2. Married life is not only life, but also needs time and energy to manage and build. Don't think that you can sit back and relax when you enter the besieged city of marriage, and you don't need to spend energy and thoughts to pay. If you think so, you are all wet. Only those who know how to maintain feelings can have a happy marriage, and only those who know that marriage is in constant affection can sublimate a loving marriage.
When marriage provides a place for love, love begins to accept everything in life. Pain, suffering, betrayal, a little trivial. Some people learned to betray in such a residence, some people suffered a lot in such a residence, and some people created pain in this residence and shared it with their lovers. But it is trivial and broken, which slowly and stubbornly breaks the aestheticism of love.
Marriage is like a car, loaded with the hopes of the whole family. We should learn to inflate when carrying a load. In this way, the car of marriage will have a safe journey and run to the happy site ahead.
What can be cultivated slowly is not love, but habit. What you can get with time is not emotion, but emotion. So love is a gift in an instant. There is something, and there is nothing. On the other hand, love and marriage are not the same thing. Not all love needs marriage, and not all marriages have love.
6. Don't think that there is something better behind, because what you have now is the best. Don't think that you can get married later just because you are still young. Love age is different. Don't give up because the distance is too far. Love can take the train with you. Don't give up just because the other person is not rich. As long as you are not incompetent, hard work can make you rich. Don't give up because your parents object, you will find that giving up love for this reason will be a lifelong regret. In fact, for love, the simpler the happier. It is best to fall in love only once in your life. If you experience too much, you will be numb. More separation will get used to it; If there are more couples, they will compare; In the end, you will stop believing in love; You will give up on yourself; You will be a walking corpse; You will marry someone you don't love and live like this for the rest of your life.
7. The reason why the war between the sexes continues is that men are too hard and women are too soft. If we communicate with each other and complement each other, the contradiction will be eased and the family will be more lovely than it is now.
8. Love can be an instant thing or a lifetime thing. Everyone can fall in love with different people at different times. No one can live without us. Forgetting makes us strong. Marriage is a way of life, not an ending. Love is also a way of life, not an ideal. Therefore, for them, love can be replaced, perhaps, they would rather be replaced.
9. True love should be mutual understanding, tolerance and appreciation at the spiritual level; Real family should also be mutual care, forgiveness and support at the spiritual level; Real marriage is a material guarantee based on true love, which maintains love and forms a family. Life is the enemy of spirit, and those fragile and ignorant love will be defeated.
10. The real premise for a long time between men and women is that women appreciate their men and men understand their women. Only in this way can the road to happiness go far. Any unilateral payment will be unhappy, and neither will be paid. Marriage is a tragedy.
1 1. Marriage is predestined, some are good, and both husband and wife have deep feelings and love each other forever; Some are bad karma, which is a sign that marriage is not smooth, and it is difficult for most couples to grow old together.
12. Marriage is like a golden birdcage. Birds outside the cage want to live in it, and birds inside the cage want to fly out. So knot and walk, walk and knot, no games.
13. What couples need first is honesty. Everyone either doesn't get married, or once they get married, they don't get divorced. Marriage should be run jointly by everyone, not unilaterally. Such a marriage will last for a long time.
14. It is said that a good marriage brings out the goodness of human nature, and a bad marriage brings out the badness of human nature. I hope you are the former, and all of us wish you the same. But if it's the latter, it's nothing. Who can always be so lucky? They don't have to blame each other, never admit their mistakes, care about what they have paid, and look for a better relationship that is more conducive to the growth of both sides. Marriage is only one of all human relationships, and it is no better or worse than other relationships.
15. The most important foundation of marriage is mutual love, appreciation, trust and emotional integration, as well as sharing responsibilities and obligations. Marriage is the starting point for both parties to move forward hand in hand on this basis. The order of entering marriage means that you can't escape, and you have to bear the responsibilities and obligations you must bear.
16. Your other half is not the one who swears that you won't marry or that you won't marry when you get married, but the one who still chooses you after discovering many shortcomings of you. Your other half is not the person who walks into the restaurant with you arm in arm after dark, but the person who is waiting for you to come back for dinner at the door. Your other half is not the one who loves to say "I love you" with you, but the one who talks to you about daily necessities. In a happy marriage, your partner is not a specific person, but you and t a have settled down for decades: a tacit understanding, a warmth, a plain understanding and an tolerance.
Life perception: classic sentences, words and proverbs.
1. What is happiness? It's not how much money you have, nor how much love you have, but the person you love loves you at the right time and by your side.
