With relevant information, let me talk about my views on this incident:

For most industries, 39-year-old should be regarded as a young adult, a backbone connecting the preceding with the following, and a backbone member of the company. However, for programmers, the age of 39 is absolutely old. Programmers' daily work pressure and long working hours, coupled with the rapid development of science and technology, many programmers have experienced physical degradation after the age of 35, and their technical level has gradually failed to keep up with the requirements of the times, so they have to face the reality of being eliminated by the industry.

I don't know if Mr. Gu in the news is also a programmer on the verge of retirement, and I don't know what his plans are for the future. Is he going to start retirement from the age of 39?

Mr. Gu in the news suffers from leg disease, and it looks quite serious. However, he couldn't spare a little time to maintain his body before entering the nursing home. This also reflects that many young people in sub-healthy state in today's society have to work hard in a high-intensity and high-rhythm working environment for a long time because of life.

if this happens in the whole society, I think this is the problem of this society. Many times, we blindly pursue high-speed economic development, but ignore the basic concept of people-oriented.

Compared with other residents in nursing homes, Mr. Gu is definitely a young man. In addition, he is engaged in the network industry and is very proficient in modern communication tools such as mobile phones and computers. Living with Mr. Gu is also a kind of help and improvement for the old people. And Mr. Gu can also enjoy this slow-paced life, which is killing two birds with one stone.

I think this is also an inspiration to the operators of nursing homes. Nursing homes do not have to be open to the elderly, and eligible young people can also be allowed to live in nursing homes if they need it. A helpless move has become the envy of everyone.

Recently, Mr. Gu, a 39-year-old single programmer, fell at home two years ago and caused synovitis. Because there was no one to take care of him at home, he was admitted to a nursing home at the suggestion of his aunt.

To Mr. Gu's surprise, his helpless action was seriously "blessed" by many people. Envying that he was still in his prime, he fled the overtime life in 996, resumed his healthy work and rest from 6 to 9, basked in the sun every day, exercised, and chased dramas and made long queues when he was free.

Some friends even said that they had seen what happened to Mr. Gu, and tears of envy flowed down from the corners of their mouths unwillingly. Regular work and rest, regular meals, and no need to wash dishes, what can I ask for with such a life?

Some people say that Mr. Gu's "happy life" undoubtedly points out a wise choice for young single dog people who can't afford a house and live by renting, that is, instead of spending money on renting, why not spend money on nursing homes? There are people who take care of three meals a day, and the room is cleaned. It's also quick to bask in the sun and play cards with those old people in their seventies and eighties! In the future, there may be a magical phenomenon that the elderly in nursing homes are unwilling to enter and the young people are crushed. There are deep-seated reasons behind the popularity of "nursing home life"

I believe many people still remember the recent abnormal death of two young employees in Pinduoduo within 1 days.

In the early morning of December 29th last year, 23-year-old Zhang Xfei and her colleagues died suddenly on their way home from work.

On January 9th, it was only half a year since he joined the post of technical development engineer in Pinduoduo. Tan Molin, who had just passed the probation period, committed suicide by jumping from his home on the 27th floor on January 9th, the day after he went home on leave.

Why did Tan Moulin suddenly ask for leave? Why did you jump off a building just one day after you got home? What happened to him that made him so afraid?

loudly appeal to this media: refuse to "exchange your life for money"! Reject inefficient overtime!

This may indirectly prove why so many young people are so envious of 39-year-old programmers staying in nursing homes!

Life is not easy. Everyone is like a clockwork alarm clock, and can't stop for a moment.

because you are still young, you have an old age, a car loan and a mortgage to pay, children have to go to kindergarten training classes for tutors, and older children have to pay tuition and living expenses when they go to college. All these decide that you can't stop.

When you see this 39-year-old happy brother in a nursing home with tired eyes, is there any reason not to envy him?

The youngest single programmer in a nursing home in Chongqing is 39 years old and still single. After his father died of cancer, he went to a nursing home to recuperate. Sunbathing without stress every day, using fitness equipment to exercise, watching TV, chatting, playing cards and sunbathing with aunts and uncles. Behind this joy, there is a programmer's sadness.

