Zhong Gong asked Ren. Confucius said, "Being away from home will surely make people happy with big sacrifices. Do as you would be done by. You have no complaints at home and no complaints at home. " Zhong Gong said, "Yong is not sensitive, please tell me!"

2. The Analects of Wei Linggong's "Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you" comes from The Analects of Wei Linggong, which means: Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you. Generally speaking, don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you. The specific understanding mainly includes the following three aspects. First, "Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you" comes from yourself. When you get along with others, you should not lose yourself, but also think of others. Secondly, empathy is the psychological mechanism of "don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you". Empathy is the basic way of empathy. When a person has friction with others, it is easy to resolve the contradiction if he can consider the problem from the other side's standpoint. The key is to pay close attention to each other and go deep into their inner world. Thirdly, you can't impose what you like on others. What you like is not necessarily what others like. If you impose what you like on others, it is another form of coercion, which is fundamentally contrary to the connotation of "don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you". For example, if you smoke, it is immoral for you to let others smoke. For example, if you give gifts, others will not accept them. There are many reasons why you want others to force you.

"Zi Gong asked,' Who can walk all his life without saying a word?' Confucius said,' Forgive me. Do as you would be done by. '