As a gentleman, you should have a strong will, never-ending spirit of struggle, strive to strengthen self-cultivation, complete and develop your studies or career, and be able to
Only in this way can we reflect God's will and live up to the responsibilities and talents entrusted to a gentleman by the universe.
2. Don't do it because of small evils, and don't do it because of small goodness. -Liu Beiyu in the history of the Three Kingdoms
Don't do anything just because it is a trivial matter; On the contrary, for some small good things that benefit others,
Don't stop doing it just because it doesn't make sense.
It's better to see the bad than the good, just like exploring the soup. -The Analects of Confucius
When you meet an excellent person, you are afraid that it is too late to learn from him. Seeing a good thing, I'm afraid it's too late to do it. When you see a wicked person or a bad thing, it's like being exposed to high temperature.
Like hot water, leave immediately and stay away.
If you bow to others and lightly blame others, you will stay away from complaining. -The Analects of Confucius
Those who work hard and take the main responsibility for mistakes are "dedicated", more tolerant and tolerant of others, and "lightly blame others". In this case, it is
Don't hate each other.
5. A gentleman's adult beauty is not an adult's evil. Villains are. -The Analects of Confucius
A gentleman always starts from a good wish or a wish that is beneficial to others, and wholeheartedly urges others to realize their good wishes and just demands, and will not be insensitive.
Look at the world. Or fear that the world will not be chaotic and will not add fuel to the fire when others fail, make mistakes or suffer. On the contrary, the villain is always "adult evil, no
The beauty of adults. "
6. See Si Qi Yan, see Si Qi introspection. -The Analects of Confucius
When you see someone who has an advantage over yourself in some respect, you should consult modestly, study hard, try to catch up with him and reach the same level as him.
When you see a person has some shortcomings or deficiencies, you should reflect calmly and see if you have them.
7. Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you.
Don't impose what you don't want (pain, disaster, disaster, etc.) on others. ).
Be kind and don't give in to your teacher. -The Analects of Confucius
Don't hesitate to do good things, even if the teacher is around, you should rush to do it. Later, it developed into the idiom "due diligence".
9. A gentleman talks but doesn't do it. -The Analects of Confucius
A gentleman can't talk big, but he is agile and dexterous.
10. Two people are concentric, and their profits are broken; The difference between one thought and another. -Zhouyi
Qi Xin's concerted efforts are powerful enough to break hard metals; People with one heart and one mind express the same point of view, which is convincing and people like to smell it.
Rich orchid fragrance, easy to accept.
1 1. A gentleman hides his container in his body and waits for the opportunity to move. -Zhouyi
Even if a gentleman is technically excellent, he will not show off everywhere, but show his talents or skills when necessary.
12. The loss is full and the income is not big. -Shangshu
Complacency will bring losses and disasters; Only by being modest and always aware of your own shortcomings can you benefit from it.
13. People don't know or care, aren't they gentlemen? -The Analects of Confucius
If I have some achievements, others will not understand, but I will never feel angry and wronged. Isn't this also a sign of gentlemanliness?
14. Keep your word and do what you want. -The Analects of Confucius
Translation: words must be done; Once you have determined what you want to do, you should do it resolutely and boldly.
15. meaningless, unnecessary, unstable, and egoless. -The Analects of Confucius
Tell the truth, don't just guess; Don't be arbitrary, willful and feasible; Flexible action, not rigid; Everything is not centered on "I" or self-centered.
I think so, and work hard with people around me to complete the task.
16. in a threesome, there must be a teacher, choose the good one and follow it, and change the bad one. -The Analects of Confucius
When three people are together, there must be someone worth learning in some way, so he can be my teacher. I choose his advantages and learn from him.
I will learn from our shortcomings and deficiencies and correct them.
17. A gentleman seeks for himself, while a villain seeks for others. -The Analects of Confucius
A gentleman always blames himself, finding faults and problems from himself. A little person often looks at others to find their shortcomings and deficiencies.
18. Although an upright man is open and poised is a petty person, he is anxious and worried ...-The Analects of Confucius
The gentleman is open-minded, honest and clean, and looks very comfortable and stable. Little people have too many desires and heavy psychological burdens, so they are often worried.
Anxiety, anxiety, appearance and movements also appear uneasy, often fidgeting and unstable.
19. Don't complain, don't be kind to others. -The Analects of Confucius
When encountering setbacks and failures, never make excuses objectively and never put the blame on others. Later, it developed into the idiom "complaining about others".
20. Don't be angry and don't be unfaithful. -The Analects of Confucius
When you make a mistake, don't take it out on others and don't make it again.
2 1. If you can't bear it, make a great plan. -The Analects of Confucius
Insist on doing something you shouldn't do, even if you really want to do it. This is called "forbearance". Small things can't be taken care of, affecting the overall situation and ruining major events.
22. A villain must write a letter when he makes a mistake. -The Analects of Confucius
A villain must cover up his mistakes.
23. If you don't change, you have gone too far. -The Analects of Confucius
If you make a mistake and don't correct it, that's the real mistake.
24. A gentleman's career is based on foundation. -The Analects of Confucius
The gentleman is committed to the root, the root, and the Tao comes naturally.
25. A gentleman is ashamed of exaggerating. -The Analects of Confucius
A gentleman thinks it is shameful to talk more and do less.
26. Look before you leap. -The Analects of Confucius
You have to think twice before you do anything.
27. Many lines of injustice will hang themselves. -Zuo zhuan
If you do too many bad things, you will eventually bring your own destruction.
No one has made a mistake, but he can correct it, and it is not very good. -"Zuo zhuan"
Everyone can make mistakes and make hunting mistakes. As long as it is corrected, it is still the best person.