2. Have a kind and clear heart, laugh and cry happily. Not feminine, not aggressive, this life is just right.
Some losses are doomed, and some predestinations will never bear fruit. It doesn't have to be loved, but it must be loved.
We can't choose fate. The only thing we can choose is to live fearlessly when fate shows its ferocious side.
Time goes forward, and time can't go back, so as long as everything is over, don't regret and complain again.
6. When time steals the original intention of life, all that remains is hardship. So people always stay for a period of time and miss another period.
7. Honey, start a new habit. I am used to living alone every day and walking alone on my birthday. Accustomed to the familiar road you have traveled, you can't escape the familiar scenery, and you can't escape. Then, face the reality bravely. The reality is that everything comes to an end, and then you start striding forward.
8. One day, those who can't come back disappear, and those who can't leave don't care. Time will bring you the right person. Before that, all you have to do is take good care of yourself.
9. People don't really need too many things. As long as they live healthily and love sincerely, they can still be regarded as a kind of wealth.
10. Buddha said that talking to people you don't have a chance is nonsense. The destiny takes a hand's person, your existence can awaken all his feelings.
1 1. Many things can be done without my thinking. A lot of things, not what I want, I can get. I'm not staying. Many people can stay. No more struggle, no more struggle, I'm fine alone.
12. Time will tell me how I got through that difficult time. Time will also tell you how you lost someone who was willing to love you with his life.
13. No matter love or friendship, the ultimate goal is not home, but understanding and tacit understanding-that is, finding someone who can walk and talk, no matter when and what mood.
14. Our greatest weakness lies in giving up, and the only way to succeed is to start all over again.
15. Everything you have learned and every suffering you have suffered will come in handy at some point in your life.
16. Sometimes it is our choices that determine our lives. If you choose correctly, you will get twice the result with half the effort. If you make a wrong choice, you will work hard all your life and accomplish nothing.
Buddhist Zen language understands philosophical sentences and proverbs of life.
1. Some people say that life is like a bitter gourd. Even if soaked in water, fed in the temple and put in the mouth, the bitterness will not decrease. This is the essence of life's bitterness. Some people say that life is like a glass of boiled water, honey is sweet and salt is salty. In fact, the bitterness and joy of life come from one's own heart. The heart is bitter, and life is like an endless sea of suffering; The heart is sweet, and life is full of beautiful scenery.
The greatest sin in life is greed. The biggest stupidity in life is self-deception. The greatest enemy in life is selfish desire. The greatest self-destruction in life is betrayal. The greatest sin in life is jealousy. The greatest evil thought in life is lewdness. The greatest sin in life is unfilial. The biggest shortcoming in life is laziness. The biggest stupid thing in life is to be angry. The greatest evil in life is killing!
3. Only when people care too much about their own desires will they care about others' reactions. If they don't get what they want, they will feel very hurt. If you are greedy, it will be difficult for others to find and use your desire to achieve his goal. Trouble is self-caused. The more greedy, the more fragile, the more concerned about yourself, the more painful, the more wanting, the more lost, and the more hurt because of greed. The less desire, the more invincible. As the saying goes, no desire is just.
4. Clouds disappear because of the wind, and beauty is because of tolerance. Based on the world, patience; When dealing with people, patience is safe. The world is too big to bear; Although the river is wide, it is too wide to bear. One forbearance can make a hundred brave, and one silence can make a hundred moves. To be tolerant of others is to leave room for yourself. How big the world you live in depends on how wide your heart is. Understand tolerance, life will be broad, and life will be full of flowers and birds.
5. The mentality is not good. To put it bluntly, the heart is too small. The word "state" of mentality, taken apart, means that the heart is bigger. There is always an answer to everything. It is better to learn to accept it than to worry. Life is empty, the change between being and not being is life, and the mentality after the gain and loss determines the bitterness and joy. Fate does not refuse, territory does not stay, and gains and losses are underestimated. If the heart can grow bigger every day, how can the mentality be bad?
6. Life is nothing more than a cup of tea. No matter how dissatisfied you are, why bother! Strong or light, each has its own taste. Urgent or slow, so what? Warm or cold, smile at each other. Life is painful because you care. It hurts because of doubt. I am happy because I look down; I am happy because I am pessimistic. We are all passers-by in heaven and earth and can't be the masters of many people.
7. Care causes pain. Pain comes from body and mind. Modern people, the body is more and more comfortable, but the soul is more and more fragile. And the pain of the soul is the deepest injury. Half of our injuries come from the complicated world, and the other half comes from ourselves beyond our control. People who care want it and are afraid of losing it. The struggle for gain and loss distorts one's soul. When everything is bleak, everything will be safe and sound with your heart.
