To live in real existence requires the silence of the soul and the lifting of all external constraints, including social, family, traditional, and institutional ones. Only in this way can you be free and silent. Too much interference from the external environment makes the mind full of delusions, material desires, power desires, violent tendencies, pain, sadness, depression, and depression, which change with changes in the external environment.

We are slaves to the environment, other people’s opinions, and language. In society, others, and families, we have no self. Naturally, too many constraints affect your understanding. You only see society. , family, existence in the eyes of others, but did not see the true existence that obeys the laws of the universe, embodies great wisdom, is non-dual opposition, is the only, independent and unique thing, that is, the truth of things.

Release all the shackles outside the body, and you will be an independent individual. You are not the product of a broken system. The system can cultivate a person's surrender, submission, and distort the soul, but you can survive in the system. Even if you follow the system, but are not affected or shaped by it, you are still you. If you survive in the social system, like a fish in water, but do not distort your true and pure nature, then congratulations, you have lived your life as a human being. It should be free and easy, should have the freedom, should have the joy, should have the value, and should have the richness.

You can feel other people’s eyes and words, but you only feel it, and it is only a little bit uncomfortable, and then you forget all about it. This is an infinitely broad heart. An absolutely free heart, a heart that is open to all rivers and tolerant as we say, because a free heart, a heart that is not attached to other people's attitudes, of course, the harm caused to others will be quickly eliminated. , no longer affects your infinitely broad and free heart. A free heart is casual, which is the state of infinite tolerance we refer to.

This kind of heart is silent and free. This kind of heart can only see the real existence, and the essence of all things is presented in front of you. When you can see the real existence, you will find: < /p>

There is no so-called difficulty in this world, everything is a solution. You may have no money, your family may be broken up. If you think that everything is hopeless, then you are bound by your own spiritual weakness. If you are defeated by yourself, if you think that everything has a solution, it means that you have transcended the limitations of the mind and seen the real existence. Difficulties are just a law and a change, and there must be a perfect and satisfactory solution. Don’t give up or go to extremes.

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There is no so-called conflict between people. Contradictions are all caused by misunderstandings. After understanding each other, we will find this, that is There is no conflict or contradiction between people at all. If you think others are disgusting, malicious, or hostile, then you are looking at the problem from your own point of view. Your point of view may come from your past experience, and you may have been hurt in the past. , but this kind of harm may not be what you think, or it may come from the understanding of other people's experiences. What others tell you may not be correct.

Because his own understanding may be wrong, and you cannot accept it all. It may also come from the media, TV, and movie performances, and the intrigues and intrigues between people that are too much shown in the media. , it’s not true in reality, but it’s not as serious as you think. If film and television works do not show the struggle between people, then because the works are not exciting enough and not eye-catching enough, the ratings will be greatly reduced, and a lot of money will be lost. But excessive performance does have a lot of adverse effects on people's minds, making people full of suspicion and distrust, leading to over-defense.

All of this comes from your heart, your point of view, to put it bluntly, it is your limitation. The many limitations in your heart make you wrongly evaluate the conflicts and misunderstandings between people, but Will a free heart, a quiet heart, and a broad heart see it this way? Of course not, because such a heart rarely draws conclusions about something, and rarely distrusts it, because it has transcended the constraints of the self. It can look at problems from a broad and complete perspective, and then it will go deep into the internal contradictions and conflicts to study.

After discussion, we will finally determine what is the nature of this contradiction and conflict? It will not be very emotional and conclude that it is the other party's fault, that the other party is deliberately sabotaging, etc., because the silence in his heart allows him to consider the problem more effectively. In the end, he may discover that all conflicts and contradictions are misunderstandings, trivial matters, and can be resolved.

If you see the real existence, you will have great wisdom and live in the real existence. That is to say, you only live in the real existence. You can only see the real existence and nothing else. You need a A mind of silence, freedom, love, broadness, sensitivity, and clarity achieved through constant tempering. Only by settling in true existence can you make your life more complete, beautiful, fulfilling, and abundant.