29. Don't hide your virtue with one shot. -"Zuo zhuan"
When judging a person, you can't deny his contribution just because of a small mistake.
30. If a person can do it, he will do it. Man can do ten things, but he can do thousands of things. -the golden mean
What others learn once, I will certainly learn after spending hundreds of times. What others can master ten times, if I learn a thousand times, I will certainly master it.
Take it.
3 1. Shame is almost brave. -the golden mean
Knowing what shameful behavior is is a good sign of courage.
32. pot calling the kettle black. -"Mencius"
I am complacent that my mistakes are smaller than others and my shortcomings are less than others.
33. A gentleman is nothing more than being kind to others. -Mencius
The greatest strength of a gentleman is to treat others with a noble and loving heart.
34. Everyone can think of Yao Shun. -Mencius
As long as you are willing to work hard, everyone can become a great saint like Yao Shun.
35. The embankment of thousands of feet collapsed in the ant nest; A 100-foot room was burning with sudden smoke.
Translation: The Qianli levee may collapse and burst because of ants digging holes; A 100-foot-high building may be a fire caused by sparks from a gap in the chimney.
burn
36. The speaker is innocent, and those who smell it are enough to quit. -"preface to poetry"
Those who criticize are innocent. When you hear criticism from others, you should seriously reflect on yourself, correct your mistakes and treat them as others'.
Your own advice.
37. Good medicine tastes bitter and is good for illness, but advice when most unpleasant is good for action. -Confucius' family language
Good medicine tastes bitter and benefits the disease; The suggestion sounds unpleasant, but it is good for people's behavior.
38. A good word warms three winters, and a bad word hurts the cold in June. -Ming dynasty proverb
A kind and beneficial word can make the listener feel warm even in the cold of three winters; On the contrary, bitter language will hurt others' feelings.
Self-esteem, even in the summer of June, can make people feel cold.
39. After many experiences, filial piety comes first.
It has been said for thousands of times that filial piety to parents and love to brothers must be done first.
40. Good and evil are all done by people, and their fortunes are all recruited.
Good things and bad things are all done by yourself, and disasters and happiness are brought by your own words and deeds.
4 1. Learning without thinking is useless, thinking without learning is dangerous. -The Analects of Confucius
Learning without thinking is useless, dreaming without learning is useless.
42. What you know is what you know, and what you don't know is what you know. -The Analects of Confucius
Knowing is knowing. Say you don't know if you don't know, and don't cheat. This is a wise act.
43. The industry is good at diligence and the drama is poor in drama; Thinking about what you do is destroyed by following. -Han Yu
Success in career or study lies in hard work and diligence. If you are too playful, you will accomplish nothing by relaxing your requirements. To be a man, we must think carefully and test.
Careful consideration will lead to success. Willfulness, carelessness and carelessness will only lead to failure.
44. There are three ways to read: heart, eyes and mouth. Zhu Ming Xi
Think with your heart, look carefully with your eyes, and read more with your mouth. Only by doing these three things properly can you really read.
45. Never tire of learning and never tire of teaching. -The Analects of Confucius
Study hard but not satisfied, and teach others not to get bored.
46. If you don't accumulate pace, you can't go to Wan Li Road, and if you don't accumulate small streams, you can't become rivers and seas. -"Xunzi exhortation"
If you don't accumulate half a step, you can't walk on Wan Li Road, gather small streams, and become rivers and seas.
47. But you only need to climb a flight of stairs to broaden your horizons by 300 miles. -Don Wang Zhihuan's "Climbing the cheekbones"
If you want to see further and wider scenery, you must go to by going up one flight of stairs. If you want to learn more and deeper knowledge, you must work harder than before.
48. Strong hands make strong hands. Don't brag to others. -"A warning story"
Although you are a strong man, there must be someone better than you, so don't be conceited and praise yourself in front of others.
49. Jade is uncut and abrasive; People who don't learn don't know.
Jade is not a tool; People don't learn and don't understand.
50. If your hair is black, you don't know to study early, and if your head is white, you regret to study late.
If you don't know how to study hard when you are young, it's too late to study again when you are old.
5 1. People who don't know enough are eager to learn, and those who are ashamed to ask questions are complacent. -Lin Bu's "Trouble Record".
It is wise to know your own shortcomings and study hard, but it is shameful to ask questions and be complacent.
52. Learning is not enough. -Xunzi
You can't stop learning.
53. Isn't it pleasant to learn from the times? -The Analects of Confucius
Isn't it a pleasure to review what you have learned at an appropriate time and have a new understanding of knowledge?
54. Reviewing the past and learning the new can be a teacher. -The Analects of Confucius
If you learn new knowledge, review what you have learned frequently, and keep learning and reviewing, your knowledge and self-cultivation will certainly improve soon, so that people can do it.
Become a teacher.
55. Reading is like writing. -Tang Du Fu
Read more books, and when you write articles, there will be flowers in your pen, as if you have been helped by God.
56. If the young don't work hard, the old will be sad. -"Han Yuefu Long Songs"
If you don't study hard when you are young, you can only regret and sigh when you are old.
Read it a hundred times, and you will understand what you mean. -Romance of the Three Kingdoms
Reading must be repeated many times before you can understand the meaning in the book.
58. Learning without learning is not learning. -Song Yang Wanli
Learning knowledge but not being able to use it flexibly cannot be called learning.
59. thirst for knowledge, not two. -Zuo zhuan
When learning knowledge, I'm afraid I can't catch up. If I catch up, I am afraid I will lose it again.
60. If you don't learn as soon as possible, you are afraid of losing. The Analects of Confucius and Qin Bo.