they have never experienced the happiness and happiness they have: sometimes they complain that their parents don't understand themselves, but they don't know that it is a blessing to be glad that their parents are alive; Sometimes complain that children are naughty, mischievous and disappointing, but they don't know how to be proud of healthy and lively children; Sometimes I complain that my work is not satisfactory and my income is not satisfactory, but I don't want to think that there are many unemployed people who have no jobs. In order not to be worse than others, people who compare with others try their best to make money and work hard for houses, cars, tickets, face, etc., and they are tired a lot; Health, a lot worse, and in this endless comparison, my friend, can you know that your happiness and happiness have quietly passed away?
keeping up with the joneses is not the same as enterprising and competing, just as life is not the same as pursuing fame and profit. In fact, life doesn't need to be too complete. Knowing that everyone's life is lacking, you won't make unnecessary comparisons with others. On the contrary, you will cherish everything you have. Sometimes happiness is not to desperately pursue what you want, but to cherish what you have now. Want to get happiness and happiness is actually very simple and easy to achieve; But if you want to be happier than others, it is very difficult to achieve. If you understand that you already have a lot, and accept and treat the missing part well, your life will be much happier.
So we don't have to envy other people's beautiful gardens, because you also have your own paradise. Fate has given us joy and opportunity, but it has also given us regret and suffering. We don't need to complain and cringe. Clouds gather, flowers bloom and flowers fall, cold comes and summer goes, spring comes and winter goes, stay and go at will, not be happy with things, not sad for yourself, keep a normal heart, face everything in life smartly, cherish the life you have and enjoy it, refuse to compare, be content with peace and tranquility, and treat life with openness and tolerance, which will reduce a lot of helplessness and troubles and increase happiness and sunshine. And these are enough to make you happier!
It is only a fleeting moment in the long river of history to refuse a mediocre life. However, in this extremely short period of time, how many people have spent their fleeting time and wasted their so-called years in vain, and have come to this world in ignorance, and will leave this world with a sigh. I refuse this life!
In contrast, I'd rather make waves on the sea and fight against the strong wind. I'd like to be the snow on the top of the Himalayas all the year round, attracting brave people to climb. I'd like to be a boulder standing on Easter Island, which makes countless tourists daydream, but I don't want to be mediocre or lead a monotonous life day after day.
Life is like running water, which originates from an unknown stream and winds its way to rivers and seas. What a pity and sorrow it would be if this road is always bright sunshine and vast plains, unable to experience the ever-changing nature and touch the valleys of the earth. A drop of water is always a mediocre drop of water, and what changes is only time and space.
if we can experience the changeable situation, the mountains are high and the water is deep, we can roar in the wind, accommodate in the rain, water in the dry place, pour in the steep place, swing in the winding place, and strike at the obstacles, and finally the stream will flow to the sea. Although a drop of water is still a drop of water, it has experienced and felt all the stirring process from the stream to the sea, and it is no longer a drop of mediocre water.