Be a wise person, don’t be too smart, rarely be confused, don’t be too persistent; have a low profile and be a low-key person to achieve great things; repay resentment with kindness, leaving some room for others and yourself; listen to others with patience and concentration Speak and win people's hearts; learn to clearly reject others; tolerance must have a certain limit!

I found that it is almost impossible to "never forget people's kindness, not miss people's faults, not think about people's faults, and ignore people's complaints" It's impossible. Although I agree that people must be kind and grateful, I do not agree with repaying kindness with kindness, because it will only make some people feel that you are easy to bully.

Some things in life need to be forgotten, and some things need to be tolerated, repaying evil with kindness, ignoring past grudges, and keeping a gentle heart.