However, the biggest difference between Feng-Chiao Lin and Ma Yili is that Feng-Chiao Lin retired very early and did not continue to work hard in the entertainment circle, so relatively speaking, he did not have such strong economic conditions. Ma Yili is different. After Ma Yili's comeback, he became popular again with My First Half Life. She has acting skills and a position in the entertainment circle. She is not short of money and has a strong heart, so even if she gets divorced, it's no big deal.
Therefore, Feng-Chiao Lin and Ma Yili chose to forgive and not forgive for two reasons. First, they treat their feelings in different ways, and second, they are related to independent economic conditions.
0 1. Everyone has different feelings. Jackie Chan and Wu Qili are together, and Wu Qili is pregnant, which caused a great sensation. Jackie Chan also famously said: I just made a mistake that men all over the world will make. ? Release yourself and forgive yourself. And in fact, after the incident was exposed, Jackie Chan was very relaxed. He thinks he can finally divorce Feng-Chiao Lin.
But Feng-Chiao Lin's reaction was not anger or divorce, but telling Jackie Chan that you should mind your own business, and you don't have to worry about it here.
On the contrary, this reaction made Jackie Chan very moved and strengthened his determination to be with her. Jackie wanted a divorce, but was moved by Feng-Chiao Lin's response. He bequeathed all his property to Feng-Chiao Lin.
We often say that we are not a family and do not enter a house. So did Feng-Chiao Lin and Jackie Chan. Jackie Chan and Feng-Chiao Lin have been married for many years, and they even had a child. However, they never trusted Feng-Chiao Lin, and they didn't dare to give her the money until Jackie Chan's cheating was exposed.
I have to say that both of them know each other. Maybe they don't love Jackie Chan, but she must win this marriage because she still has a son. Maybe he thinks it's no big deal for men to cheat on each other outside.
At that time, see you on monday really shocked many people, and Ma Yili's leaving and cherishing also made many fans angry. She was not an independent and strong woman as everyone imagined. But we are not the parties, and we can't understand how the ants felt at that time. Ma Yili may not be intolerant of the article, but she tried and failed.
02. Independent economic conditions are very important. One of the biggest reasons why Feng-Chiao Lin forgave Jackie Chan is that Jackie Chan's wealth is huge, and Jackie Chan's position in the entertainment circle is unshakable. And this Feng Jiao quit the entertainment circle after they got married, so she is relatively incapable of making money. If she chooses to divorce, she can only get a little compensation from Jackie Chan at most.
Therefore, Feng-Chiao Lin is very clever. He chose to trust Jackie Chan and let Jackie Chan handle this matter. Jackie Chan was even more moved and chose to give her all his money. These are definitely what Feng Jiao wants.
Ma Yili was already a famous actor before he married Wen, and his economic conditions and fame were all linked. After the article was derailed, his reputation declined sharply and he couldn't get any good plays. In contrast, Ma Yili, one play after another, the script is good. The most important thing is that every play has received a very good response. These are all things that make Ma Yili more confident.
For women, it is more important for men who leave to have their own economic conditions and income to make life worry-free.
It is also very important that Feng-Chiao Lin and Ma Yili are from different times. People in Feng-Chiao Lin's time may think that it is acceptable as long as their husbands are willing to come back. Ma Yili is a woman in the new era. She thinks she can get along safely, but she can't get along and get divorced.
Two people are completely different people, and they treat their feelings in completely different ways.