8. The first concept of learning Buddhism is never to look at the faults of all beings. If you can find your own shortcomings like others, then your life will be extraordinary. You always see the faults of all beings, which is polluting your heart. Every day, people who see all beings do something wrong need to repent. This is an exercise. If you don't forgive all beings, you are actually suffering.
9. Don't bemoan the injustice of the world. All you have lost is what doesn't belong to you. What you get is gradually disappearing, and nothing is our final result. Don't ignore the happiness closest to us, the things we are doing, the people we love, the lightness of mind and the freedom of spirit, which are irreplaceable wealth in life. Don't magnify the extravagant hopes that are too far away from us. Fantasy about the future will only inflate your desires and lose your feet.
10. Everything that appears in life can't be owned, only experienced. We are just passers-by of time, and one day, we will say goodbye to everything. Those who know this well will understand that there is no loss, just passing by; It doesn't matter what you get, it's just an experience. After that, no matter how beautiful, it can only be memories; Cherish what you get, and say goodbye calmly when you lose it.
Every word is a proverb.
I didn't fail. I just found 10,000 infeasible methods.
Whether a person can be happy or not, and the degree of happiness is determined by his own demand for satisfaction.
If you want to be happy, you must improve your satisfaction. Everything should be on the bright side, and contentment can make you happy.
Life is full of desires, like a passer-by. If he wants to carry everything on his shoulders, he will be very tired.
At this time, you need to learn to give up and start light.
Remember, if you ever need a helping hand, you can find it under your arm.
When you get old, you will find that you have two hands, one for helping yourself and the other for helping others.
Not all enterprises develop as fast as expected, not all people act as fast as expected, and not all decisions can be as fast as expected.
This is the charm of life, and we should adapt to the progress at different levels.
When we go through these seemingly frustrating progress, we can learn patience, perseverance and understanding.
When others are not as fast as us in analysis, action or study, we often become depressed and even angry.
On the contrary, we should tolerate them and accept them as they are.
In the environment, if others' behavior lacks justice and compassion, it is difficult to realize their own justice and compassion.
You will become an outcast, or even be expelled by others.
However, if you violate your principles, there is no need to go along with them.
You can still stick to the right choice even if no one appreciates it.
One day, your life will be improved, maybe not in a specific workplace, but it will definitely appear somewhere else.
Don't give up, let the candlelight continue to burn.
The greatest leaders are those who are full of confidence.
It is this self-confidence that distinguishes them from their followers, who believe that they will accomplish nothing without a guide.
Thought decides everything, it shapes attitude.
If we always think that we are nothing, then we are really nothing.
If we think we are excellent, we will also become excellent.
If we think we can get a position or successfully finish a job in the future, then we can certainly do it.
If we constantly adjust our actions towards the goal, it will become possible one day.
We should improve our moral cultivation in introspection every day and learn from others' strengths in courtesy and respect every day.
Always associate with people with gratitude, always cherish and make friends.
Pay and return are in direct proportion.
Pay good and good, pay bad and bad, choose good and bad.
Respect, wisdom, compassion, and great power are born from observing precepts.
Keeping precepts is a bodhisattva.
I think about the real friends I can trust and thank them.
At the same time, I try to make myself a true friend of others, caring, generous and trustworthy.
If a person wants to succeed, he must first rely on himself.
What do you rely on yourself? It relies on its positive attitude, indomitable spirit of overcoming difficulties and catching up, strong perseverance in the face of difficulties and indomitable will quality!
Husband and wife can't be reasonable, and the reasonable family is not harmonious; Husbands and wives should intercede, and intercessors will succeed.
Kindness, affection and morality between husband and wife are the basis of family prosperity.
Whether it is the law of karma or just the result of logical development, good luck really favors those who work hard, not those who just wait for luck.
Laziness breeds laziness, laziness leads to uselessness, and uselessness leads to depression.
Although we will encounter physical or mental challenges, we can engage in some activities to give us a sense of mission.
The more efforts we make, the stronger our ability will become, the higher the chance of being recognized by others, and finally we will get greater returns.
Whether you think you can do it or not, you are right.
We may find it ridiculous, but on important occasions in life, many people don't think for themselves.
They only consider details, but hand over major decisions to work units or government agencies.
This idea is harmful.
However, if we don't want to, we won't be victims.
We can think independently and choose our favorite path for the future.
