Sincerity and sincerity are the magic weapon in life. Otherwise, you will be condemned in your heart. Do you believe it? I remember that in the last Chinese language test, I scored 93 points. When the test paper was handed out, I couldn’t tell how happy I was. Because I am first in the class. However, when I took the test paper and looked down, I suddenly found that there was a word I wrote wrong, but the teacher's correction did not find it. At this time, my heart was beating wildly. I looked around and saw others staring intently at their test papers, so I thought of trying to fool him. But in the next few days, I never had a good night's sleep. The word "unlucky" haunted me like a ghost, turning and rolling around, and I couldn't get rid of it. I began to regret it, and finally decided to give the score to myself. Change it. So that day, I carefully put a cross on the typo with a red pen and deducted one point, turning it into 92 points. When I tallied the scores, I insisted that it was 92 points. Finally, a big stone in my heart fell to the ground. In my dream, I dreamed that others were praising me, saying that I was honest and not false. I was so happy that I danced in my dream, feeling an indescribable joy. At that time, I truly knew what it meant to be sincere, not false, honest, and not sneaky. I also understand that only by relying on my own efforts can I achieve success. Don't be opportunistic, deceive your parents, and be an honest and good child. ah! How joyful it is to show your true self with sincerity! Here, I specially created a "famous quote" to encourage my classmates: Sincerity, sincerity that touches people's hearts, will always be the secret to your success as a human being! Sincere apology
When people get along with friends, some conflicts and frictions will inevitably occur, but it is rare to see the party at fault being able to put down their dignity and take the initiative to apologize, so that the misunderstanding becomes deeper and deeper. . This is probably a shortcoming inherent in human beings. For the sake of "face", they dare not take on the responsibilities they should bear; this may also be the fragile side of people's hearts, and they are unwilling to face their own mistakes.
I used to have a friend, and we were very close. In the words of my classmates, we were "rotten leeks that never broke the bundle." This shows how deep our friendship is. But one time our class played a football match with other classes. We were both players on the field. The game was very fierce and it was difficult to separate. At the end of the second half, the score was 2:2. We then went into overtime and the game got heated. I broke through with the ball and came to the opponent's goal. My friend also came to the goal. He asked me to pass the ball, which I did. He was immediately guarded by two opponents. I asked him to pass the ball to me, but he might not have reacted, passed it to me, and was snatched away by the opponent...
Because of this incident, I had a conflict with him, and he He wanted to explain to me, but I didn't give him a chance, so we continued to misunderstand. Occasionally, I heard him talking to other students about that football match: He saw the other team members noticed that I asked him to pass the ball to me, so he was already on guard against me. If he passed the ball to me, we would lose. I lost the ball, so I didn't pass it to me... I suddenly realized that I was so confused that I didn't give my good friend a chance to explain, otherwise our friendship would be over. I found him with an extremely apologetic mood and sincerely said to him: "I'm sorry, I misunderstood you!" From then on, we became inseparable good friends.
Apologizing is actually very simple. If you lose a real friend for the sake of vain "face", you will really regret it!
A sincere apology means making a mistake
Zigong said: "If you make a mistake, everyone will see it; if you correct it, everyone will look up to it." The mistake is obvious. If it is not corrected, it is illegal. Your benefits will be deprived, your face will be lost, and what you lose will be unexpected. If you correct it, people will praise your brave spirit and respect your personality.
So, sincerely apologizing to others is a wise move by a wise person. This means that he has to correct his mistakes. Because a person keeps making mistakes when he is born, some consciously and some unconsciously. Only by growing and developing in the process of constantly making mistakes and correcting them can a person become a perfect, healthy and noble person. American public relations expert Susan Jacoby once said: "Learning to apologize is an important social skill. A sincere apology will make people feel the best emotions between people." Therefore, we must learn to sincerely apologize to others. Apologize.
As a child, Washington cut down one of his father's favorite cherry trees. When his father came home and found out, he asked, "Who did it?" He felt a little nervous, but after thinking about it, he bravely walked up to his father and said with a look of shame, "I did it." His father added 问道：“把我心爱的东西砍倒了，你不知道我要揍你吗？”小孩说：“可我告诉你的是一个事实呀。”父亲听后，不但没惩罚他，反而表扬他 Said: "Admitting a mistake is a heroic act." From this incident, it is not difficult to see that the child sincerely apologized to his father and he was determined to change. Therefore, we must learn from children the attitude of sincere apology, because it means making amends.
Apologizing does not mean losing face, but, in a certain sense, it means having the courage to correct mistakes. After all, "No one has a fault, and he can correct his faults, so there is no greater good." For example, Einstein corrected his mistakes in public.
A long time ago, he proposed a certain theory, and later someone raised questions about it. After research and careful consideration, he finally gave up his own point of view and accepted the opinions of others. Then, he corrected his original theory in a report in public. in conclusion. Does this apology mean he is embarrassed? No. What he did was a sign of his courage to correct his mistakes, wasn't it?
