I would rather cry in a BMW than laugh on a bicycle.

I believe everyone has heard of this famous saying, which happened in a recording scene of a program called If You Are the One. "If You Are the One" is a blind date program produced by Jiangsu Satellite TV. There are 24 female guests at the scene, and the ultimate goal of "holding hands" is achieved through mutual selection of male and female guests.

and this sentence is from the mouth of one of the female guests named Mano in If You Are the One in 21. Because of his outstanding appearance, many male guests expressed their love for Mano at that time, and one of them directly confessed to his face and asked Mano "Would you like to ride a bike with me all my life?"

Then the classic saying "I'd rather cry in a BMW than laugh on a bicycle" came from Mano's mouth, which directly triggered a heated discussion on the spot and triggered a heated discussion nationwide after the program was broadcast. Many netizens severely criticized Mano, and Mano was also branded as a "gold digger" and a "vanity girl".

Mano

Mano was born in an ordinary family in 1988. Although his family is not rich, his life is always happy. Later, Mano was admitted to Beijing Modern Conservatory of Music and wanted to get ahead. However, the cruelty of reality has hit Mano again and again, hitting a wall everywhere, and even being cheated out of 3, yuan by the so-called "talent scout".

The future of Mano was not as bright as I thought. With repeated failures, Mano's life was difficult, and he gradually lost his original self-confidence and deepened his desire for money.

Then, in 21, Mano participated in the blind date program "If You Are the One", and gradually became popular with her appearance. After the sentence "I would rather cry in a BMW than laugh on a bicycle" came out, Mano became an instant hit.

The arrangement of the program group

Because of that classic line, Mano became popular all over the country overnight. Many people have criticized her and become a typical "gold digger" in people's eyes. After so many years, has Mano found the "BMW" he needs?

After that incident, Mano received a lot of Shang Yan activities with the popularity of "black and red", and also filmed some online dramas, but for various reasons, the scenes were always deleted, leaving no impression on the public. Many people hold a kind of watching psychology for Mano's fate, and think that she deserves it.

But what few people know is that the cause of this incident is the hype arrangement of the program group.

After the incident, Mano has repeatedly responded to this matter, explaining that his participation in If You Are the One was not really a blind date, but a job. The instruction I received at that time was to refuse the confession of the male guest. Everything was arranged by the program group, and I was also a little joke in response to what the male guest said at that time.

However, it was constantly magnified and hyped by the media, which eventually caused such consequences.

money worship?

There are many "money worship" people in real life. They measure the value of this matter by the amount of money they get, which has aroused many people's disgust, but it is also an extremely cruel reality. Almost everything people do has a purpose, and there are few people or events who pay blindly without asking for anything in return, but it is understandable to take money as the purpose of their actions.

As Mano said, first of all, this is the arrangement of the program group and the script arrangement in advance. However, people who don't know the truth are easily misinterpreted and misled by the media's public opinion, so they can't get the truth.

Apart from this factor, in the face of unreasonable accusations from netizens, this joke-like refusal is not worth too much criticism. Mano generously showed her desire for money, which is related to her experiences from childhood. Who wants to live a hard life after experiencing the sufferings of having no money? It is not shameful to want to live a rich life.

The most basic demand in Maslow's hierarchy of needs is physiological demand, which meets the most basic needs such as food, drink, shelter and transportation, and only by meeting this basic demand can we go on. In other words, life on a bicycle is not necessarily happiness, and feelings without material foundation are like scattered sand, which will dissipate when the wind blows.

Therefore, money worship is not shameful. Isn't all our work aimed at getting money? It is shameful that those who do whatever it takes to get money put money above all moral standards. This mercenary person will lead to vanity and emptiness, and eventually lead to moral decay.