First of all, the 39-year-old body entered a nursing home, which shows the great intensity of work. The high salary of internet wages is just an illusion, and many people use it for two or three people. Programmers spend their youth day after day, year after year in shifts and overtime. When some programmers just joined the job, they will also hear the glorious deeds of some old comrades, such as who went to ICU and was rescued. Some employees have related rescue calls on their badges.

The sudden death of a programmer has basically become a tacit fact. As for why no one is making trouble, I can only say that there will be brave men under the four rewards. The related benefits, even wages, are really generous. But nowadays, with the increasing saturation of the industry, any profession is not so easy to do. It can only be said that taking care of your health is more important than anything else.

Let's take a look at the nature of Internet companies. Most of them work in shifts. After working overtime until the early hours of the morning, taxis and black car drivers are the most enthusiastic about you. Even if you are in love, the other party will consider: "What are you doing? Why don't you reply to my message." If you have a home, your career will be delayed. If you have a career, you may not have a home. Feelings these days, once there is little communication, break up in discord everywhere.

Working in a high-pressure environment for a long time, the endocrine market, male function is reduced, and sometimes even self-doubt is a "sexual impotence". Money is earned, but there is no health, and no woman wants to spend her life with such a man. When you reach a certain age, you have to face elimination. It is said that the middle-aged crisis, programmers at a certain age began to add classes, will be eliminated by the industry, or transferred to middle and low posts, wages plummeted.

At the same time, I also remind those other industries that programmers are still like this, especially other industries with higher substitution, which may have begun to exclude you at the age of 3. In addition to the stability of the system, institutions and state-owned enterprises, the rest can only constantly improve themselves. Don't be afraid of the dismissal of enterprises, and don't be afraid of the closure of enterprises. As long as you have the ability, you will still have a bite to eat wherever you go.

With the epidemic, young people are facing the most difficult employment season. In the last century, college students were really popular. Now, with the expansion of colleges and universities, college students are becoming more and more common. Many college students have studied for four years, and there are many people who go out to change careers. In the first year of graduation, it is obvious that people have been divided, and some people have entered large enterprises with rich welfare and treatment. Some people can only work in small and medium-sized enterprises In this way, after three to five years, the gap between people is even greater.

I hope this programmer can cheer up, keep healthy, and a better tomorrow beckons to him. Come on, migrant workers, migrant workers, migrant workers are all talented people!

A 39-year-old IT guy in Chongqing stumbled into a nursing home because of synovitis. Every day, I bask in the sun, chat with my grandparents, and catch up with the drama to "support my life." I am in a good mood, optimistic, fat and comfortable.

as soon as the news came out, there were different opinions. Unfriendly netizens said: decadent, degenerate, cowardly, mixed eating and so on. This is a bit extreme. Judging from the boy's manners, it's not so serious.

for one thing, it feels cheaper than staying in a hospital, and the environment is good. There is an "epidemic" now, and hospitals can't just go in, which can't fix "COVID-19".

secondly, consider yourself tired from walking and have a rest. Grandparents here are all old "immortals" who can give themselves life experiences.

In the past, there was a "cart shop" near my home, which was very cheap or even free. The day before or in the middle of the night, many peasant brothers rushed from home to the city to sell vegetables. They all have to go into the store to have a rest, and then they will go into town in good spirits.

they said that people were tired after walking all night, so they had a rest. Drink horses, and I'll eat and rest, so that I can go to town to sell vegetables.

In fact, the peasant brothers regard the "cart shop" as a "post station" on their journey, cultivate their self-cultivation and move on. I think this "little old man" of ours must be the same.

It's true that my leg is ill. There must be some reasons, such as tired work, complicated interpersonal relationship, loneliness when my parents are away, and loneliness in living alone. Nursing home for him, there is no competition, no interpersonal relationship combing. There are parents and grandfathers who witness their calmness, listen to their teachings and feel their mood. What's wrong?

just wait, I believe, when the young man has a good rest, maybe a lively raptor will be born.

don't stop me, I want to go. But there must be people who don't want to go, or they really can't go.

I have a colleague who studies relationship strategies. What leader is here, just two words "cozy". And what about him? I also enjoy this kind of comfort that makes leaders feel comfortable, and I enjoy the pleasure of promotion in the workplace. This kind of person certainly can't go to a nursing home, and going there is equivalent to suffering.

