It's not that men can't see this small means of using women. He pretended not to understand and was willing to cooperate with each other. This is his gratitude for love. The person who cares about you may not say I love you every day, but he will always keep this love in his heart and then penetrate into every bit of life. He knows that everything you do is friendly, so he won't be exposed. It is also the tacit cooperation and love between husband and wife. "Routine" men will not only be angry, but also find this kind of woman particularly cute and interesting, and enjoy it.
In the TV series "The Queen of the Palace", Zhen Xuan was framed by Hua Fei when she was pregnant for the first time, which caused her to miss the baby. After the emperor entered the palace, he did not punish the trade princess for fear of Nian Gengyao's camp, which made Zhen Xuan feel dissatisfied and angry. As a result, there was a gap between her and the emperor. Zhen Xuan, who lost the emperor's favor, found it difficult to survive in the palace. On weekdays, she was jealous of concubines and took revenge when she was put in limbo. JiFei let the maid fan Zhen Xuan a box on the ear, and let her kneel down and think openly.
Through this humiliating life experience, Zhen Xuan learned the way to live in the palace-there is no future without the emperor's spoil and shelter. In winter, she tried her best to find butterflies, scented her cloak with bouquets, and when she met the emperor again in the snow in Meiyuan, she repeated the classic dialogue with the emperor after the first meeting, which deeply touched the emperor's heart.
When the emperor ran to help Zhen Xuan, accompanied by a gorgeous turn, butterflies emerged from the cloak and flew all over the sky, and the emperor was fascinated. All the concubines were dumbfounded. When someone shouts, "Where do butterflies come from in winter?" The emperor smiled. "No matter where it came from."
In fact, the emperor never learned to let go of Zhen Xuan in his mind. Maybe he doesn't know how weird the butterfly in Zhen Xuan's cloak is? Of course I know! She didn't ask, but she was willing to become a routine in Zhen Xuan and enjoy it. For women who are willing to make trouble for themselves and use "routines", men generally give face and men will attach great importance to it. They will feel useful if they are serious about women.