they encounter difficulties, resulting in nothing in the end. If you want to achieve something, then start working hard from this moment. If you really can't understand your own ideas and you can't help yourself, then you can increase your awareness through some books. So today I want to tell you Zeng Guofan: If a person wants to be a great man, he must keep in mind the "five points" and be able to work step by step in the future!

The first commandment: don't abandon great beauty with small evils, and don't forget great kindness with small grievances. In this world, everyone will make some mistakes, so don't deny the whole personality of others because of a temporary mistake, but discover their beauty and advantages through careful observation, and then learn from them. At the same time, you can also reflect on yourself according to your own shortcomings and make continuous progress. There is also a saying that a drop of water should be rewarded with a spray of water, so even a small favor should be rewarded, and don't be an ungrateful person. In this case, everyone will vomit.

The second precept: say that people's shortcomings are to protect themselves, and praise their own advantages is to avoid the advantages of others. As Mr. Lu Xun once said, it is important to dissect others at all times, but it is more important to dissect yourself mercilessly. First of all, if we have any problems, we should find the root from ourselves instead of complaining about others, because only in this way can we make progress and find the real problems. If we keep complaining, we will accomplish nothing.

The third precept: benefit can be * * but not alone, and seek less but not more. To deal with things, you should know how to make decisions, and you should have certain judgment and strategies. Wise people will see the problem more comprehensively, while dogmatic people will judge the problem one-sidedly and make many mistakes. Under the temptation: the master of our class takes knowledge as the main task and wealth as the father. If you achieve great things, people will live half a life, and God will live half a life. We must not be impatient in doing things, we must do our best and leave it to fate. This is the best attitude towards life.

The fifth commandment: don't do things with long-term interests, and don't go to places where there are many people competing. We should work hard to make money now, but we should avoid right and wrong, stick to our true intentions, and don't do whatever it takes just for profit. What's your opinion this time? Participate in the following message and discuss it together!