Do you forgive men for betraying themselves? I think few women in this world can really forgive unless she gives up and doesn't love. Love is unique. There is no room for a third person between two people. After a man betrays, a woman won't return to her old feelings for you even if she doesn't choose to divorce. A broken heart is like a broken mirror. Even the second time, it's hard to be the same as before.

After a man has an affair, a woman is the most direct victim.

In addition to experiencing emotional suffering every day, we must also face the elderly and children and strive to balance the relationship between them. Because I don't want my child to lose his father, and I don't want parents on both sides to worry. Even if my heart is broken, I am willing to choose to endure, and I am willing to try to pretend that all this has never happened, and try to restrain my disgust and disappointment and continue to live with him.

But can you really live like this? Not necessarily. Because gradually, you will find it really hard to trust between two people. You can't always give your true feelings and sincerity to the man in front of you. You will doubt the meaning of what you have paid and feel that everything you have done is not worth it.

Many women can't forgive men's betrayal and choose divorce because they know that even if they don't leave their lives, they may not be able to live well. It's better to let it go earlier than to make it painful.

There are not a few such women. One of my readers, Min Yang, chose a divorce without thinking after her ex-husband betrayed her. She said that this is the bottom line and will not give him a second chance to hurt himself.

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This is a woman's choice. Divorce is just the result of extramarital affairs, but what happened afterwards? Can a divorced man really forget his ex-wife and start a new life with another woman? Not necessarily, but it is impossible for a person with a little conscience to feel at ease.

Take Min Yang's ex-husband as an example. After Min Yang divorced him, he kept apologizing and assured Min Yang that he really knew he was wrong. He hoped that Yang Min would give himself another chance to remarry with him, even at the expense of letting his parents move out to make peace. He will do anything as long as he can remarry.

It turned out that after the divorce, he lived a very lonely life.

Extramarital love is a secular phenomenon. A man's extramarital affair affects not only his wife and family, but also his reputation and morality, thus affecting his work.

When others know that he divorced because of an extramarital affair, they doubt his character, and for this reason, his career has also been hit hard. At this time, his extramarital partner broke up directly, because she was not sincere to him from the beginning and only valued his money.

You see, this is the difference between a wife and a lover. My wife doesn't care whether you are rich or poor, because she loves you and she is willing to share joys and sorrows with you. But "lover" is different. Her purpose is clear, that is, to get your money. She can only share joys and sorrows with you, not with you. Once your career changes, her first thought is to leave.

It's a pity that many men don't understand who is sincere to you and who is melodramatic.

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Min Yang's ex-husband didn't know how good his ex-wife was until after the divorce. People are always like this. Don't cherish when you have it, and regret when you lose it. What's the use?

The writer Balzac said: "In any case, women suffer more than men, and the degree of injury will be deeper. Men have the energy to play, but women are motionless in the face of sadness and can't be distracted. "

After every woman steps into the door of marriage, she thinks that the man she marries is the support of her life. In life, many women devote almost all their time to their families besides their jobs. When a woman is married, she will care more about her for men than before; Men, on the other hand, feel that they have accomplished great things in life, no longer care about women, or even are lazy.

Any man with a sense of family responsibility will not make the woman who loves him cry. When a man has an affair, China women have reason to be sad no matter which way they choose.

I hope every man really knows how to cherish the person in front of him, and don't wait until he loses it to regret it.

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Today's topic:

If it were you, would you remarry your ex-husband after the divorce?

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