I have a classmate who is a master of poetry and distance. Cosplay and exotic customs are irresistible to him. Staying up late is the norm, and a fat house is suicide. This kind of person can't go to a nursing home, and going there is equivalent to suffering.

I have a teacher who is a layman who can't forget the trivial things in life. There are old people in the world, and filial care should be taken for the elderly; Be strict with children, whether they are young or young. He found responsibility and meaning in the troubles of trivial things in life. This kind of person can't go to a nursing home. He has too many important things to do.

At the same time, there are enough open-minded people around me.

An old comrade can write hundreds of thousands of words in his reading notes every year (it's really good and can be published); A young man, who spent five years writing a novel of more than 2 million words (the writing is so bad that no one pays people to read it); A middle-aged man can pull 3 pull-ups in one breath (it's really good to practice, so it's definitely not a loss to go out and fight).

Of course, there are also some people who have developed wonderful personalities.

An old man obsessed with Buddhism recently divorced his daughter-in-law, not because of bad feelings, but because he wanted to stay away from the world of mortals. However, the husband and wife are still together, because the mage needs the support of the layman, in short, someone has to cook.

an older young man will never get married. The reason is that being with someone for a long time has three results: one is that he thinks people are out of their minds; One is that people think he is out of his mind; Another is that they think each other is out of their minds.

There is also an older young woman who chased the single young people in the unit as soon as she entered the unit, but no one could catch up. He is not ugly, but he just can't find a boyfriend. So, there is no reason, the initial reason is that it has nothing to do with falling in love.

Another wonderful work is being a leader. What he enjoys most is playing politics, and he is well versed in larded and imperial art.. However, there are always more than a dozen people in a unit, and his skill of killing dragons really can't be used. The result of playing the eighteen palms of the dragon in the pond is not that all the fish are killed, but that there are no fish to be friends with him.

I am middle-aged. Therefore, most of these people are middle-aged or over middle-aged. This statistical sample is not universal because it focuses on the middle-aged circle. But there should be many similar situations with this 39-year-old programmer.

It is an escape to say that entering a nursing home is discrimination against the elderly.

as long as people are alive, they can create transactions. I can't get up in bed, but I can still order a takeaway with my mobile phone, which is also a contribution to society. The era in which we live is no longer a relative shortage of material, but a relative surplus of material. Therefore, as long as he is still alive, he can create a deal, which is good for society. Entering a nursing home has created a huge deal. Therefore, entering the nursing home itself is a contribution.

different lifestyles, which is better or worse? It depends on whether you like it or not. Since it is a question of liking or not, it is a question of value. The value problem cannot be rationally deduced to seek truth. Because there is no point in seeking truth, it is not a question of truth or falsehood, but a question of good or bad. Which is better, to support the elderly in a nursing home, to write poems in the distance, or to live in a fat house at home? As long as you like it, reason can't give an answer.

There is nothing wrong with nursing homes, and there is no need to belittle this lifestyle.

If you keep asking, it's not a question of whether you can enter a nursing home, but a question of how a person should live after middle age.

or, if you ask further, it's not a clear age division, but a question of finding meaning and setting goals for yourself.

The Napoli Tetralogy has two protagonists, Anabel and Elena.

Elena keeps climbing. In primary school, she wants to win the first place. In middle school, she should work harder; After going to college and squeezing into the city, she has to work hard to enter the world of the upper class. She has been in school all her life, the content is competition, and the experience is customs clearance. She is proud of being admitted to the university, and she is proud of being among the upper class.

and Anabel? Anabel is smarter and more creative, and everything she does is so different. But because of family reasons, she dropped out of school, worked in a shoe store at home and lived an ordinary life. However, ordinary life has given Anabel more creativity. There is no need for her to reconcile with the world, to compromise with life, and to experience this rich world with her genius wisdom.

Elena, who squeezed into the upper class, saw Anabel again. Elena thought she could finally beat Anabel. However, she was wrong. Because she still can't compete with Anabel.

On one occasion, Elena took Anabel to a gathering of upper-class intellectuals, and deliberately left Anabel aside to embarrass her, and talked with the upper-class people herself. Elena thought she could beat Anabel, but she was wrong again. After the party, Anabel said to Elena, You guys just talk to each other and nobody listens.