As the saying goes, "The prodigal son will never be able to exchange for gold." For those who have made mistakes, if they say they want to change and sincerely apologize to us, should we turn them away? I don't think so. In fact, we all make mistakes, but the degree of mistakes is different. For those who sincerely apologize, we should give them a chance, because a sincere apology means making amends.
At the same time, we often hear and see people who know that they have done something wrong but do not correct it. These people will not get the respect of others. Because they don’t have the courage to apologize to others or correct their mistakes.
Apology does not mean failure, but success, because success comes from failure; apology does not mean admitting defeat, but means progress, because progress requires not admitting defeat; apology does not mean darkness, but means Light, because only darkness can highlight the light...
Let us learn to sincerely apologize to others. After all, "when you pass away, everyone sees it; when you pass away, everyone looks up to you." A sincere apology is the link between us and others. People build bridges of trust. A true apology means correction, so let us correct our mistakes together so that we can continue to improve ourselves.
No matter what, let us use a sincere apology as a new note to rewrite the movement of our lives; let us use a sincere apology as a new brush to repaint the picture of our lives; let us use sincerity as a new brush to paint the picture of our lives; The apology becomes a new text and re-records the footprints of our lives...
It is harder to apologize than to reach the sky!
Apologising, in my opinion, is a very simple and common thing. Know that you were wrong, say sorry to the victim so that you won't make the same mistake again, and that's it. However, in the environment we live in, for many people, it is harder to apologize than to go to heaven!
In some developed countries, apologizing is as common as eating, because people often make mistakes or accidentally offend others. And apologizing is as normal as people drinking water, peeing, sweating, and detoxifying. We can even often see some government leaders - the president, prime minister, prime minister - apologize to people.
However, in the environment we live in, when have you ever seen an official apologize to the people? When have you ever seen some “celebrities” or “public figures” sincerely apologize to people? Even if an apology comes occasionally, it seems so reluctant and embarrassing, and it is forced to make it under pressure. Let alone these "celebrities" and "public figures", even ordinary people have straight waists. It's okay to make them traitors, but to ask them to apologize? Even if you kill me, you won’t do it!
I have heard several conversations like this: "I'm sorry," "How much is I'm sorry for?"! I would say "I'm sorry" is worthless, but a sincere apology can literally save your life! Because we refuse to apologize, we lose the opportunity to heal the trauma of the victim; because we refuse to apologize, we lose the opportunity to recognize our mistakes, correct them, and improve ourselves; because we refuse to apologize, we lose the opportunity to redeem and improve our own image; Because we didn't apologize, we made things bigger and bigger, and even lost more property, time and even lives! Apologizing is worthless, but not apologizing will cost us more!
What is an apology? What exactly is an apology? Sincerely apologize to others for causing harm to others due to your own subjective mistakes or objective mistakes. It is first of all one's own understanding of mistakes and mistakes; secondly it is expressing sincere repentance to the victim; thirdly it is one's determination to correct it and never make it again; fourthly it is one's own quality, ability, mind, etc. that have been truly and truly recognized. improve. Apologizing is not "showing weakness", "losing face" or "being inferior", but a sign of high quality. Apology is a good habit, a person's character and a virtue!
In fact, the one who really benefits from apologizing to others is yourself. Only those who often apologize to others can continue to make progress and improve.
Many times both parties make mistakes. Party A said that Party B also made mistakes, so why should I apologize to him? Although this is a common saying, it sounds like a child and is a bit funny. Apology is a sincere repentance for one's wrong behavior, and it is a kind of one's own moral character. As a result, one can improve one's quality, ability, image, etc. What does it have to do with others? Do you really want to improve and get in and out together with the other person?
I am glad to see some parents letting their children apologize to others for their mistakes. But I often wonder, why is it so difficult for adults to apologize? Do only children make mistakes? Don’t we make mistakes as adults?
In the environment we live in, we often see several deformed apologies. 1. Kowtow and apologize as if you were pounding the head. This kind of apology is a coerced apology at gunpoint, a life-saving straw that the person involved has to grasp in order to survive. The person apologizing was completely forced and not sincere. The subtext may be: "Boy, if you are cruel, one day you will fall into my hands, and you will look good on me."
2. Apology issued by the court. If you don’t even realize your mistake, can your apology be sincere when the court decides? 3. Apologize as if the road is winding. Either they are complaining, they are looking for objective reasons, or they are even trying to show merit for themselves in disguised form. It seems that it is not that I have done anything wrong, but that I have made meritorious deeds and suffered.
In the environment we live in, almost everyone dares to shout: "I love you" loudly! But there are a few who are willing to say "I was wrong" loudly!
Recently, the Internet and the media are asking celebrities such as Li Yong and Yu Qiuyu to apologize.
Who is Li Yong? He is a famous CCTV host in China! Yu Qiuyu is also one of the few great writers in China! Make them apologize? This is not an international joke!
For a nation that most people don’t know and are unwilling to apologize for, I don’t know where the way out is? Where is the future?