You can also reflect on the people you admire and inspire yourself with their lives: they think independently, then put them into action and finally achieve their goals.
It is an eternal truth that hatred can never be dissolved. Only sympathy can dissolve hatred.
Confucius said: what you can't get is what you get, and what you get is what you lose. .
People always compare each other's family, career, lover, children, car and house in the process of looking forward and backward. Sometimes I feel better than others, and sometimes I feel that others are better than myself. It is in this involuntary comparison that they gain the courage to live a happy life.
Persistence is not only the need of survival, but also the need of the soul.
Persistence, from the outside, is a powerful force, and from the inside, it is an unparalleled wisdom waiting.
Persistence in space is the driving force, and persistence in time is the eternal charm.
Stick to the career you love and pursue a success and harvest. This is the value and significance of life.
Only by persisting can we gain something.
No matter whether you are in a prominent position, or in an ordinary street, or whether you are running around in a busy street or living in an idyllic landscape, as long as you persevere, you can ignore the gains and losses, honor and disgrace, and reputation in the eyes of ordinary people, and you can have a broad and natural life.
A person can achieve brilliant achievements only if he has a persistent spirit of life and career.
According to legend, Jingwei is the daughter of Emperor Yan. Because she was swimming in the East China Sea, she was unfortunately drowned and later became a bird. She often fills the East China Sea with wood and stones from the Western Hills. This is the legend of Jing Wei's reclamation, and it is also a spiritual model for her to adhere to her life goals.
Therefore, for the sake of our career and our life, we should always stick to it.
If weakness is the sadness and helplessness of life, and escape is the sinking and loss of will, then persistence is the sublimation and eternity of ideal.
If a stone has hope, it can go far and even become the most beautiful scenery in people's eyes, let alone a hopeful person. As a normal person, we came into this world. Although there are many things we can't predict, we can't change the laws of nature, but we can control our own destiny. We cannot predict the future, but we can grasp the present; We don't know how long our life is, but we can enjoy every day happily.
Hope is an endless pursuit, which contains endless beauty and light, just like a rainbow in a clear sky after rain.
As long as there is ambition, there is hope.
As long as we don't forget to give ourselves a hope every day, walk on the road with hope and keep moving forward, we can inspire the potential and creativity of life.
We will be able to have a colorful and brilliant life.
The eternal truth in the world is change.
Only by changing your wrong thoughts, wrong behaviors and wrong intentions can you be lucky all your life.
At present, there is nothing lacking in the world. There are benevolent people who have a heart, a heart and a conscience, and people who have no moral heart, a heart and a conscience.
The ancient geomantic omen is about time, place, people and harmony. Time is not as good as place, and place is not as good as harmony with people.
I said that timing is conscience, geography is behavior, and human harmony is words.
Only when you have a conscience can you be a man, only when you have the right behavior can you do great things, and only when you have the forbearance of words can you be calm and everything go smoothly.
Only in this way can the best feng shui come to you.
Good popularity can not only win more support for you, but also subtly transform many relationships.
For example, if you establish a friend relationship with a customer that transcends ordinary interests, you will think more about him. At this time, your service attitude and service concept will undergo fundamental changes.
Customers treat you the same way.
When they regard you as a friend, they will try their best to promote more cooperation with each other, which forms a benign interaction.
And you will introduce more friends to each other, which will expand your interpersonal circle and strive for more chances of success.
The first time you have premarital sex, you start to lose energy. ()
If you masturbate, go whoring, seduce other people's wives or husbands, etc. That would be more harmful and unlucky, and your life would be unhappy.
If you are hurt, Feng Shui will be bad, and you will often encounter bad luck, wicked people and bad environment; When you are sad, you will have money but no happiness, you will get sick, you will be troubled and you will be worried.
The spirit should be used more to serve the people and the country, which is the real self-interest.
More and more professionals are beginning to clearly realize that down-to-earth is the key factor to realize their dreams and achieve their careers, while self-righteousness and arrogance are the biggest enemies of down-to-earth
If you always think you are superior and behave smarter than others, then you will disdain to do other people's work, trivial things and basic things.
After a long time, you will become opportunistic, lack basic knowledge and experience in your work, and the realization of your ideals and goals will become a flower in the mirror and a moon in the water.
A man with goals is practical and happy. .
Because when a person has no goal, his eyes are blank, unfocused and unable to focus.
Such people should listen to Confucius and play games. It is better to play mahjong and chess than to waste your life for no reason.
Therefore, it is better to be busy in a down-to-earth manner than to dream in an empty way.
In a popular saying: look up at the stars, but keep your feet on the ground. .
Under every romantic idea, please pad a solid stone first.
My heart is often like a restless child, and it is easy to feel bored and distracted.
Today, I want to find a way to calm my heart.
Choose the way you like, it can be yoga, meditation, or just quiet meditation.
Today, I will start to try to make myself have a calm mind.
If you want to impress others, don't put in a good word for yourself.
People can't take money to the grave when they die, but if money is improperly made and used, it will send people to the grave.
I am alert to my self-awareness to prevent it from developing to a dangerous level, thus generating delusional thoughts.
Open your heart to change, observe, listen and learn.
If we take it seriously, all problems, disputes and differences can be solved quickly and to the satisfaction of both sides.
If you treat unpleasant things as interesting experiences, you will get different results.
Just as a soldier needs to be alert to the external environment to defend his country, we should always look at our own hearts to protect ourselves.
Men should have no temper in sex, no selfish desires in thought, no bad hobbies in body, eating, drinking, whoring, gambling and smoking. Don't do these things.
Don't talk about complacency to frustrated people, lest you get carried away; When you are in prosperity, don't forget, when you are frustrated, beware of joy and sadness.
Those who want to be wise in the world in ancient times should rule their country first: those who want to rule their country. Want to run the family first: Want to run the family first. Cultivate their bodies first; People who want to repair their bodies. Correct his heart first.
One day, a man went to visit Socrates, a great Greek philosopher, and wanted to share with him something he heard from one of Socrates' students.
Before the man was ready to share his gossip, Socrates stopped him and asked him if he had passed the triple screening test: (1) Are you absolutely sure what you are going to say is true? The answer is no.
Do you want to say it well? The answer is no.
Is what you have to say useful to me? The answer is no again.
So Socrates refused to listen to this myth.
We can use the gossip time to discuss some creative ideas.
Many people are calling for goals, not setting them.
I am determined to do something that makes me feel happy and satisfied.
I did something beneficial to others and added a new deposit to my emotional account.
Many people give their lives to feng shui masters and ask me if I believe it or not. I said that my behavior determines the fate of Feng Shui: Feng Shui is good for people who often laugh; Always a kind person, life is beautiful.
The first-class feng shui is in yourself, not in the hands of the master, otherwise the master will earn money to support his family by showing you feng shui?
Dojo has no law, just like a person without soul.
Parents are the root of fate and the source of good fortune.
Filial piety is a place to pray. Everyone should learn to pray for blessings and change their lives, relying on themselves instead of praying to God and worshiping Buddha, rather than relying on fortune tellers.
Life is actually very simple. Behind simplicity is that people who don't compete with themselves are doomed to be unhappy.
The sun rises and the earth shines.
This is the initial happiness of each of us.
A person's practice of Buddhism is definitely not to be ungrateful and heartless, but to be a dead tree and a cold rock.
How can a heart without love raise joy and kindness? A heart that has never had true love can never have great love.
If you want to learn Buddhism, then you'd better not talk about the equality of all beings, but start with a little love for everyone around you and know compassion, trust and tolerance.
To tolerate others is actually to tolerate yourself.
Everyone has his own ideas, and how to think is up to him.
Similarly, everyone has his own happiness, and whether he is happy or not depends on himself.
You decide your own thoughts and arrange your own happiness, so that you can have a happy life.
A family dispute, or a struggle between individuals, is never right, and all the participants are wrong.
Be firm in will, bitter in heart, and work hard. No matter how big or small, you will achieve something.
Perseverance and perseverance are like the condensation of sand and stones and the accumulation of water droplets on a thousand-mile embankment, which is spectacular; Perseverance, perseverance, is like a silkworm spinning continuously. Only with a little persistence can we break through the cocoon and see the brilliance again. Perseverance and perseverance are like the sails of a long-distance ship. With sails, ships can reach the other side of success.
Everyone is eager for success, and fighting for it is like running to a distant goal.
But the road is rugged and long, and there are all kinds of obstacles hidden on the road.
Only persevering people, with firm steps, unremitting pursuit, tenacious perseverance and unshakable perseverance spirit, can bathe in the sunshine of victory and taste the joy of success.
Even if all the laws are abolished, the wise will still live the same life as before.
We live in such a society, eloquence seems to be crucial, although words are full of empty promises and meaningless nonsense.
We can all imagine such a person, as described by Lincoln above: talkative but concise.
Unfortunately, many supervisors and managers don't understand this. They tend to reward those who talk big, and are always moved by their blunt words, without deeply considering whether these people can do it.